Mr Bachelor

Never marry a liability. No matter how much money you have, marrying someone who consistently depends on you without contributing emotionally, financially, or practically will eventually become exhausting for both of you.

A NEW DAWN

I don’t blame Frank Edoho for begging Chike to leave his wife alone… because years ago, I was in almost the same situation. Imagine sleeping with your woman and she suddenly moans another man’s name mid-action… that moment changed me forever. Here’s my story. 💔 Back then, I was working at Poly Products in Sango Ota. 7am–7pm shift every single day with just 1 hour break. Factory work no be joke. Because phones weren’t allowed and I barely had time to press it anyway, my girlfriend always kept my phone till night when I closed from work. Every evening, before going home, I’d stop by her place to collect it. But I started noticing something strange… once I switched the phone on, Facebook notifications from random guys would flood in immediately. At first I ignored it. Later I found out she was always online doing all those naughty “1-100” games, sex chats and flirty dares with different guys. One time, one of them even told her to wear a skimpy skirt while coming to see him… and she actually did it. The painful part? I escorted her to the bus stop myself while she took a bike to the guy’s place. And I still didn’t leave. I kept trying to “understand her.” Kept hoping she’d change. Then she introduced me to her “bestie.” Cool guy. We exchanged numbers. I even used to report my relationship issues to him, asking for advice… not knowing this same guy had already been sleeping with my girlfriend behind my back. How did I finally find out? One day while we were having sex, she mentioned his name. I froze. She denied it the first time. Then it happened again… and again… until she finally confessed everything. When I confronted the guy, do you know what he told me? “Bro, leave her. She’s not the kind of girl you can settle down with.” Even after hearing that, I still loved her. Still cared. Still stayed. Until one day she looked at me herself and said: “Forget about me and focus on your life.” Funny enough… that was the best thing she ever did for me. Because if she didn’t leave, I probably would’ve married her. And my life today might have been a complete disaster. Sometimes heartbreak is not punishment. Sometimes it’s rescue. 💔

A NEW DAWN

Marriage today has been largely devalued, with many people entering it for selfish reasons rather than understanding its true purpose. What was meant to be a committed union built on love, responsibility, and partnership is now mainly pursued for personal gain, pressure, or convenience. This is why many homes struggle today, because the foundation was never truly aligned from the start.