Buff Scrubs
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Buff Scrubs
@Way2Serious
Lift heavy things and dance to robot music. Anesthetist by day. Ordo amoris.


What opinion will get you in this position?


A sexless marriage isn’t a “rough patch,” it’s a slow-motion break-up that requires legal action.



At 4 weeks postpartum I was: sleeping 3 *nonconsecutive* hours a night; breastfeeding every 2 hours for at least 30 min a session, so about 6 hours a day; and bleeding through everything I wore. If men did this, the whole fucking world would be structured around parental leave.













Most women underrate how much men care about looks. And when they do try to get more attractive they waste time and effort on tanning, contouring their face, getting their nails done. Instead, almost everyone could be considered attractive if they lost weight, grew their hair long, and cleared up their skin. All these things are within your control. There's other basic advice that should be obvious. Wear makeup everyday and go for a youthful, dewy look. Remove your body hair. Ditch your glasses. For the extreme looksmaxxers, focus on your body. Your face is probably fine and hard to change. Get a boob job, precisely control your weight, and do hourglass-enhancing exercises. You are no longer stuck with the looks God gave you. ariababu.co.uk/p/get-sexier



The real reason men are willing and tend to marry down is because women from lower classes generally understand real problems where women from middle and upper classes don't so they invent problems.


The cholesterol debate gets more toxic than politics. I take the Peter Attia approach and check my (ApoB). Others say it doesn't matter. And to get a Cleerly scan for soft plaque rather than a CAC score. I do my cardio and lift. The chips will fall where they may.













