@See_Bleuu And also, you'll never see men creating discourse, defending women on the internet.
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Ntwana e grand
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Ntwana e grand
@_herheart__
Ngwana wa modimo. 🏳️🌈
Hano ha Katılım Mayıs 2022
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First it was Biphobia
Then Homophobia
And now internalized misogyny? Black women please stfu…
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Marietta@EfeTheeGreat
The reason you don't want to date a bisexual man is rooted in internalized misogyny.
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@zynnitta_true @Buyile311214 At my old job they used to issue them after inquiry date. So whatever you got, you got and couldn't dispute it
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@aadore_m @Bomikazi_ I also learnt it was meant to be derogatory here on twitter. I always thought "le" was the derogatory one but then again I argued with a girl years back who was adamant that it "mapedi" instead of Bapedi and she's mopedi self. So I think le rona self ra rena knowledge kahle kahle
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@_herheart__ @Bomikazi_ I hear you!
But after learning that y’all use “ma” as a derogatory to the Nguni’s I got sad but now I’m fine!
I’m just willing to learn more .
Fyi: as long as it’s really borrowing I’m ok with that
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Oh so it’s not maPedi?!
So the ma is meant to be derogatory to refers to Nguni people??!
Adjoa 🌍@Bomikazi_
The people who use b when referring to humans and m when referring to things, say moXhosa (s) and maXhosa (p) when they denigrate amaXhosa. So when amaXhosa, say “ama-Anything” it’s offensive because of what it means to/for them. That this is humanising language notwithstanding.
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@aadore_m @Bomikazi_ I can't speak for us all but for Batswana we're just borrowing from the nguni language, and we do with other languages too. I don't think you'll ever be referred to as Bazulu because this comes from waay back from our elders and grams isn't going to stop. I alone could but 🤷🏾
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@_herheart__ @Bomikazi_ The offence is in referring to another group of people as something that they themselves don’t refere to or that you yourself don’t refer yourself to
But if it genuinely sterns from the first person thinking they are “borrowing from”we forgive it, but correct it to baZulu then?!
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@aadore_m @Bomikazi_ And to add, I think now if I can't say "mazulu" as motswana and have to say "amazulu" then ngini people should also refer to me as "Motswana" and not "umtswana". Maybe this is why people are tussling.
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@_herheart__ @Bomikazi_ But do you have “ma” as a plura reference to yourselves?! As in MaTswana? Yes or not and if not what does ma relate to?!
FYI gramma doesn’t change just because you add your own word!
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@Bomikazi_ @aadore_m I guess ke preference le social media because in real life I don't think this is a problem... well, where I move at least.
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@_herheart__ @aadore_m They are saying we’re offending them when we say “amaPedi” 🤭🤭🤭
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@Bomikazi_ @aadore_m And example is bad here because I used plural and singles. But like if 2 zulu people are "Amazulu" then it made sense for them to be "mazulu" in Setswana. So then for nguni people saying "amatswana" "amapedi" etc wouldn't be bad. Idk
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@Bomikazi_ @aadore_m As Motswana I always thought we said "MaZulu" or "Maxhoza" because we can't say "UmZulu" or "UmXhosa" ka Setswana. Same way I thought nguni people said "Abatswana"(in my experience) or "Amatswana" because they too couldn't speak ours. But recent discourse has me unsure.
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@wehNthati_ I think given the incest, that's why we're focusing on the relationship. They asode the incest which is nuts.
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almost every one is focused on how you’re still in a relationship with him and my worry is how you’re casually mentioning that they are hooking up with their cousin and how that’s not your main concern considering that’s incest ? 😭😭😭
noice@msm_goth
My boyfriend had a thing with his cousin and it overlapped three months into our relationship, it eats me inside coz he be visiting his family every holidays and obviously the cousin is there😭💔
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multiculturalism is beautiful and I will die defending it.
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I'm stuck between abelungu namadoda.
Because if I delete abelungu,black men will quickly fill that void it's their goal kakade and if I delete amadoda, white women will fill that void ASAP... Such a difficult
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