Sickerofthisshit

ADHD is not being able to fold your own laundry for 9 days but driving 40 minutes to help a friend move apartments on 2 hours notice. With snacks. And a color-coded plan.

"She's toxic" Yes, I am toxic. Now tell them what you did to me.

@themopinomicon Dude you're my fave. 😆💯

It was extremely difficult to get this shiny and orange so please like it.

@WigglyAir This has been working for me.

THINGS MEN CALL “NORMAL” THAT AREN’T: • inconsistent communication • avoiding real conversations • doing the bare minimum • disappearing and coming back • calling you emotional for reacting

@liubimkata @Solyricon This!!!! This is very important.

@Solyricon Context matters a lot here. If a man is crying because he was rejected or his ego took a hit, it is extremely unattractive. If he is crying because he is emotionally opening up to a close friend about a real tough situation, it is admirable

Hottest things a guy can do: -YEARN -cry -apologize when he's wrong -listen without getting defensive -show emotion -be loyal

@TopGrower48 @Solyricon @libriscent We sense when it's not real. When it's a performance. The ick cannot be removed after that. Be real.

@Solyricon Yearning, apologising, listening without getting defensive, that is not “soft”. That is a man who is not scared of his own inner world. A lot of people call it attractive because they are used to emotional avoidance being sold as masculinity.

@Solyricon Please don't cry unless there is a reason to cry tho. Death, divorce, tragedy. We do not need more men crying about nothing.

@40ozMethod @BTCBreadMan I'm pretty into dark humor, this doesn't come across as that but to each their own.

@Stillupunk @BTCBreadMan Because the premise is working out diligently but not losing weight has been going around X. The “funny” part is him finding out by perving in her underwear drawer and wanting to tell his bro but not be caught creeping. It’s not for everyone obviously. It’s just dark humor.

My best friend is 36 years old. His wife is pretty, but she’s big. Like, really big. He’s being patient with her because she’s dieting and exercising, but she’s only lost a couple lbs in 6 months despite being in a “calorie deficit”. How do I explain to him that it’s impossible to stay fat on a calorie deficit, and that she’s obviously lying to him?