Tare Brisibe
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Me in my durag working in lab. Also me speaking at a conference/presenting my research. Folks acting like a durag or bonnet prevents you from learning or excelling lol

Name one non-homophobic reason for choosing not to date with bisexual men. It can be a preference, sure, but it is a *homophobic* preference nonetheless

Me in my durag working in lab. Also me speaking at a conference/presenting my research. Folks acting like a durag or bonnet prevents you from learning or excelling lol


🚨HORRIBLE : Female Israeli soldiers post Instagram photo mocking a blindfolded and bound Palestinian young man.

Every time I think I've unlearned patriarchy, I do something that reminds me I still have internalised misogyny. 😭 You really just have to keep unlearning. Today, I called someone in my shortlet network about an apartment. They had their company logo as their profile picture, no personal photo. The moment I heard a woman's voice, I was genuinely shocked because I'd automatically assumed it was a man. I don't even know why. Another time, I saw a child, about 5 or 6, walking alone around 10 p.m. My first reaction was, "Where is your mother?" Not, "Where is your father?" As if children only belong to women. God abeg, this patriarchy thing is deeply wired into all of us. The unlearning never really stops.



As a woman, is it okay to calculate all you spent on a man and ask for a refund when the relationship ends? I’m asking for a friend!


men will be horrible towards women they don’t find attractive, and then wonder why there is a “male loneliness epidemic”. no sane woman is getting with an asshole who spends his time bullying random women online.














