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@TysBurnerAcc Offering to walk her to her car ought to work..

I was tryna get this girl out my spot one time and was like my boys tryna hit this day party so I’m bout to get ready to go(wasn’t actually going). She was like ohhh my hgs were just talking about that.. maybe I can get ready here. BRO LEAVE!!!

as a woman, you need to forgive yourself for men you entertained when you had low self esteem

“When you free?” Quite literally never, send plans for approval. That’s it, that’s all.

tbh unless you tell me straight up you’re trying to holla at me, i don’t take any compliment as flirting 😂 compliments are just.. compliments.

this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.

Hearing a man say “I was going to” is such a turn off because 1. you didn’t. And 2. you’re lying

I don’t know who needs to hear this but date someone who actually follows through. Bc we live in a world obsessed with beginnings. There’s a diff between someone who promises with emotion & someone who shows up in practice. Many of us confuse effort with energy. Let me explain..

After a breakup, don’t romanticize the past. Remember the disrespect, the anxiety, the toxicity. You didn’t leave because of a lack of love—you left because it hurt more than it healed. Don’t forget that..!

I wish more ppl understood this: When someone says, “I’m not ready for a relationship,” but allows intimacy & attention they aren’t setting boundaries…They’re saying: “You don’t get commitment, but I still get your energy.” This is economy of emotional control. Let me explain…

I'm a very simple woman, but I'm a very specific woman. I know what I like and how I like it.

He stayed close enough to not lose you, but distant enough to never choose you. That's how men waste your time.

“what’s stopping you from-“ listen i am so so sleepy

A lot of women are reaching that stage where they want to be loved right or left ALONE completely. No in between. No second chances..

a heart that always understands also gets tired.

i drive home so quick after work like i’m late for the house

Emphasis on “regardless of what they tell you”. Bc words are cheap when they cost nothing to prove. Feelings mean nothing, it’s what they’re willing to do with those feelings. You can love someone deeply & still be a coward when it comes to showing up for them. Let me explain;

if you offer to make me eggs and i see the seasonings come out like you’re about to make wings… I’m cool lol you got it