Talida Adela

This page is a labor of love. These days, most of my attention belongs to our adorable little baby and the family we’re building together. I’ll continue sharing thoughts on femininity, relationships, and what makes us human. I may not always reply, but I read more than I answer.

We rarely talk about the cost of female exhaustion. Behind many flourishing families is a woman who is not merely surviving, but has enough energy to love, create, and inspire. Perhaps one of the most underestimated resources in a society is the vitality of its women.

@logen22z 🤍✨🤍✨🤍

@adela_writes 💚💚💚

A peaceful and flourishing world will not be built through the war between women and men. It will be built by people who choose to heal their wounds instead of turning them into weapons.

@ZoyaBloomz A better world begins when we stop asking who to blame and start asking how to heal.

@adela_writes Exactly. Progress does not come from treating each other as enemies. A healthier world begins when people take responsibility for their pain, reject resentment, and choose cooperation over constant conflict. Healing is not weakness. It is how cycles finally end.

@emotionlingpath I agree. Healing begins when we stop making others pay for wounds they did not create.

@adela_writes Turning your own damage into a weapon to fight everyone else is just a massive L, so maybe focus on actually doing the work instead.

@JasonHommel5 Whenever men and women start seeing each other as enemies, everyone loses. 🤍

It's men who have been surrendering to women. That's been what has been creating the entire problem. Men will fight back at some point. The war you speak of has not yet started. When it does, the pendulum tends to swing farther and harder the other way than most people expect. That will not be good for women. Wait until gen Z is in their 70s. Or a stronger generation of men.

@muwanguzijoel Yes, I believe women are the guardians of the bonds that hold a family together. 🤍

@adela_writes Women are receptacles of marriage directly from Jesus Christ. The love can be horrible when they invert it to hate.

A woman is a bearer of love. 🩷 That is why, when a woman comes to hate men and masculinity, I see a sign that something precious within her has been wounded.

✨I believe in you✨ Many men hear these words far too rarely.

@EldarTurarbek Thank you. Your words honor me. 🤍

@adela_writes The world needs more influencers like you.

I can understand why you’re skeptical. Many men have been carrying pain that often goes unseen, and I genuinely feel for that. I am simply a woman from Eastern Europe, married to a masculine man, who dreams of a more harmonious society, one where both women and men feel seen, valued, respected, and loved. I may not speak for all women, but I hope to contribute, in my own small way, to more understanding between us.

@adela_writes @KevinSVanHorn I’m skeptical. I honestly believe most women lack capacity to genuinely empathize with men. The only time they do is when they stand to personally benefit from that behavior, which is technically the opposite of empathy.

@AlchemyBridge ❤️

@adela_writes Nothing good ever came from hating each other.

@KevinSVanHorn Thank you. I appreciate it. 🤍

@adela_writes OK, in your case I’ll apologize and take back the accusation.

Many women wait for love before giving respect. Many men wait for respect before giving love. And so the cycle continues. The problem is not who is right. The problem is a pattern that feeds itself. Someone has to choose to go first.

@logen22z ✨✨✨🫶✨✨✨

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An important way a woman can contribute to a better world is by raising children in a harmonious home. A home filled with love, respect, and stability shapes people who will carry these values forward, influencing the world in ways we may never fully measure.

@KevinSVanHorn I love women and men equally. There is a lot of empathy and compassion for men on this page. 🏳️

@adela_writes Note the chauvinism here -- a man can simply be condemned as toxic, a nasty person, no empathy or sympathy for him, but when a woman engages in toxic behavior we have to find excuses for her, see her as a victim.

@nadiatidona1 The last sentence is so profound. 🤍 Alignment brings freedom.

When your work is a true extension of who you are, and you let that emerge cleanly from your marketing, you can only ever give people exactly what they need from you, and you can trust that every single person who comes to work with you knows exactly what they’re going for. For me, alignment has marked the end of imposter syndrome.

@nadiatidona1 @matchabae99 Yes. ❤️

@matchabae99 They do.

my friends dad built this beautiful cabin, they don’t make men like this anymore

@logen22z I already love your aunt. 🤍 That helps me understand a little better why I sensed such emotional balance in you. 🙏

@adela_writes yes i agree >> 💚💚💚💚 my aunt did this for me >>>