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someone once said, every country has an energy. And that energy rewires you whether you notice it or not. People move to Japan and become minimal. People move to Mexico and their entire relationship with time softens. People move to New York and suddenly they can't sit still. Your personality is far more malleable than you think. We treat it like something fixed, but new surroundings give you new defaults. New pace. New habits. New values absorbed through proximity instead of effort.

“If you love me, consider me in your choices not your apologies.”

Dear woman, For the next 90 days, disappear. • Wake up early.. • No alcohol. • 3–4 eggs daily. • 3L of water. • 7 hours of sleep. • 10K+ steps. • Daily journal. • Eat protien. • Skin care. • Work on your goals. It’ll change your life.

Harden not your heart

a narcissist timeline: Love bomb. Control. Destroy. Play victim. Call you crazy. Tell everyone they tried their best.

I cannot fuck with people who, when they're mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. Yes, you did. Stand in it.

i heard someone say, “What a privilege it is to outgrow the stuff you once settled for.” And honestly, it absolutely is

Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me again. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time around because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age it's hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play in my face, I can't connect those dots.

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Showing love to my grandad seeing this on X ❤️ made my night

People who have no idea what you’ve overcome, but feel entitled to make assumptions about you, are very ignorant and should be ignored.

humans will ruin a real connection just to experience lust

"i overplayed my part" "i cared too much" No. you were simply being you, gentle and thoughtful. someone was using you for their own benefit and you're trying to understand how you messed it up? you didn't. they didn't value you the way you valued them, and that's never your fault

Overextending yourself doesn’t make people appreciate you more.

I realized when you’re a lil too understanding, people become a lil too inconsiderate of you.

“you could have just talked to me” No, I couldn't. You dont listen, you deflect, you twist everything into an attack, and then play the victim.

I’ll never forget the day my professor changed my whole perspective on love. The class was loud until he asked, “If you’re in a relationship, do you still get crushes?” Silence washed over us. He drew a heart, wrote “Loyalty” and “Faithfulness” inside. “So if love contains these, why does someone else still catch your attention?”No one could answer. I whispered, “Because it’s not love.” He turns, smiles knowingly. “Exactly. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re already in love. Sometimes we’re only in a relationship because we love the idea of being with someone who cares for us.” That line stayed with me. He wasn’t just teaching a subject… he was teaching life. 🫶

i don't think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!!!!!

Resentment is weird because yes i want to forgive you whole heartedly but my mind is struggling to comprehend why did you actually do that to me.

This mf ain’t gettin it!