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Woman practices her eye widening skills for the next time a creep bothers her

I really appreciate the folks who engaged with me respectfully. I *loathe* echo chambers, and I work hard not to live in one. I actively invite people with different views and experiences to talk with me, because I think only seeking out “one right perspective” would be a disservice not just to my clients, but to me as a human being and my own growth. My fav vtubers, I don't agree with everything they say. I'm totally OK with that. I do believe divide in this county happened due to lack of wanting to leave echo chambers where there is vilifying/dehumanizing the other side. So genuinely, thank you. 🩷

@WifuWarheads @KirscheVerstahl @Bondpaint 🩷

#KirschedArt I got suspended so to ensure the Kirsche art survives, I'll be reposting it here.

@Shizukougames Facebook back when you needed a .edu in 2002

What was the first social media site you used???

@EdgyGamerGal There are some GREAT books on the topic... but that means people will need to read. Polysecure by Jessica Fern Open Deeply by Kate Loree Multiamory by the podcast folks (it is also a podcast!) Opening Up by Tristan T Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy (the og book) And many more

I've seen it become a much bigger topic, both in terms of people feeling comfortable to be open about it, but also people misusing it, and sometimes I wonder if the reason people crash out about this topic is because all they've seen is people use it for negative reasons and genuinely think that's what a Poly relationship is when it's not. I'm hoping more information comes forward about Poly relationships and what healthy, proper ones look like so stuff like this is less prevalent.

Crazy to me that people are hating on polyamorous relationships in 2026 I am also polyamorous (with 8 partners including my fiance) and if there is one thing I know, its that polyamory is about communication and understanding the needs of those you are agreeing to be with. Its not for everyone, and that's okay! But calling it cheating with extra steps or saying it goes against what marriage is shows that you don't understand polyamory, or that your understanding of it is based off of people using it to get away with stuff that shouldn't fly in a proper open / polyamorous relationship anyway. If all parties are happy and consented, why does it matter? Trying to insinuate that the husband isn't okay with this is wild when we have not heard anything from the man himself, and it shows you just want to find a way to plant doubt and twist words to appease to this idea that she is somehow trapping the husband when we have seen nothing to suggest that. Marriage doesn't have to just be a declaration of exclusive love to each other. It is, quite literally, a legal contract that affects everything from taxes to inheritance. It is a union, yes, but it does not have to be an exclusive love union, just like how not every wife takes her husband's last name. Did yall forget that there are legal benefits to being married to the point there was a running joke of guys marrying their homies for tax purposes? If you don't agree with this sort of relationship, that's fine! But to insinuate that there's some terrible, hidden thing going on with her relationship behind the scenes, especially her marriage and the reason she got married, is grasping straws. The reason I am marrying one of my partners is also for financial and legal reasons. I am working on being the breadwinner, and I want to make sure if something happens to me, one of my partners can speak for me in the hospital and after I pass. Only one of them feels comfortable with that weight. I have talked to the others about what they would like, such as my life insurance or things when I pass, and we are working on those things. To me, marriage is not just a legal union, obviously. There is a heavy weight and responsibility that comes with it that I will carry to my grave, and that is love for me. If I could, I would marry multiple partners if they felt comfortable with that, but I can't obviously do that. I have things such as power of attorney and the like, but again those are private conversations and private decisions we will make in our own time. If any of my partners were uncomfortable with being poly, I would not force them to stay. One of my previous partners had realized several months in that he did not want that life and we broke up. Did it hurt? Yeah, but I know he did what was best for himself, and even now I keep in contact with him and he's happy in his current relationship, and I am happy, because my happiness comes from seeing the ones I care about be able to achieve all they want to achieve. I do not want someone staying with me when they don't want to, because it will break my heart to see them caged like a bird and unhappy. They know this, I regularly check in on them to make sure they're happy with me, and if they're not, what can I do to fix it. If this is not your thing, that's fine, I don't think polyamory is for everyone, myself. However, shitting on others for making it work doesn't do anything good for you.

@EdgyGamerGal Yeah! It's really interesting stuff!

@UmiIrukaVT This is very interesting information to find out, thank you! I'm used to it being used backwards where after a while the click is what's used instead of the command to signal the command. Hearing how it's properly used is very useful!

If you're gonna clicker train someone at least do it right, they shouldn't need to hear the command, just the clicker. Also waiting that long after commanding to give them the treat weakens the reward's effect. t. Someone who is actually clicker trained

@EdgyGamerGal She's using it backwards is the tl;dr lmao

@EdgyGamerGal In animal training the clicker is a bridge. It's something that says they did it right. You ask for the behavior, they do it, then the click. I was a zookeeper and marine mammal trainer in my first career. It's throwing me off seeing it used like this lolol.

@Saiyanbreeder34 @EggieWeggieVT 👁👄👁 you're a what? Lmao

@UmiIrukaVT @EggieWeggieVT its common because society has morally be engineered to be this degenerate. What you experience is not a good thing

I have a Husband AND a Boyfriend??

