Akinlolu Paul 🚀KGeN| $IFR| ADD.

One thing I have known all my life to be true to the male and female nature A man will say “This is what I will do” and most of the time he does it or he is forced to do it or he is held to his word as his bond. The same rule does not apply for a woman. She it is said has a right to change her mind! So if she says A and she does B, nobody can hold her to A especially when the issue is not legal. If you believe a woman who says she will walk away from her marriage if her husband cheats, you are in for a surprise! A man regardless of circumstances may walk away from a marriage if his wife cheats. A woman considers the circumstances very deeply and steeply before making any move Most of the multimillionaires and billionaires I know cheat on their wives. Their wives know this Their wives turn a blind eye It is poor men that poor women are harassing with “I will walk away” slogans Ebenezer Babatope wrote a piece in a national newspaper some years ago about his observation in church as a child He said in the Catholic Church he attended, when it is time for communion, he observed that most of the men sat while their wives goes to the altar to take communion. He then asked his father why? His father said the sacrament is meant for those who are sinless and most of the men have other women in their lives who they are involved with sexually. Therefore they don’t take communion but their wives are faithful and therefore they take communion. I read that article when I was ten. Human nature has never and will never change. I try very hard not to stay in a bubble as a believer This is so easy to do To surround yourself with born again folks and pretend that everybody in the world is like you and your fellow believers. I am surrounded by faithful men and women who live a quiet and godly life devoid of drama. All the cheating and marital misbehavior issues I deal with as a minister comes from outside my circle of trust. I deal with marital issues all day and I resolve marital issues successfully most of the time. I will say this again and again. A woman who leaves her husband for cheating on her is either the one feeding the man or a co-provider who has not really experienced the soft life a good provider offers as a husband Women who have married men who love them and provide for them properly usually just pretend they don’t know whatever their husband is up to with other women or fight their husband over it and then let it slide. I am not advocating or encouraging men or women to cheat. No. I am stating facts as they are right now The facts can change tomorrow but as of this moment today, this is the salient truth. Most of the women typing on social media a just catching cruise Many of them would stay with a cheating husband with a smile on their faces It is not right to keep a narrative when the opposite is true. If we want to change the world we won’t do so with lies and deception I am in a good position to say this over and over again The probability of a man leaving a cheating wife is 70% The probability of a woman leaving cheating a rich husband is 0% The probability of a woman leaving a cheating good husband is 30% The probability of a woman leaving a cheating poor husband is 40% and she would most likely leave if a better man comes into her space and is willing to provide for her This truth is universal In western climes when the law favour the woman, most women would leave because THEY WILL GET TO PUNISH THE MAN BY TAKING SOME OF HIS MONEY. Without that incentive, most of them will stay. We must see the truth and speak to facts even as we work hard as believers to change this world for the better -GSW-

@GbengaWemimo As upsetting and unsettling as this might be, it's the hard fact nonetheless.

