Ofentse Tsakani Mathebula

it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself

I love how the Bible teaches us to be unbothered! Don’t be dismayed, be slow to anger & forgive easy. Do not worry or be anxious about anything! Proverbs 19:11 & Colossians 3:15.

Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.

Partner with your partner and see how quickly you can progress in Life both incomes going towards building the comfortable life you want..

List of things to include in a prenup as a woman Compensation for career sacrifice Infidelity clauses Protection of premarital assets Protection from partner’s debt Spousal support/alimony terms Stay-at-home parent protections Division of marital property Business ownership protection Retirement and pension protection Inheritance protection Real estate protections Child-related financial expectations Household labor recognition Lifestyle and financial management clauses Insurance requirements Protection for future businesses or side hustles Digital and intellectual property rights Relocation and immigration protections

Everyone should go to Japan at least once (preferably early in life) just to understand what a highly functioning society can look like

Major life hack: Don't complain, ever. Nobody likes a complainer. They drain the energy of everyone around them. It's exhausting spending time around someone who constantly complains about things outside their control. If it’s within your control, go do something about it. If it’s not, you’re just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.

I will never again pretend to be the easygoing, low maintenance girl. I love receiving flowers without having to ask. I appreciate unexpected “thinking of you” texts and thoughtful check ins. I enjoy forehead kisses and good morning messages. I like being taken on meaningful dates that I didn’t have to plan. I want to be shown off, not hidden, like someone you’re proud to have. I love affection, intentional time together, and little surprises. I like to be loved out loud. I’m done making myself smaller to be easier to love. I love hard and I won’t apologize for it anymore.

Major life cheat code: Don’t romanticize potential. Measure yourself by what you consistently do, not by what you believe you could do one day.

think in decades. plan in months. execute in days.

Find audacity. There is nothing that will help you more in this life than audacity, find it, let it push you to do things , to silence the noise , to go back to school, to leave the country, to start a business, to do things . To fight for your life.

We need to slow down with home wrecking bafazi. Yall hurting other kids.

Marriage is a blessing when two people are healed, mature, committed to God, and willing to love, sacrifice, communicate, and grow together. God’s design for marriage works.

If you don’t take pictures and videos, you’ll regret it one day. You’re the star of your own movie. Start documenting your life.

Your husband is the only legitimate family you get to choose. Please don’t pick a liability.

I see exactly why Jesus often withdrew regularly. People will literally drain you if you let them.

When you realize that Jesus fed 5,000, but only 500 followed him after the meal. He had 12 disciples, but only 3 went farther into the garden, and only 1 stood by him at the cross. The closer you get to the cross, the smaller the crowd becomes.

a lady on tiktok said the biggest change in her prayer life was moving from desperation to authority. she said God isn’t asking us to beg, he’s asking us to believe.

How can you be bored when you’ve got a career to build,a body to perfect,a mind to make smarter and success to chase.

WAITING IS NOT EASY. - Joseph waited for 13 years for the promise to manifest. - Abraham and Sarah also waited for a bit, Sarah even panicked and started improvising, cause the wait is uncomfortable. I saw these prayer points on Facebook, I think they’re shareworthy!