You're single because you've healed, found your worth, and realized that not just anyone is right for you. You're picky now. You don't need love because you love yourself. You've done your shadow work and you know exactly who you are, and nobody can tell you otherwise.
I have very masculine energy, yet extremely feminine. Meaning, I will 100% dominate you if you’re weak. However, I will melt for someone who can dominate me and allow my feminine energy to come out.
Stop wasting time on people who waste your time. Stop helping people who don't want to help themselves. Stop explaining yourself to people who are not themselves. Stop pouring into people who don't want to see you bloom. Stop shining your light on people who keep you in the dark.