Shalini andwemet Singh

@callmeMaharani not so if you know how to search right and build the relationship the right way. I agree there are many unhappy relationships but then for everyone unhappy relationship there are 10 that are healthy.

Marriage is the biggest financial and emotional scam invented. Half end in divorce and the other half are just legal roommates who hate each other.

@IntrovertSaavni is it so that you are looking for someone good looking who can be a provider and not a partner + am aware this is a rage bait tweet :) congratulations on achieving what you wanted to:)

I will marry man which have: 6ft Rich Muscular Full head of hair Perfect skull and jaw genetics Know how to ill, cook and clean Be alpha but still a feminist.

#Indian #marriages #Dating Very Indian thing to do: finalise the caterer before figuring out compatibility.

We die once but live everyday...a friend shared this and I was like - wow.

@ShwetaTulsani This relative of yours needs help.

“Maa baap ke sapne hote hain, itni mushkil se to tumhari shaadi ho rahi hai.”A relative said this to me. Can we please learn the difference between "not being able to get married" and "not wanting to get married"? It wasn’t "mushkil," it was a choice. 🙏🏻

@iam_pragyaT You may need to extend your horizon - they are many amazing men.

@Spamfromk They are as scary as you make them to be. But if you have clarity and follow the process consciously it is not scary OR as scary as meeting someone say on @andwemet1

Not gonna lie, but from my POV, I feel like arranged marriages these days are scary… what’s your call?

Wedding: 5–7 days. Marriage: 5–7 decades. Know what you’re signing up for.

@ananyashaswat Thank you for saying 2 things 1) STOP rushing into a committed relationship 2) One needs to grow up to be in a relationship and one from my side - do not mix wedding and marriage - the former is 3-5 days celebration, the latter if health permits then 5 decades of partnership.

I’ve seen this happening in real life, right next door. A girl got married in November, and within just 6 months, it’s already heading toward divorce. One thing I genuinely don’t understand, if a woman stays at her parents’ home for 20–30 days, it’s considered normal. But when a mother, bhabhi, or grandmother wants to spend time at their own parents’ place, suddenly it becomes a problem. Why the double standards? Marriage isn’t just a formality or a social checkbox. It’s about understanding, adjustment, and respect from both sides. These days, it feels like people rush into marriage without being mentally ready, only to realize later that they can’t handle it. If you’re not ready to understand your partner or build a life together, it’s honestly better to stay single than waste everyone’s time, emotions, and money. Marriage deserves maturity, not just celebration.

@Velvetyvirgo marry someone who respects you and you respect them back.

My mom used to say. Don't marry someone you love. Marry someone who loves you a lot. Thoughts?

@atmabodha @KalamCenter well stated @KalamCenter thus we provide a service around clarity andwemet.com/relationship-g… for both @andwemet1 and non andwemet members.

@KalamCenter @_ShaliniSingh_

High divorce rates are not surprising… People planned weddings, not marriages.

By Invite only meet-ups for singles Small group - equal number from both gender More details can be found whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb… Or andwemet.com/singles-meetup

@Simridhi_ thus we at @andwemet1 highly suggest to meet over an activity vs over coffee/ tea - and if it is coffee then carry UNO or a board game - let the initial interactions be around observations than conversations.

this couple next to me at third wave coffee is on a “rishta meeting” and the questions are “aapko konse movies pasand hain” “aapka weekend par office hota hai kya” no offense, but my conversation with myself is more interesting than whatever these guys are doing

We talk about compatibility but how well do we really understand our own physical needs? A recent @andwemet1 discussion explored this, with a few members sharing openly. It’s not often spoken about, but it matters more than we think. Agree?

@drsunita02 @drsunita02 what an awesome post - hope it is read by all.

A marriage is never a 50:50 partnership. It's foolish of the younger generation to think so. It may be 40:60, 25:75, 80:20, 60:40. One spouse may give 80 % at one time and at other times he may only contribute 20%. What matters in the end is if the couple as a team are able to hit 100%. Sometimes, one person contributes more to the marriage ALWAYS. He/she can think long and hard if they want to remain in that marriage for the rest of their lives. Just like cricket....Virat Kohli may perform well in most of the matches, but in some matches he underperfoms badly. But as a team, if all players pitch in, the team wins. What if Virat Kohli ALWAYS had to shoulder the whole burden of winning the game in every match? He would surely get burntout and have a mental breakdown.... Marriage is like cricket. Every player has to perform. Hits and misses will always be there, one has to accept this and move forward. And if the couple lives in a joint family, all the adults should take the responsibility of winning that match. #Marriage

For years, men were expected to be the primary breadwinners. But something is quietly shifting. @andwemet1

@hell_line0 Do you know you can report folks who connect without consent - to legal authority.

A man who is 15 years older than me has been messaging me for a few weeks. I initially politely declined his interest in “getting to know each other,” and have not been replying to any of his messages since. Today he sent me this message: “I need to teach you that the virtue of an intelligent woman is to listen when a man of substance is speaking .” 🚩 He might as well put up a billboard that says he is a controlling narcissist.

@cinnzu How about looking at arranged setup as another alternative to a dating app. Both shortlist. Both filter. Both present options. The real question isn’t how you met. It’s this: Did you take ownership after the introduction… or did you outsource your judgment? Think hard.

arrange marriage is the dumbest concept. just don't marry

@Pallaviparmar07 None - it should not matter how you are introduced. Focus on observing if you feel comfortable around him, enjoy meeting him - and I who is building @andwemet1 is saying this.

Arrange marriage me ldke ko mna krne ke reasons do jldi jldi

She liked him. Met him multiple times. Wanted to take it forward. But it ended because… he didn’t own a house.