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Rowan Pelling

@RowanPelling

Writer, dawdler, escaped eroticist, liberal, lifelong barmaid - still listening. Editor Perspective, former editrice The Erotic Review.

Cambridge Katılım Mayıs 2014
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
The side of my brain that deals with ethics and basic humanity strongly agrees and yet I know how deeply I've been moved by contemplating the long-dead in museums. The Hunterian is unwholesome, educational and... fascinating. I'm glad they've removed Charles Byrne's skeleton but they haven't given it the burial at sea he asked for.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
Should we gawp at the remains of the dead in museums and galleries? I confess to conflicted feelings in this piece: it feels unethical to disinter so many remains and yet the macabre side of me love the Hunterian Museum: telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/03/1…
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Alice Salisbury
Alice Salisbury@alicesalisburyj·
My son (16) gave me permission to share this as an e.g. of unusual seizures. He’d like people to be more familiar with seizures where you don’t fall For 3 hours yesterday he could only say the nonsense sentence ‘every thrawn, every thring’. To him it sounded like normal speech
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Wren@AnarchaWren·
@RowanPelling @Frances_Coppola It doesn't matter literally at all because this question presumes, erroneously, that Naomi would be somehow immune to cognitive dissonance. Why is this hypothetical scenario worth more than the actual verifiable things she's saying and doing?
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Frances 'Cassandra' Coppola
Frances 'Cassandra' Coppola@Frances_Coppola·
Autistic people are understandably angry and scared at Uta Frith's attempt to wipe out their hard-won diagnoses, which for many would mean losing the reasonable accommodations and support on which they rely. Perhaps you could try practising empathy. After all, it's not your life that would be torn apart if polcymakers used Frith's beliefs to justify reducing the support available to autistic people, is it?
Naomi Fisher@naomicfisher

We started a podcast with the deliberate aim of talking to a range of voices. We had had enough of the polarisation and mudslinging of social media. We went to significant effort to seek out different perspectives. Our criterion was not whether they agreed with us, but whether we thought they would have an interesting angle to add. We made it clear in the podcast that the views of the guests did not necessarily represent those of the hosts. From the start we wanted this to be a space where people explained their ideas so that the listener could understand and make up their own mind. We wanted to model openness and tolerance of disagreement. We wanted to do something different to what happens on social media. When we released our first episode, with Dame Uta Frith, we quickly discovered why these conversations are impossible. She said things which some people disagreed with, and as a result they blamed us for platforming her. There was little reasoned discussion of her ideas, and a lot of flinging of mud. People I had worked with and who I respected recorded videos about the harm I was causing and how disappointed they were. Others made huge assumptions about what we, as interviewers thought, including dismissing the suffering and experience of others and having a right wing agenda to cut benefits. Things that Uta had not said were attributed to her, and by association to us. Immediately, our other podcast guests started to withdraw. People whose work I really respected and who had fascinating things to say backed away, scared perhaps that they too would be tainted by association. Their viewpoints were very different to Uta and that is exactly why we asked them. Just like when we interviewed Uta, we wanted to really hear and understand what they had to say. That won’t be possible now. There’s something going on in the online autism world, and it’s not healthy. Many people are terrified to say what they think, for fear of the sort of thing that has happened to me this week. Useful and valid viewpoints are not being heard. Self-censuring is rife. Online shaming has been normalised. As a result, the growth of knowledge is stifled. If you disagree with what Uta Frith said and you’d like to come on our podcast, please email me. We’d love to have you. neurosense.substack.com/p/why-we-need-…

