@LASHYBILLS With a cord from a heating pad on the floor…??
I never seen a hanging with a cord coming up from the floor .. I thought it was supposed to be higher over the head..
I have slept with almost all the guys that have asked me out and I don’t know why or how to stop this. What should I do ??? 🤷🏽♀️
I have slept with almost every single guy who has ever asked me out.
There. I said it out loud.
It’s not because they pressured me. It’s not because I felt I owed them anything. It’s because, in the heat of the moment, something inside me always chooses to cross that line every single time.
And I am done. Completely, furiously done.
The pattern is relentless. A guy shows genuine interest, we go on a date (sometimes two), the conversation flows, the chemistry clicks, and somehow we end up in bed.
I wake up the next morning staring at the ceiling, heart heavy with the same familiar cocktail of emptiness, shame, and exhaustion. Why did I do that again?
This isn’t about the men. These are regular guys some kind, some funny, some forgettable who simply asked me out and followed where I led.
I own every single one of those decisions. What I don’t own yet is the power to stop making them.
For years I brushed it off as “just how dating works now.” Fun. Casual. No big deal. But it is a big deal to me.
Every time it happens I feel further away from the kind of connection I actually crave, one that’s slow, intentional, built on respect and real discovery, instead of instant physical surrender.
I want to be chosen for my mind, my fire, my entire self, not because I’m the easiest yes they’ve ever had.
The regret has grown louder than the impulse. I’ve started canceling dates before they even happen because the fear of repeating the same mistake is suffocating.
But hiding isn’t healing. I still want to date. I still want to meet someone who matters. I just don’t trust myself right now to hold the boundary I desperately need.
I am in the middle of the hardest fight of my adult life. I’ve tried everything I can think of on my own. I’ve rehearsed “not tonight” in the mirror before leaving the house.
I’ve been brutally upfront about wanting to take things slow, only to watch my own resolve melt the second things get physical.
I’ve created rules, deleted apps, forced space after dates, even sworn off dating for months at a time. None of it has stuck. The pattern keeps winning.
So I’m laying it all here, raw and unfiltered: I don’t know why I do this, and I don’t know how to make it stop.
Is it wired into some deep fear of being left? Is it a craving for validation I haven’t admitted to myself? Is it simply a habit that has calcified into identity?
Whatever it is, I refuse to let it run my life anymore. I’m committed to breaking this cycle before it breaks me.
If you’ve ever found yourself in a version of this same loop, sleeping with people too soon, people-pleasing your way through dates, or watching yourself sabotage the very standards you claim to want, I need to hear from you. What finally gave you the power to stop?
What shifted inside you? What practical, unglamorous steps actually worked when willpower alone failed?
Because I’m not looking for judgment. I’m not looking for pity. I’m looking for the real, hard-won truth from people ( mostly women ) who have been exactly where I am and clawed their way out.
I refuse to let this define the rest of my story.
And I know I’m not the only one fighting…😏
@nogginnoticer@LASHYBILLS Spoken from someone that obviously don’t know nothing about hair…
Keep living and learn something before speaking on shit you don’t know
@LASHYBILLS this shit makes yall go bald but yall insist on doing it i do not get it. leave your damn hair alone. it looks fine natural idk why you'd wanna do all that. traction alopecia by 20. sad!
@TroyByrneUK@LASHYBILLS That don’t hurt…
I braid hair and kids play this bullshit game when they don’t wanna sit down ..
Kids aren’t the problem it’s the parents for feeding into the bullshit
𝗕𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚: Patriots HC Mike Vrabel and former NFL insider Dianna Russini rented a boat together back in 2021 while she was pregnant.
Vrabel and Russini were the only people on board for their 2- to 3-hour rental, according to a source.
Dianna gave birth to that child shortly after and named her son Michael.
The Russini - Vrabel files never end 🤦♂️
(via @TMZ_Sports)
@lady_valor_07 paying $540 is more than enough.. I don’t really care about the service.. she only took the order and maybe bought the food out .. someone else cooked and made the plates…
So because our food was $500 u want more out of my pockets..
Tanicia borrowed Daquanda's car to go on a date. But the date was actually Daquanda's boyfriend Darnell. Their mutual friend Moeisha saw them at the waffle house and called Daquanda. Moeisha then texted their other friends Keshawnda, Anita and Trish to meet a Darnells house to watch Daquanda whoop on Tanicia.
@MbarkCherguia Fighting over the same baby-daddy who is in jail. Each one wants to be his top bitch. Half the bitches standing there watching are a bit worried they might get found out cuz they messing with him too…
@bod_repuplic Parents are dumb af.. this ain’t nothing to brodcast.. this is your baby’s life.. for the love of God grow tf up and quit finding the need to put everything on the internet.