✨Melanin Preferred ✨

Be with someone who gives you joy and security. Security without joy is a prison and joy without security is anxiety.

@yourmalibugirl @3kingvisions One library has a dinosaur cake pan and stuff like that is so smart, cause your kid is probably not gonna want a dinosaur birthday more than once, lol.

@SelimaTate @3kingvisions Yes to this especially big or bulky or rarely used tools, electric mowers, shovels. I know places where you can borrow framed art. I would borrow knitting needles, crochet hooks or a sewing machine if I could.

What’s one library program or service that you think every library should have?

@jiggyjayy2 I think having children at this age is selfish. You'll be close to 80 when they graduate highschool 😩 You are almost guaranteed not to meet any grandchildren or view other significant life events 😔

Niggas pushing 60 with newborns, RELAX

A man's money is never your money. i can't buy into this idea of marry rich or only date high value men cause there is zero security in any of that. As a woman the only financial security you have is to make your own money and ensure you always have a way to make more!

@cpettway79 They forget they have kids 😂😂😂

A panda. They get distracted easily

I don't owe anyone urgency at self checkout, it's called self check not speedy check.

@heyyitsjanea Cause this is important to know

well did she buy it?

@forcttouse @KevOnStage THIS WAS MY FIRST THOUGHT. I don't even smoke and that's DISGUSTING to me

@KevOnStage Two Americas because who gonna smoke that after your shoes been in it

This some Reggie.

@Daki_Tah @__princess_tee Thank you Doctor, I'm so glad a medical professional weighed in on this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@__princess_tee Infact it means she aborted at 8 months...and the darker it means twins

Yes, each stretch represents a baby so if she has 200, that means she aborted 200 babies. Hope that helps 💗

I truly want to encourage parents to set aside 15-20 mins a day to read with their children. Especially reading children’s books the kids need to see that you enjoy reading as well. This also translates to school age and teens! Reading can be a fun family experience. Throw on an instrumental of you or child’s favorite music and vibe out READING books!

@iH8Meccavellii PLEEEEASE

bell hooks said that White people will meet a Black person who completely challenges every racial stereotype that they have, but rather than giving up the stereotypes, they create a special category for that person and say, things like “Well, you’re not like other Black people”, instead of saying, “My ideas of Black people were too narrow”. This is called “subtyping” and it leads to the survival of negative stereotypes because the new category individual who’s supposedly “not like the others” is mentally isolated from the group. What this shows is that bigotry is all about protecting an existing hierarchy and it doesn’t matter much whether a person is exposed to other people or not. Which is why meeting intelligent, kind, accomplished, or complex Black people does not dismantle prejudice if someone is emotionally invested in keeping the stereotype intact. Exposure to facts and figures doesn’t change the situation either. Someone can know the statistics on crime, education, poverty, or discrimination and still keep racial stereotypes because the stereotype preserves a sense of superiority and avoids confronting historical responsibility. This is part of why bell hooks further argued that racism is emotional and ideological more than just purely ignorant, which is then why facts by themselves usually do not overcome a worldview that a person is motivated to preserve.

@antoinerossign6 @rodimusprime 😂😂😂😂

@rodimusprime That's actually his wig from Jackie Brown, he just stopped dying it and accepted the gray.

How are there any hairstyles left for this man to use in a movie?!

@MoonGoddess_86 I don't want to watch it either 😂😂😂

Men not watching horror movies be so funny to me. Like, I'll talk you through it. 🤭🫠

@tmoneysig @KevOnStage 😂😂😂😂 Once you use it, please post a picture so I can see how it looks, lol

@SelimaTate @KevOnStage Same, one of these days I’m going to use it!🤣

Help me settle a debate. Do you have a printer in your home RIGHT NOW and what generation are you?

@DeeLaSheeArt INTO THE VOID

I honestly don’t know why yall are entertaining Black men’s temper tantrum about the Is God Is movie. Let them cry into the void please.

@tmoneysig @KevOnStage I know I'm old, cause I got real excited when I saw this 😂😂😂😂

@KevOnStage I seen my son’s tattoo artist with one and I ordered it. Haven’t set it up yet. Gen X/Millennial.

@olesoul57_2 And do 😂😂😂😂

That time during Covid when I was out in Cali, they said I look like the police 😩

@solomonmissouri And it is that serious

Y’all better start insisting before your child is down to that school looks maxxxing

@olesoul57_2 @Crystalmclan70

@Crystalmclan70 @SelimaTate I could never tread

Pool and beach season is almost here… can y’all swim??