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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
I'm sure she doesn't. Let's try and put this another way. At the moment around 42.2 per cent of private school kids get extra time compared to 26.5 per cent of state school. That's manifestly unfair - it's clearly harder for poorer families to get support and diagnosis. That's something I feel passionate about, withone child who was, at times, diabolically failed in state education. But it leaves us with a question. Should around 42.2 per cent of people get extra time in exams? Or are private school kids over-diagnosed with disorders (which may not be the case, perhaps they are in private ed as state school failed them). Can we never question anything?
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Charles Spencer
Charles Spencer@cspencer1508·
Well, this morning looks promising….
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Helena Horton
Helena Horton@horton_official·
Professional news: from tomorrow I am spending some time on the National news team at the Guardian. This means I am moving from writing about the environment to….anything I want. Both exciting and daunting in equal measure. Please tell me stories!
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Clash Report@clashreport·
Reporter: You just suggested that Iran somehow got its hands on a Tomahawk and bombed its own elementary school on the first day of the war. Why are you the only person saying this? Trump: Because I just don’t know enough about it.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@annbauerwriter @AConcernedPare2 It feels very different in the UK - perhaps because the left-leaning press is a relatively small sector of the media market. I reckon the Times and the Telegraph run pieces on polyamory because they know you can never underestimate good old-fashioned British prurience.
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Ann Bauer
Ann Bauer@annbauerwriter·
@RowanPelling @AConcernedPare2 I would agree with that if these pieces ran consistently. But there has been an onslaught in the sex-positive, trans, progressive era and the publications that tend to run them also support very left of center politics. Look at 2014. How many MSM polyamory articles were there?
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AConcernedParent
AConcernedParent@AConcernedPare2·
Enough with the polyamory propaganda. Why is MSM desperately trying to normalize this?
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
I disagree, in my experience it makes readers cross, jittery and therefore more likely to turn to the consolations of traditional family set-ups. But I do write for the Daily Telegraph.
Farmer Bob@UKnowwho222

@RowanPelling @annbauerwriter @AConcernedPare2 With the result that it weakens the family and empowers the government. You don’t get to divorce the consequences from the actions.

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Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@annbauerwriter @AConcernedPare2 Speaking as someone who sometimes pontificates on this kind of topic for the MSM, I disagree. They run pieces on polyamory because it titillates (some) and also riles traditional readers - resulting in guaranteed clicks and reads. That's certainly true in the UK.
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Ann Bauer
Ann Bauer@annbauerwriter·
@AConcernedPare2 Because it weakens the family and thereby gives more power to government. I will die on this hill.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
Fascinating to see a small number of women who are clever, singular, blunt to the point they don’t care about being liked being accused of being tone-deaf/bullying on the topic of autism by people who say their diagnosed difference means they come across in ways that mean others profoundly misunderstand them. Is it just possible that everyone in this debate is nowhere near neurotypical (my least favourite word)? My habitual assessment of friends and their kids is “normal for Cambridge”.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@Richard23287873 When one of my sons started secondary school there was a boy in his year who could recite Pi to several hundred places.
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Richard Baron
Richard Baron@Richard23287873·
@RowanPelling Normal for Cambridge = Normal. It is the rest of the universe that is out of step.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
Naomi has been very helpful to me and many other parents of school avoiding children. Good science and better understanding is surely all about asking questions? Closing people/conversations down - you or her - feels unhelpful. For what it's worth, the best neuroscientist I know says all our blunt diagnoses will be obsolete in 30 years and everyone will be treated on individual criterion. I guess we will find out if WWIII doesn't blast us all away first.
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ADHDDude
ADHDDude@DudeAdhd·
I have done this as screen capture because I will be blocked. I find this dismissive attitude about autistic or ADHD masking to be extremely problematic. Naomi has had a huge following in the SEND community. I would advise parents to give her a wide berth. It is not her 1st post.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@alicesalisburyj That's wonderful to hear. I'm so glad. Louis's father is an old friend of my husband's.
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Alice Salisbury
Alice Salisbury@alicesalisburyj·
@RowanPelling We know them well ♥️ Louis tutored my son while he was out of school. An amazing young man
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Alice Salisbury
Alice Salisbury@alicesalisburyj·
Given the article is about the ‘feminisation’ of autism, it’s a little odd to offer my 16yo son’s autism diagnosis as a case example for how broadening a category can cause as many problems as it solves, but ho hum My son was diagnosed at 14 and it’s been supremely unhelpful /1
Kathleen Stock@Docstockk

Batten down the hatches! I wrote for @unherd about the great feminisation of autism and how Ute Frith is right - the category no longer makes sense. unherd.com/2026/03/the-fe…

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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@alicesalisburyj What you say about your son reminds me of Louis, who is now in his early 20s and a very good artist. It might be worth trying to contact his mother? They have an ongoing crowd funder for his treatment.
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Rowan Pelling
Rowan Pelling@RowanPelling·
@collaroaudio It is true I am tax illiterate, sorry! Every year I get fined because I'm too feck-witted to work things out and speeding up the process terrifies me.
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Collaro Audio Ltd.
Collaro Audio Ltd.@collaroaudio·
@RowanPelling with respect, your article in the ‘graph is very wrong about ‘digital tax’. You account for it quarterly, using one of several recognised software platforms and you can add expenses as well as income. In the final quarter, you can balance any expenses unclaimed.
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