Kat Stark

Looking for some fun, smutty stories to help get you through the darkest time of the year? Check out my novel 'Waking Up Polyamorous' and my racy memoir 'Yelling in Pasties', available in audiobook, paperback, or ebook. amzn.to/3tFF4UG #ShineALight

It's not often that @fakedansavage makes me cry at the top of the #SavageLovecast. Cheers to continuing the fight until we're safe everywhere!

Why companies don't keep a resident perv on staff to vet things is beyond me. This is clearly a clitoris (missing 2 legs but c'mon). I'm available for consultation if any companies want to test if their graphics could be read another way.

I legitimately thought that pitch n putt was a combo of baseball and golf until someone explained it to me in my late 20s. Anyone else have something similar?

Thank you to @kirkhamilton and @strongsongs for breakdown of "Biggest Ball of Twine in Minnesota". I felt vindicated to find another human who loves it as much as I do. I always ask people from there if they've seen the twine ball. Maybe someday this Canuck can be so lucky...

Embark on a pleasure vacation 🌴🌊 with the largest sex toy giveaway I've ever done, featuring 80+ prizes and a grand prize package worth over $1,500! Get away from it all — with orgasms. 🍹 Enter now: piph.it/getaway (ends 11/5)

Giveaway time! 🍹🍸 Let me whisk you away to Orgasm Island! At the swim-up bar, the cocktender will pour you the dildo of your dreams right before your eyes. 🥂 No joke — the grand prize winner will be able to design their own CUSTOM dildo! ✨ Enter now: piph.it/getaway

Jinx! serving up some #Trogdor realness #iykyk #OneBigBeefyArm

@SharpSweetBella Getting to be our authentic selves is incredible. And lmk if you'll be here. Would love to have a real live visit!

@WetcoastKat Awww thanks 🥰 Our anniversary was in May (we went to Vegas and came back with COVID). what I love about our polyamorous story is how much it has been about the emotional support, the freedom to be our authentic selves. We might actually be headed out your way soon…? ✈️🙏🏼

Fact: I used to be soooo invested in the Catholic Church that I was married by 3 priests 20 years ago. Now we’re happily polyamorous & queer AF and ready for 20 more years together 💙💖💙 (Also, me making the first move here is not at all unusual 😂😘)

Continues to be fucking baffling that so many people will form anti-porn opinions based on what they think the working conditions etc. are, without ever speaking to a single porn performer about it

Hand drawn memes - for when you don't have time to dick around on a computer to make a joke 🙂

JUST IN: “Reservation Dogs” (@RezDogsFX) has been renewed for a third season by FX.

Wringing every last moment out of summer! I wouldn't call it glamping but I'm sure not roughing it! 🍹🏕🌊

Gotta celebrate the good hair days

Every ADHD'er at some point: "What if I don't really have ADHD?" What if I just have a complex series of personal flaws that map on to ADHD, experiences that are incredibly relatable to other people with ADHD, and every failing in my life is entirely and unequivocally my fault?

Have you read Building Open Relationships? If you have, I'd SO appreciate an honest review on Amazon! Please also ask your people to review it, too. You can drop it here, bottom left: amazon.com/Building-Open-… photo by instagram.com/badasswomenpho…

@GilPleebus Anything specific about the two together?

I've realized that middle aged folx are often left out of discussions and literature on sexuality & I'm thinking that I might need to get on filling that gap (heh). Maybe another book in the making? Fellow Gen X & millennials: What questions/issues would you want addressed?

@SophicSiren Yes! Emily Nagoski has great info in Come As You Are about Arousal Non-concordance - wet when not aroused or not wet when aroused. It sucks that the two are considered to be inherently linked. I've needed lube since my 20s but the change is big for many who used to not need it.

"Those rotating beads stimulate the g-spot in a way almost nothing else can replicate" @BlushGlobal's Lush Aurora Gyrating Rabbit V1be from @naughtynorthca is a delightfully updated blast from the past. onthewetcoast.com/post.php?Lush-…