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@Ketienaturinda I’ll eat rice for a year before touching Matooke 😂

People who hate matooke just love attention.

Uganda olemwa, @UEDCLTD & @nwscug you have decided to cut services in Naguru or what?

I’ve accepted, @LycamobileUG this is my last month with you guys, in the middle of Kampala but network is the worst it has ever been. You’ll let us know when you decide to take your customers seriously.

Lyca internet network has gotten so bad living on a hill in the middle of Kampala doesn’t help either @lycamobileug, fix the network issues please

@LGBTQ_Confesses Since I was in high school this has been the story that gay people lure boys in with money, I’m yet to be lured 😂😂😂 still waiting for Rich gays to lure me in please

Last Sunday I was at church for the youth conference, and this woman was seriously preaching that "gaysim" is the new trend in this generation, and that homosexuals are very rich and are paying young people in schools to recruit them. Wow! - Escay

@LGBTQ_Confesses If you want to remain in your closet, remain there, no ones is forcing you to come out

Hi admin. I've noticed something. Do you know that it's always bottoms and trans people who are coming out of the closet? I don't know why, but in most cases I see bottoms and trans people doing it. Not sure why they always fight so hard for recognition. - Anon

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@LGBTQ_Confesses We sometimes mistake being treated with basic humanity by straight guys as a sign that they have feelings for us. In reality, he may just be a straight man who genuinely cares about you as a person, without any romantic or sexual attraction, like a brother would treat you.

Yesterday was my birthday, and on Friday my brother’s best friend called me specifically to wish me a happy birthday. It meant a lot to me because we rarely communicate, yet he remembered. It felt genuinely thoughtful and heart-warming. My brother is no longer alive, and his passing is a significant part of our family’s story. Back in 2012, I lost my only brother, and it left wounds in our family that will never fully heal. Even before that, my parents had already endured a long, painful journey. My mother struggled with conception for years, suffering multiple miscarriages, but my father remained supportive throughout. Eventually, my brother was conceived, but he was later diagnosed with sickle cell anemia. A few years after that, I was born and diagnosed with the same condition. My parents dedicated their lives to raising the two of us. They chose not to have more children and instead focused all their love and resources on ensuring we received the best care and education possible. During elementary school, my brother formed a very close friendship with a classmate who became like a guardian to him always reminding him to take his medication, drink water, and look after himself. I was in the same class as that friend’s younger brother, and we also became close. Our families grew even more connected as our mothers worked in similar government sectors and developed a strong friendship. Things changed when my brother joined high school. My parents had always feared boarding schools because of our health conditions, but they were eventually convinced because the school he got into was prestigious and didn’t offer a day-schooling option. His first year went well, but in his second year he developed pneumonia. It was diagnosed too late, and we lost him. My parents were never the same because they blame themselves, believing that if he had not been in boarding school, he might still be alive. Watching them carry that pain has always been difficult for me. My brother’s best friend was devastated when he heard the news. I resemble my brother in some ways, though he was always the more handsome one. With time, life went on with its own challenges, but the cruelest part for me was hearing ignorant comments from people claiming sickle cell patients never live past 18. My biggest fear wasn’t dying, it was the thought of putting my parents through the trauma of losing their only remaining child. So I committed myself to living as healthily as possible, and yesterday I turned 23. Guess what!! I beat the odds. The next time I reconnected with my brother’s best friend was about five years ago at his graduation. He was genuinely happy to see how much I had grown. He asked for my number, and since then, he has reached out occasionally. Recently, I’ve developed strong feelings for him. What confuses me is whether he is simply being kind out of respect for my brother and sympathy for my loss, or if he might genuinely have feelings for me too. I’m afraid to make a move, and I’m unsure what to do. - Celestial Being

@Manuelyaps Was scared too when I did my fist test (after a reckless couple of encounters with guys) but results were negative and I changed my lifestyle after that hopefully yours is negative too.

Going for For a HIV test tomorrow, I’m scared.

@awalwaju That person is a gay conservative who also hates black and trans people so unless you share the same values, wouldn’t be nice quoting their posts

They always say I should pick a struggle because I'm a gay Muslim. 😂

@CarmseeME Season 2 announcement when?

Good morning to corporate baddies only. #Boyslikeus

@LGBTQ_Confesses Unless you want to have your cake and eat it, end things with one of them. Who ever is good for your future and well being, before one or both of them finds out and they make the decision for you.

