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@KYszczynski @rockinontheweb the ecthr and ecj ruled against Italy in 2017 iirc for this same reason so they were forced to introduce civil partnerships. if a same sex couple marries abroad where it's legal and settles in Italy though, the marriage is 'downgraded' to a civil partnership

@KYszczynski @rockinontheweb you can, but some countries wouldn't recognise same-sex marriages performed abroad, if you moved back you were not considered legally married any more. the ecj ruled last nov that Poland Has to recognise same sex marriages performed abroad even if not as marriages specifically

i just saw a polish gay man post him and his partner of 24 years discussing where to get married now that the polish government is forced to recognise same-sex married couples that got married abroad (it's still not possible here) and ngl i teared up

One of my favorites. Happy Friday.

also finished these last week

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@kingthebearr it was announced recently that the NHS is going to do a 'review' into hrt for adults, which is likely to lead to it being banned like it was for teens. and people who were rightfully horrified and upset abt this got shat on because 'why would you be when you can just diy'

@kingthebearr there are a multitude of really good and pretty obvious reasons someone wouldn't want to or cannot DIY and people's insistence that anyone that isn't willing to DIY is a faker or not trying hard enough helps literally noone

too many of you don't fully grasp the negative implications that can happen if you are caught doing diy, I was kicked out of my house at 19, right before midterms because of diy, and it saved my life, a 14 y/o in a transphobic family, they will send your ass to conversion therapy

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@summerzszsz and what is that place. all ears over here

transgender men are getting too cocky and misogynistic nowadays y’all need to learn ya place in this world

well tbh trans men barely put any effort into transitioning and they’re still praised for being a man but if trans women slightly deviate from femininity they get dogpiled on so it’s deserved

@dandaIorian (which is a really common pipeline)

@dandaIorian it being safer to be a stealth trans man in wider society + also intense feelings of alienation from the rest of the queer community once they started 'passing,' which leaves them feeling incredibly isolated from community they used to have, esp for tmen that used to be lesbians

this and also. i feel like at some point in their transition, trans men just seem disappear from online spaces (i.e. going stealth is what i'm guessing) and it's really difficult? to find them?? like i have so many trans women talking about later stages of their ..

@halcyonecrane also even if we were only talking about the states, you admit yourself that hormone access there is not universal and is actively being restricted further or even outright banned, especially for trans minors.

@halcyonecrane i think you'll find plenty of alt teen boys, they're just generally not the ones sexualised and laughed at on the internet. also I am not talking solely about the US, because the US is not the world. I am not American and trans people exist outside of the states

the 'non-transitioning' trans man stereotype generally comes from grown adults dunking on 14 year olds for being alt and not being on testosterone that they aren't even allowed access to

@dreazy__P no it doesn't. it says 'i used to be this so I can hate' and the video text is explicitly talking about other, current trans teenagers in the general sense. this ex-positionality is being weaponised to punch down at other trans teenagers and make fun of them for not passing

@_lagomorphique bro the caption clearly said they were talking about their past self tho

@lonecowboyhat it's really nice to see you back chuck

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