
Dominic
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@starxsapphic With every year I feel myself slipping away from the stage and towards the bar. Soon I’ll be the elders who watch the young ones and make sure they’re safe
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@MikeBartner broski if we're gonna be mutuals you gotta learn "speedrunning" is one word
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@magikwand No blue checkmark, engagement baiting for the love of the game
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@callanable I’m happy for you. Or sorry that happened. I ain’t reading all that
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it's been almost six months since I did something... admittedly inadvisable: moved across the country to live with a guy I met online a few months prior and had spent under three weeks with in person.
I'm reflecting after an NYC visit, where my last three relationships ended. I'd moved in with boyfriends before—deliberately, we gone apartment hunting, ostensibly preparing to build our lives together.
each time after moving in, I was so excited to make it my home. each time, I'd thought found my person—no more tiptoeing around inconsiderate roommates! each time, things went wrong.
they complained that they didn't feel "at home" with me. that I took up too much space, made them small. I tried so hard to include them in decorating decisions, but they never wanted to be involved—they just got upset whenever I made any changes to the home.
and they left me thinking I was controlling, dominant, unsafe.
so this summer, I found myself sleeping in the attic over my dad's garage, surrounded by the vestiges of those failed homes. a lazy susan I bought for that deep kitchen cabinet, a whiteboard calendar with last month's dates on it, hanging closet organizers without a closet to hang in.
it had happened again. I put years into building a home and was now effectively homeless. I had many reasons to feel bitter, but it was obvious that my previous attempts were all wrong. past-me thought I could make anything work, but never asked "should I?"
so, in that attic with no running water over my dad's garage, I began to recalibrate.
I'd connected with someone here who I really liked; I'd slid into his DMs months earlier, and he'd been a gently supportive presence through the most destabilizing and brutal few months of my life. he saw me at my lowest and didn't flinch. he didn't pursue me or demand anything, but he didn't run away either.
I basically handed him the book of Callan: here's all of my past, my flaws, my mistakes, my shame—please reject me now! (I do not recommend this, by the way.) and things progressed from there.
fast-forward to October, I showed up to his house with a suitcase and my cat. we wanted to see if we could work as quickly as possible. (I can't say I recommend this either!)
he said, "take up as much space as you want or need—whichever is larger."
but in my head those voices from the previous living situations echoed: Callan is domineering, overbearing, scary, too much.
so I sat on the floor on my laptop every day, staying small. I put on headphones even when he was at work. I said yes to everything no matter what. I shut off my preferences. I did chores only when he was out of the house, and when he did the dishes I feared he was cleaning "at me."
he picked me up off the floor and put me on the couch. told me to play my music on the speakers. he asked "are you sure?" when I automatically said yes. he listened when I said what I like/dislike. he laughed when I asked if he was mad at me for not doing the dishes.
so when I came home from NYC to find the house completely changed, I remembered how my exes hated when I rearranged or organized something, even if they later admitted it was an improvement. now, I'm on the other side, and it just... feels like love. it is love.
after six months here, after so many years of being told I needed to be smaller, I'm still learning to take up space. sometimes you're not the bad things people call you, you're just trying to be right for the wrong people.
Callan@callanable
I came home a day early and even though he'd been sick all week, he still: got me at the airport with flowers, cleaned the house, made all this closet space for me, bought me a new pillow with 0 fanfare, made sure I had dinner, and probably 50 amazing things I didn't notice 😭🥰
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@Pinkpaws1016 @bluewmist Adding onto this, canned soup with frozen veggies is like 200 calories and very filling. Just watch the sodium content
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@bluewmist I lost about 20lbs (regained it though unfortunately) but what helped a lot was finding low calorie foods that were actually filling. For example, a ham & cheese hot pocket is like. 280 calories and would last me hours, while something like Healthy Choice pasta would last 2 hours
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@citrusgirlpaige If it makes you feel better, this is my closest one. I’ve never even been to one 😭

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@terrafically Nice setup! But only one of these can fit in my pocket without something getting snagged. Imo, I really hate the switch style handhelds - they’re extremely uncomfy.
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how long after the relationship is a good time to still say i love you
b@bethspov
how long into the relationship is a good time to say i love you
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The year is 2026. We are at war with Iran, the market is in shambles, and Nyan Cat is a confirmed alcoholic
Nyan Cat@NyanCat
☘️✨
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“We took the L and gave it to the GBTQ” god they might still have it
Robert A. George@RobGeorge
This is one of best on-the-nose impressions in SNL history.
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Listen you could shit talk Americans for countless things I don't think we could reasonably argue against but I'll be damned if I'm going to be lectured about how Americans are rude and have annoying voices by the French.
Enezia is seeing bts@aegifogur
you’ll be enjoying your day on the paris/versailles train line and then you’ll hear this agitating grating voice and it’ll be an american tourist talking the most loudly you’ve ever heard a human talk
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@junomutt_ @CultureCrave @GIBiz They recognized they did wrong and changed it. Personally, I always praise the people in my life for changing for the better. But hey, that’s just me
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@CultureCrave @GIBiz people acting like this is a praise worthy change it should've been like this in the first place
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'Arc Raiders' has started replacing AI voices with human ones 🎮
The CEO admits they are 'better'
"There is a quality difference. A real professional actor is better than AI; that’s just how it is"
(via @GIBiz)


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Beast mode, I’m afraid
NewsWire@NewsWire_US
Trump, asked when Iran war will end: “When I feel it. When I feel it in my bones.” — CBS
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