I have been dating this very discreet public figure since 2023. He is so discreet to the extent that he comes in a different car every time he comes by, sometimes he uses a boda, sometimes Uber so that no one notices him. He is always in and out of the country. He never tells me when he’s leaving, but when he returns, he informs me once he’s at the airport and comes straight to my place. He has been doing that since 2023. The problem is that we have the worst sex life. Even if I initiate it, if he’s not in the mood, it won’t happen. I can count on one hand the number of times we’ve had sex since 2023. He is not romantic at all, he doesn’t kiss, he doesn’t do anything foreplay-wise. All he wants is for me to give him a blowjob. The moment he cums from the blowjob, it’s over; he doesn’t care about my pleasure or ejaculation at all. Because of this, I always end up cheating on him to get sexual satisfaction, which I know isn’t right. This year around July, I met another guy. He is good to me and a loud, passionate lover compared to the first one. We go on proper dinner dates, he makes surprise visits to my workplace, and the benefits I get from him are visible in a very short time, unlike with the other person. We haven’t had sex yet because he says he doesn’t want me to feel used. I don’t know where he lives, and he doesn’t know my place either, we just meet in public, happening places and part ways afterward. Now the new guy says he wants me to move in with him around mid-December. He recently bought me a phone, and I lied to the discreet guy that I bought it with my own savings. I feel safe and genuinely loved when I’m with the new guy. But the old (discreet) guy is obsessed with me. There was a time I ghosted him for a whole week and went to stay with my cousins in Entebbe. He gave my number to his people, three different people slid into my inbox, tricked me into talking until one of them found out exactly where I was, asked for a meeting, and said he would pick me up. When I got into the car, the big man himself was inside! What should I do? - Jay

@Olayinkamarvel5 “You can always hug me”

I wept my eyes on this day 🤧😭😂

@LGBTQ_Confesses I once “dated” a guy like you, in the end he chose his friends and keeping up the “fake facade” of being straight than “love”. I agree with your ex because at the end of the day how people perceive you/what they think of you is more important to you than the person you “love”

It was yesterday when I had second thoughts. I regret the day I came to terms with the fact that I'm gay🥹🥹 After a long wait, I finally found love. I told my lover that mine wasn't just a moment. I wanted it to be a bond for years. Here is the problem; either way, I wanted a woman around (for community validation). However, that wouldn't work for my guy. I fuckin' loved this human. I also don't doubt his love. The fights we had were out of love. Unfortunately, after a year and a few months, we have had a very heartbreaking breakup. Reason? He's not willing to receive divided attention, and yet I am also tired of people asking me for my woman. Not available for love, or any form of happiness. Let me first finish the year and see how life evolves. Naye mbonyebonye ne love!! - DK

@uglimj @LGBTQ_Confesses Not every gay person in Uganda wants to share their partner with a woman

@LGBTQ_Confesses He loved you but couldn't appreciate your honesty when you told him about having a woman around you for a reasonable impact. Did he really love you, or did he selfishly loved to own you? True love involves compromising and bending a few personal rules.

@CarmseeME 😭😅, I’m in crazy & Doctor shipper sorry to the long distance BF

The face you make when you wake up and decide to cheat on your partner.

@LGBTQ_Confesses As someone who has witnessed the evil side of grindr & hookup culture, I’m begging Ugandan gay guys esp (18-21 years) to be careful when talking to men online. This world has evil men that want to hurt you. Take heed PLEASE

Dear Admin, the homophobia in Nigeria is at an extreme level. Someone was tortured and thrown off a two-story building. In Uganda, we need to be cautious with hookups! This reminds me of that terror called Morris and others; it seems we need to set them up and deal with them to set an example for others because gay lives matter. We bleed the same. Our blood is like yours! Why hate someone to the extent of killing them? Who funds these people? Who is behind this cruelty? We need to change the narrative and stop talking but act against homophobes! We need to fight back for all the gay men and women who have died due to homophobic attacks! I'm sorry if this seems strange, but I'm angry and pissed off! - U.Z

@heisam001 Stop talking to “strangers” online that’s the first and only way. No one will know what you do in your house, looking for hookups and flings is what starts these messes

Maybe going out with acid, pepper spray or even pen knives is the next solution to this whole madness, cause I swear to the devil, if you move mad near me, you'll meet your creator asap. 😭

@enioluwa There’s something really wrong with homophobes especially AFRICAN ones, they are vile human beings that should rot in HELL. If you think you’re God’s punisher you’re just a pathetic excuse of a person.

What a heartbreaking thing it is to take another person’s life. To think that someone’s existence could be ended simply because you don’t agree with their life choices. It’s vile. It’s inhumane. I’m honestly lost for words. #JusticeForHilary

@EdwardThiago9 Black queer folk in Africa NEED to LEAVE grindr alone. That App is a death trap

Another queer man has died in Port Harcourt, following a kito incident. He was thrown out of a two storey building during the violent assault. He died yesterday from injuries sustained to his spinal cord & beating he endured. This is the second reported kito death in 2 wks💔😭