Something that hurts my heart is the fact that young men have been deprived of masculine role models and they think cowardly men are masculine. Telling someone what pie they need to bake seems tough, but you’re a chihuahua who thinks he’s a Great Dane. I’d even recommend responding to lie requests with toy dogs, as the yipping energy is the same. My grandfather fought at Anzio, the same battle where Audie Murphy bravely held his ground and killed numerous enemies alone. Like Audie Murphy, grandpa suffered a lifetime of PTSD, mental health issues, nightmares, and worse as Anzio replayed in his mind. “The crosses grow on Anzio and hell is six feet deep.” Murphy wrote about this in his book “To Hell and Back” which I recommend. Grandpa held it in, raised two girls, and led Sunday school classes. He never wanted his family to suffer what he did. But he would have beaten tar out of me if he’d seen me tell Christian women to bake me a pie because he knew bullying when he saw it. His brother died in coma t and he came back with PTSD becsuse he wanted women to be safe. Like a true masculine man, protection was his first priority. If you can’t care for the vulnerable, what man ARE you? But feminism!! Yes, and I oppose them for ruining the family and education system. But not every woman with an opinion IS a feminist. If you’re not careful, however, you might push her in that direction. Women turn to feminism when they feel unsafe. My grandma never did because her man battled the Axis powers to keep her safe. Women are NOT going to be hysterical if they think they have a safe community of men who care about them. Yes guys; reassuring women by walking them to their car at night or lifting heavy things makes them feel safe and yanks the feminism out of their minds, one piece at a time. Yelling at them will only confirm their base fears. You will create more of what you hate. So be wise, and be better. That’s what leaders do.