@magicgirlcrisis The Drama Of The Day wheel landed on it

Why is everyone always looping abt vtubers showing their faces

@shylilytwitch "Some of you are simply not victims. You are just deeply committed to a narrative that doesn't exist & obsessed with creating "villains" so you can justify obsessively hating the one, while worshipping the other." 🔥🔥🔥 DAMN

Heya everyone, can't believe we are here again after 2 years. Reminder that I can block & unfollow whoever I want, for any or no reason at all. I do not own the concept of sea animals, body markings, hybrids or whatever mutation you decide to invent tomorrow. Matter of fact, I love seeing new sea themed VTubers appear! There is a reason why I'm an Orca themed one myself! I've always encouraged people to create whatever they want, yet I somehow have to address the same shit every other year because people love abusing the fact that I'm not very active on social media & generally avoid public self defense, meanwhile they are allowed to make up lies, dogpile endlessly & weaponize my silence/ inactivity. I'm so tired of the same recycled & fabricated nonsense that I'm somehow "protective" or "hostile" towards people with similar themes. People love making shit up, especially much so when they know there are no consequences for dogging on me because: "Shylily won't address it anyways" = easy viral post. None of it even needs to make sense. No proof, no evidence, just making shit up to suit their victim narrative.. You do not have to like me, not even a little bit. You ALSO don't have to run around spreading fabricated bullshit or sanitize your profile before a callout to manipulate me & the public into feeling bad for blocking you. You are free to create whatever design you want, i genuinely do not give a rats ass. People's obsessive need to attach my name to fabricated drama for attention, validation or clout- whether it's over designs or other weird shit, is getting old. Some of you are simply not victims. You are just deeply committed to a narrative that doesn't exist & obsessed with creating "villains" so you can justify obsessively hating the one, while worshipping the other. Sorry if this comes over as harsh or blunt, it's just been a bit stressful.... sorry for the rant

@MilkDappy @EggieWeggieVT That's really well put... and you're correct. Anytime another human is added, it adds complexity and another layer of feelings 🙃🙃

@UmiIrukaVT @EggieWeggieVT The fact that poly couples are overrepresented to a relationship therapist is not a sign that it's common but a sign that it's generally harder to deal with. To put it nicely

@Revwolf1776 @EggieWeggieVT No. Nope nope no. If all you're getting is asspats you need to leave. Sadly, A LOT of therapists do that. It pisses me off.

@EggieWeggieVT @UmiIrukaVT That's what therapists are for validation that's literally all you pay them for.

@Spriggan626 @EggieWeggieVT At least you have feelings. 🩷 Glad you're using them on a retard on the internet.

@UmiIrukaVT @EggieWeggieVT See, you're not a therapist because I only feel disgust towards you

@PmPShadowryuu @PixelPlusVtuber Also: journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.11… This is just one from my quick Google search. The pew research was just the most referenced. This is 2026. Have a great day.

I'm sorry I suffer from a condition called gainfully employed and have been unable to keep up. It seems like you didn't read all of my answers, which I know there were a lot. Per my ethics, I can only question within theraputic context and meaning. I'm not the arbertor of morality- I can't be. I'm in a mono marriage and believe in marriage, I can't push ethically my beliefs on any of my clients. This is why I'm able to see everyone. It isn't about me. It's about meaningful change that they create through recog their own patterns. That's how change happens. Also what consenting adults do is THEIR choice, not mine to make. I don't get why people are claiming I'm pro whatever *insert virtue signal*... I'm pro my legal statutes and answer only to my board and my specific training. 🙃 It isn't my job ethically, and I can look up the codes in your state to, for me to push my bias on anyone. Ever. This is the internet and me saying it's "more common then what people think" does not show support either direction, it's just true. Anyway- have a good one. I wish you the best. 🩷

Says the "therapist" Using a politically charged mop-piece to justify couples whoring out big time. You're Pro Poly stance is actually a pipeline to make more people come to people like you for alleged brainwashing to think it's okay to play around while married or coupled up.

@PmPShadowryuu @PixelPlusVtuber @EggieWeggieVT My job is to work myself out of a job. Any therapist who doesn't believe that is trash. 🩷

@PixelPlusVtuber @EggieWeggieVT @UmiIrukaVT "relationship therapist" the one benefitting the most from people being as broken as possible. Case and point that mentioned "Pew Study" is nothing more than a survey of 5,073 people made by two gender ideology hacks

@Spriggan626 @EggieWeggieVT Ok! 🩷🩷 I feel you have a lot of feelings about me... someone you don't know on Al Gore's internet. Thanks for sharing with with the class.

@UmiIrukaVT @EggieWeggieVT I highly doubt your any kind of therapist. If anything, you're just toxic trash

@dierwulf @SinWithSloth @EggieWeggieVT Thank you. Also thank for the respectful convo. 🩷🩷 the division is so sad in the world.

@UmiIrukaVT @SinWithSloth @EggieWeggieVT From what I’ve seen that is their loss. I am sorry that happened though. I’ve experienced something similar with an online friend group so I can somewhat understand.