Phili

Family-wise, I don't even have one person I could ask for even a R100 when things are bad. I am all I have 💔

Progress that I can feel. Joy that I can bask in. Love I can melt in & Money that I can freely spend.

You haven’t lost your spark, you just need some money

I'm literally into soft boys.INDODA ayibe yi bad boy in bed kuphela. I love well-mannered & gentle gents,INDODA mayibe yi sweetheart maan🥹❤️

She wants to meet the love of her life naturally, but she also never really leaves the house, has like 2 friends, runs at the first sign of attraction, and doesn’t like to post pictures of herself.

It's funny how a person can go hours without texting back, but when you meet them irl they check their phone every minute.

My hyper independency actually comes from the lack of urgency people have when it comes to me. Moving too slow = never mind i got it.

Inhliziyo yami enhle ende, iyafana nenzondo yami. I’m such an extremist there’s no in between.

Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.

LAZINESS can kill a relationship. no, you’re not CHEATING. but there’s also NO FLOWERS, no SURPRISES, no APPRECIATION posts, no SWEET MESSAGES, no DATES (unless your s/o practically BEGS for them). so yes, the truth is LAZINESS can SLOWLY kill LOVE. sometimes, simply being LOYAL just isn’t ENOUGH

UPDATING your partner is one of the MOST IMPORTANT things in a relationship. being BUSY is NOT a reason to disappear. it’s NOT an excuse to leave someone waiting for HOURS. if your partner is taking time to wait for your RESPONSE, the least you can do is give an UPDATE. it’s not about control. it’s about RESPECT, CONSIDERATION, and CARE. if you matter, you don’t leave them guessing

@ReleGlo S

Bazali whats yo take on this?

@iamridman Payday feels like hosting money as a guest, not a roommate

Yes. Sometimes I'm just not nice. But I am a good person.

my toxic trait is i’m perfectly fine holding a grudge for the rest of my life. i won’t lose sleep, i won’t be miserable, i won’t find it a waste. i’m genuinely okay with never moving on or healing from someone that’s done me wrong. i will hate you forever. 🤣

ignoring people who just want a reaction out of you will always make them feel like the loser that they are

Sometimes a little rudeness to establish that you don't fancy nonsense is important.

Not having any condition or illness that requires constant medication.