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Japa Burdens Story of a young man in the UK. My Girlfriend Paid for My Master’s Degree. £19k total. She’s Now Asking When I’ll Pay Her Back.” I left Naija in 2023 thanks to my babe. I was earning ₦350k and she told me to resign and come for my master’s. Of course my family couldn’t help pay and I was ready to abandon the whole thing but she covered the whole thing plus ticket, application everything. She was earning well after her own masters, about £55k a year. She helped with my application and everything. Also paid my tuition of £14,500.” When I came into UK, she helped me do my CV (she’s in recruitment) and ensured I got a good 20 hours job, and she helped me settle down. We don’t live together as she is very religious and want us to do things the right way. But she normally helps with rent, food etc when I need it. All in, she has spent about £19k on me. She never once said it was a loan. She just continually said she believes in me and us. I swear I cried the first time she transferred money to me. Nobody had ever believed in me like that. Fast forward to about 20 months. I graduated. Again she helped tailor my CV well and I got a great role in an energy company. We went out to celebrate, I was so excited that finally we could start building together with real money. When we got back to her place, next day she asked me when do you think you can start paying me back? That I needed to pay back all she spent on me. I know she is finicky but this lady had a whole spreadsheet. Dates. Amounts. laptop. The rent months. Everything single thing she tracked it. Even things I forgot she paid for over the 2 years, every single thing was there. But I never officially agreed to a loan. We never signed anything. Truthfully, I thought this was someone who was investing in our future. Now every nice thing she has ever done for me feels like it has a price tag. She says I’m being ungrateful and we haven’t spoken properly in two weeks. My family says I should do a payment plan with her and get another woman since she wants everything to be transactional. But I love her… Her organisation and great planning is what brought me to this point in my life, but she doesn’t joke with her money and is so money conscious. Is it possible to owe someone everything and still feel betrayed? I am really battling with the emotions, not the money as I already created a payment plan and shared with her. My view is that the lady is mean and he shouldn’t marry her.

Anytime my husband and I fought, I stopped cooking. I didn’t care if he had eaten or not. I would just make food for myself and leave him to sort himself out. He never argued. He would simply order food or fix something for himself. I’d only resume cooking when I was calm again. Then one month, we had another fight… and as usual, I didn’t cook. The month ended, and he still sent my allowance… Plus the full foodstuff money like he always does. He even sent the money he had promised my dad. I was surprised. I asked him why he would still send food money when I hadn’t been cooking. He simply said, “Because it’s my responsibility.” I felt so ashamed. That was the last time I ever did that. Now, even when I’m upset, I still cook for him. And I’ve noticed something… Most of our quarrels don’t even last anymore. Somehow, we always end up talking things out while eating. Small things like this save marriages.

You’re missing important context. Dapo Abiodun built an airport from nothing to completion in 4 years. That airport has Nigeria’s longest runway and most advanced tech today. Second longest runway in Sub Saharan Africa. Turning of sod— 2021. Initial test flight- Feb 2023 Commercial operations- October 2025. If any of their favorite governors did this, the world wouldn’t be allowed to rest. Did you see how they are celebrating malls and bus parks?

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I'm not TOE, but if you can handle 2 toes, you can handle one toe. She just needs to clean up before sex. That way you can suck the toe & the toe toe, and suck the toe while hitting the toe toe.

Make nobody suck Lagos babes toes ooo 🤮

Almost got played at the market today. Aboki said ₦6,500. I said ₦5,000. He refused. I said weigh it. While he was still forming strong head, his brother quietly said ₦4,500. I didn’t look left. I didn’t look right. I faced the brother, dropped ₦4,500 and collected my fish. The stew is almost ready. 😂

I turned my X to a streamer reading his chats! I read comments and reply or quote the ones I like 😂😂

Cooking gas price rises to N1,500 per kg

Call for help. My mum was hit with a stroke in may 2024. Since then our lives haven't remained the same. My family have spent all our savings yet her condition hasn't changed. She has severe BP challenge, she has diabetes. Which has gone on to take a toll on her kidneys.

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Our prediction today will be same as yesterday. I am keeping it simple. Winner gets £15. You have to predict at least one goalscorer in each of these games. Just one goalscorer each. Barcelona v Newcastle Liverpool v Galatasaray Tottenham v Atletico Madrid As usual, If you win, and you don't want the money, you can ask me to give someone else that you choose. Let’s just have fun. It’s not worth cheating, no usage of burner accounts or multiple predictions please, not worth it. I saw people predicting multiple times yesterday, I just simply disqualified them because it’s not worth it. This is for fun purposes, no need to cheat.