Umm A•

My greatest fear in life includes 3 things: 1) Not making it to heaven, 2) Not making it in this life, and 3) Getting married to the wrong person.

That feeling when you memorise a Surah and you recite it in Salaah without making a mistake or stuttering >>>>>>>> 😄🤌

Me and my friends con dey do long distance friendship 😭

See ehnn! 😭🤣😭 I was about to pick one red check dress for my little girl, and I dropped it cause all I could think of was my days in Starfield hostel.

I wore palazzo jeans out this evening and someone greeted me “ikeweji” Are you people mad in this Lagos !!!!

@Sevybaby__ 🤣🤣🤣

That thread was hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣

my mom was really serving us home cooked meals every single day…… younger me didn’t realize how much work and how much of a blessing that is

@zeezeeadetola Missed this! Happy Happy Birthday! I wish you long life and prosperity! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I turn 30 today and I don’t know how to act. I love it here already 😂😂❤️

Hot take but Asoebi has zero ROI I work a 9-5 Fridays I can’t wear an heavily beaded corset to work Saturday I can’t wear someone’s Asoebi to another persons party Sunday, my unit has a specific corporate outfit to wear So when do I get to wear my Asoebi 250k ?

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.

Oga ooo. Just seeing so many people with their boxes. Summer is that youuuu 🥹😀

Kpels…! 😭🤣😭🤣😭 @_pelumilawal

Dinner date with the LOML 💕🍽️

I am fckin BEGGING sports bra makers to sew these pads in. Why are we still living like this???

One hospital bill can wipe out 10 years savings. Ọlọhun jọ mafi àìsàn shey wa.

We had riders. However, we make it a point of duty to deliver meals regularly. We are building a product that interacts with the physical world a lot. Logic is not enough. Touching grass is super important. You need to bake emotions into the product. Most of our brilliant Rider app features came from our experiences delivering meals.

@SirLeoBDasilva Crazy!

Social media is crazy and chasing clout can drown you. A brand told me in 2018 to sign ambassador deal so they can announce they gave me N50m instead of N3m. Just to boost their page. I rejected vehemently. What will I tell my people in Surulere when I go home?

"You don't look like you can cook" Make I tie onion for my neck?

@iamKiekie_ Well done! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤩

Omo!! GINGERRR has the highest nominations at the 2026 AMVCAs!!!!! 9 Nominations!!! 😳 Somebody pinch me. 😫😫😫😫😫