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Let me share some things that get me excited: 1. Changing my wallpaper: this has a strangely therapeutic effect on me. 2. The Windows spotlight images: I love the featured landscapes. 3. Babies’ laughter! I love the sound of their giggles and cackling.

Went down the rabbit hole on this. The dancing is the tamest part of the story. Marine biologist Amanda Vincent has spent decades studying seahorses, and what’s underneath that morning ritual goes way deeper than a cute video. The morning ritual lasts about 6 minutes. Both seahorses brighten their skin, link tails, and pirouette around a shared piece of coral or seagrass. Researchers call it “the carousel dance.” But it has a specific biological function: it synchronizes their reproductive cycles so the female’s eggs are ready the exact moment the male’s brood pouch is empty. That timing matters because the male can’t accept new eggs while he’s already pregnant. The male gets pregnant. The female transfers her eggs into his pouch through an organ called an ovipositor (a tube for depositing eggs). The whole transfer takes about 6 seconds. His pouch seals shut immediately. Inside, he grows a network of blood vessels that works almost exactly like a human placenta, delivering oxygen and nutrients to up to 1,000 developing embryos. Research from the University of Sydney, published in the journal Placenta, found the pouch wall thins and builds new blood vessels during pregnancy in ways that closely mirror what happens in a mammalian uterus. He gives birth using skeletal muscles, not smooth muscles like in mammalian labor. That means he has conscious control over the process. Labor can take hours. And within hours of delivering up to 1,000 fully formed babies, he’s ready to mate again. The female already has her next batch of eggs prepared, sometimes the same day. Less than 0.5% of those babies survive to adulthood. Fewer than 5 out of every 1,000. No parental care after birth. They get swept into ocean currents, eaten by crabs, or starve before they find food. That survival rate is why the morning dance matters so much. Every lost mating cycle is hundreds of offspring that never existed. The monogamy is extraordinary for a fish. Only about 3% of mammals form lasting partnerships. For fish, it’s rarer still. But in species like the Australian H. whitei, pairs are genetically monogamous across multiple breeding seasons. They greet each other every morning and ignore other seahorses entirely. The bond only breaks when one partner disappears. Amanda Vincent once watched a female keep visiting a male whose brood pouch had been punctured by a predator, making pregnancy impossible. She showed up every morning for weeks until his pouch healed. Then they remated. About 150 million seahorses are pulled from the ocean every year for traditional medicine and the pet trade. Most pet seahorses don’t last six weeks. 14 of the 47 known species were only identified in this century, meaning we’re losing populations of animals we barely knew existed.

Millennials don’t look “young for their age”. Yall are just growing up and realizing that 32 isn’t as old as you thought it was.

I got married. Disclaimer: Individual results may vary

@AdeoluwaOni_ Correct guy!

@_ShadeAK Most beautiful

Making faces with my iPhone 17 Pro (Blue) 512GB. 😝

Cannot recommend highly enough that you switch from a defensive “That’s not true about me!” to an offensive “Haha wow you’re bad at reading people”

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That is a beautiful space indeed

Reject Millennial grey. Embrace color.

I think the saddest thing about feminism is how revolutionary it seems. How can a movement for equal treatment at best and common human dignity at worst ruffle so many feathers? How can it be so difficult to understand? How can it be met with so much pushback? It is so obscene.

@Karl98Kurz @feranmiosaks I-

Je suis agriculteur et la principale raison de pourquoi je met tout le temps des gants c'est que madame a pas spécialement envie de se faire trifouiller les entrailles par des paluches de troll des cavernes.

An important pivot a woman makes in her feminist journey is deciding to stop debating feminism with men

look at my birthday cake!

mom, dad, this is the guy i exchange reels with

the streets hum quietly like they know secrets i do not yet understand hands brush in passing and a spark moves unseen through the veins of coincidence we search blindly through the crowds guided by invisible threads timing folds itself around our yearning until our eyes finally meet a glance, a pause, a recognition the universe sighs and we are no longer lost i write for those who feel the pull before they see the face

My toddler threw himself to the ground and started wailing and screaming but stopped when he saw a piece of fried plantain on the floor, picked it up and started eating it. The reason he was crying in the first place? He didn’t want to eat fried plantain. 🤦🏾‍♀️

This is NOT a cute story.

I thibk everyone actually just wants to go to their friend’s house.

Some things are meant to last 💌