Stop letting people consume you. They
didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
People without empathy are dangerous because they don't care how their actions affect anyone else. They'll step over you, dismiss your feelings, and justify it without hesitation.
You can't reason with someone who lacks basic concern for others. They'll exploit your patience, twist situations, and leave you drained.
Keep your distance. Protect your time and energy. Don't expect fairness or decency from those who don't have it to give.
realizing it was all in ur head and was very one sided, they never cared for you, they made you look stupd as fuvk, they were just responding that’s all
i don't wanna "win" the argument or feel "right". that's not the point. i just wanna feel like we've come to an understanding on the issue at hand. i want both of us to walk away feeling heard & understood. gemme that & i promise it's me & u 4L
AND SUDDENLY YOU'RE 26-27 SITTING ALONE IN YOUR ROOM, PARENTS ARE OLD, YOUR SIBLINGS ARE MARRIED AND BUSY WITH THEIR OWN FAMILIES AND THERE'S NO ONE YOU CAN TALK TO AND NO ONE CHECKS ON YOU.
WHAT IS IT CALLED — LONELINESS OR FREEDOM. WHATEVER IT IS, IT IS HEAVY.
that breakup isn't a punishment. it's God's way of protecting you and making room for the life you deserve. What feels like heartbreak today may be the very thing that saves you from a lifetime of misery.
You have to accept that people won’t be around forever. Everyone has their season. They have their time in your life. You may get attached to them. And you may start feeling like they may be around forever. But that isn’t always true. You shouldn’t be disappointed. You should be understanding. You will meet people at all different times of your life. The good. The bad. And the ugIy. Their presence will be needed at specific times. But their presence won’t last forever. And that’s okay.
I have no interest in being around people who assign malicious intent to every mistake. If grace is reserved for no one, not even the people in your life, I can only imagine how harshly you judge strangers