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@INTERIORPORN1 Wonderful. I would be happy with a Miniversion and go more into the Landhouse Style.
It must take forever to clean and dust out
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@bernalacin35_5 Bizim Almanyadaki Türkler 50-60 sene oldu geleli, halen Almanca doğru dürüst konuşamıyorlar. Normal, çocuk yaşda öğrenilmiyorsa aksan kalıyor
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@khnh80044 I love people who can laugh about themselves. It's a sign of a high IQ🌷
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I have been married to my husband for six years. I have a 17 year old son from my first marriage and he has a 16 year old daughter. When we came together, we agreed that we would each remain financially responsible for their own child in terms of studies and big expenses, because we both came with different histories and different legal agreements with our expares. Ever since my son was ten years old, I opened a savings account in his name. It wasn't easy. I'm a nurse, I work double shifts many times, and for years I saved what I could: cousins, overtime, bonuses. Today that fund is enough to cover almost the entire university. My husband never did anything like this for his daughter. He always said she was still little, that there was time, that they would see. Also, for years he had financial problems because he supported his ex-wife in other things. I never got in. Everyone handled their past relationship the best way they could. 2 months ago my son got transferred to the college he wanted. We cried together when we saw the acceptance mail. I felt that all the years of sacrifice was worth it. That night we celebrated at home. A week later my husband told me we needed to talk. Her daughter also wants to go to a private university. It didn't reach the score for the public I wanted and the private option is expensive. He doesn't have enough savings and neither does his ex-wife. Then it came to my mind what he called "a family solution": to use part of my son's fund to cover his daughter's tuition for the first few years. I stayed quiet for a few seconds. I thought I was joking. I told him that 💰 wasn't ours as a couple, that I had been saving for a decade thinking exclusively about my son. He answered me that we are now a family and that you can't tell the difference between "your son and my daughter".
That if I really love your daughter like I've always said I should prove it.
The conversation escalated when he said something that hurt me: that I was acting like his daughter was a stranger. I reminded him that I never asked him for a penny for my son's fund, that he knew from the beginning that that savings existed and that it was always clear that it was untouchable. He answered me that circumstances change.
Her daughter heard part of the argument. The very next day he talked to me from a distance. She told me she always felt I loved my son more than she loved her. Who doesn't understand why I can't "share a little" so they both have similar opportunities. What no one seems to want to see is that I'm not taking anything away from anyone. I didn't stop them from saving. I didn't decide they didn't plan. I wasn't the one who left everything for the last minute.
My husband now looks at me like I'm failing the family. He says marriage involves mutual sacrifice. I replied that sacrifices cannot be made for the future of a child who had nothing to do with such a lack of foresight.
We've been sleeping in separate rooms for a week. Not because I don't want to, but because I feel like if I give in, I would be teaching my son that his effort and mine can split due to emotional pressure.
And here I am, wondering if protecting what I built for years makes me a cold woman or just a responsible mother.
What do you think?
@/blounchinteriorandexterior74
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@TheFigen_ One of the best foodballer in history, humerous and good hearted🌿
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@siradisi_bilim Biz sürdük bu yoldan Arizona da. Çocuklar ve ben hep kollarımızı kaldırıp "Uiiii" diye baģrıyorduk. 😁
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Happy Birthday to my only son, Scott, in heaven. Lost him to brain cancer in 1990.
Today would be birthday #50!
Until you lose a child you don’t know what real pain is!💔

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Also, all my clothes have to be front-fastening for a while, so I bought these PJs from @marksandspencer and I think they’re rather fabulous

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@JaneFallon @CatSteadman Hope all works out good for you🍀🧿. Get well soon and don't loose your humor🌷
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So… I had my op today. I’m feeling remarkably fine, which is possibly the drugs & that might also explain why I’m cross eyed in pic 4). I had quite a lovely couple of hours drinking tea & reading the brilliant @CatSteadman ‘s new one (more on that later




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