Stephen Thomas

If you've been reading my spicy twitter replies, you'd know that on the topic of dating and relationships, I've been sparring with my good Buddy Alvin Tan (aka @aruvinchan ) You guys remember Alvin Tan Jye Yee? Incredibly riveting, fascinating person. Almost as fascinating as me. He was once in NUS' law program, then his scholarship got revoked after making porn. Then he got arrested in Malaysia for anti-islamic remarks, and he also wiped his ass with pages of the Quran. He fled Malaysia to escape prison and landed in America. He became a pornstar, became a successful investor and coder. He's now a millionaire, and he eventually got U.S. citizenship and is now living a luxurious life in Spain. On the outside, it seems like he's leading an excellent, happy life. Yet what's up with him creating a twitter account that amassed 20 thousand followers, sharing misogynistic, abusive advice to men on how to manipulate women into fucking them? That to me showcases a dissatisfaction with relationships and life, despite all his wealth and success. I called his advice on relationships retarded, he replied defensively (linked below). Here is my response to his response: Your 'authority' and experience with women mean nothing, because the women you have had decades of experiments with are whores. You once said you've never had a first date where it didn't end up in sex? No woman looking for or capable of a serious relationship will accept that. Why your tips resonate with so many men and why it 'works', is because it indeed works, with whores. Your tips effectively helps men get those loose girls to fuck them, and people think you're a hero. The real problem is the goal is misguided from the beginning, because what men and women truly want is a long-term relationship. To have someone to be completely open and vulnerable with. To have a consistent source of love and support. To have a relationship where you disagree, argue and afterwards are transformed. To love someone more than you love yourself, and be freed from the petty limitations of your own mind. Your tactics, precisely because they are effective, stops otherwise kind men to incorporate bad habits, and prevents them from developing the complex skills and traits needed to be worthy of love. And so you and your followers will constantly fuck these loose women for transient sexual pleasures, constantly striving and chasing, yet never feeling whole. Always feeling dissatisfied, always yearning. Until you get old, ugly, immobile, and alone, and perhaps at the last moments of your life, you stare deeply into the shallowness of your life and the emptiness of your soul. And then you die. If you truly believe you only have one life, that fate to me is more miserable than death. I may have less experience with women, but I think I have more experience with quality women. The hedonistic life of vapid sex that you espouse is worse than any number of years of prison I could ever face. Take care, and may God have mercy on your soul.