One of my Christian sisters cheated on her husband The man she cheated with came to Nigeria for Detty December, met her at the mall, and they exchanged contacts He was staying in a serviced apartment building He chatted her up, and she told him she was cooking for her family He asked her to please make extra for him and bring it to his apartment She did so She left her husband and three children at home, told her husband that she was taking the food to a sick church member, and found her way to the other man's apartment They had sex She returned home, and the husband suspected nothing She did this again several times between Deecember and January Then the other man returned to the United Kingdom and blocked her Apparently, the man was married She felt used and dumped by the other man She went online to do a deep research on him and discovered who his wife was, and also saw that he had children She reached out to the man's wife on Facebook and shared evidence of cheating with her out of anger The wife of that man confronted him He told her this sister was the one who seduced him by putting a love potion in the food she brought to him He said he jokingly asked her to send him food, and she appeared with it, and from that moment, he lost his senses The man's wife reached out to this sister's husband Shared the same evidence this sister shared with her and everything her husband said about the love portion Guess who has been thrown out of the marriage now? The UK man is still married despite cheating, (Love potion) was his excuse to his wife My Christian sister has rented a room close to the Nasarawa border where she is managing with her three children The husband is alone in their terraced apartment now Guess whose phone is not resting day and night? Guess who the husband calls all the time to rant? Guess who the wife calls all the time to intervene so that she can get food and other things for the children Guess who the sisters' parents and siblings call constantly to beg and plead on her behalf It is I. I didn't do detty December I didn't eat the food she cooked I didn't eat the love potion I didn't sleep with anybody I am the one praying, and calling, and listening, and begging I am the one keeping vigil till 2 AM with the husband because I know if he is left to himself, he would get into a car, go to a club, pick up a woman, and slip into deviant behaviour The prayer is for him to cool down and reconsider his wife and children for the sake of Christ and accept them back into his life To ensure that prayer can be heard, I am mounting guard so that another woman won't come into the picture and complicate things I didn't kill my mother; she is still alive Don't kill me for my mother, I am still young Stop doing things that you will make other people pay for in cash, kind, and labour Remember my stripes, as Apostle Paul would say I cannot deny my own brothers and sisters in the faith, even when they misbehave I would prefer, however, that they do not misbehave in any way Dear Christian sisters, please don't cheat on your husbands for any reason Walk away from the union if he is abusive, does not satisfy you sexually, is broke, you are bored, or looking for excitement Take a short break, go to your parents' house, or go and visit a relative Do everything in your power not to cheat, no matter the temptation Defending a cheating spouse is difficult Defending a cheating wife, regardless of circumstances, is a thing of shame You don't have to get married If you choose to get married, don't cheat Don't put me in a position where your husband will ask me, "Can you take it?" and I will be stammering... This is a plea Thank you -GSW-

The Yorubas have a proverb Let the male urinate while walking Let the female urinate while walking Let us measure whose body will smell of urine The proverb holds true. Subject a man and a woman to a cheating test Let them react the same way Either they forgive each other or part ways The man is always better off Dear married Daughter, DO NOT Cheat If your husband cheats, just leave the union It is better to walk away with your dignity than explain to your next suitor that you cheated back or hide things from him out of shame

@BlissQueen15044 @GbengaWemimo How does cheating in revenge help her chance of getting another suitor? It's simply as drinking poison in revenge. It's an absolute self sabotage.

@GbengaWemimo It depends what happened in the marriage, if she had ever caught the husband cheating, I won't regret welcoming her back.

How do you defend a daughter who cheated on her husband? What will you say? How will you say it? How do you explain her actions to potential suitors who might want to marry her after her husband has thrown her out of the marriage? How do you tell your husband that your sister cheated? Most of the time the relatives of the cheating wife just fade in shame whenever the conversation regarding her marital issues crop up My sister, don’t do something I cannot defend. Don’t cheat Not intentionally, not by mistake, not even in revenge If the man cheats on you, please, just leave the union I can defend that and you will have your dignity and testimony intact. Thank you

@ijele5000 @insight_noir @winexviv Why e no kon reply this guy again?

@insight_noir @winexviv Yes I can, I can tile, I know to set out steps on a construction site

The Mechanical Engineering final year students of IMO State University were hosting a graduation party. At some point the generator developed fault. None of the students had a clue on how to fix it. They all had to start searching for an artisan to fix it. They eventually found someone that came and fixed it. The quality of the graduates in most of our state universities and in some federal universities are unemployable. A university where students have to sort their way out without learning anything meaningful. I call many of them, illiterate graduates.

@GbengaWemimo No one who keeps company with unfortunate people will ever prosper in life. Lots of people self sabotage in life and that's a hard fact.

When I was a PA, a young lady came to our office to see my boss She said she got an offer from someone in Abuja to secure a federal government job slot She said the slot was for sale for 5 Million Naira, and it was her uncle who told her about the opportunity. She believed that if she secured the job, with a guaranteed salary of 800,000 Naira a month and other benefits, including job security, she would be able to fulfil her dream of having a good career My boss told her it was a very bad deal and advised her not to take it He told her the people who reached out to her are most likely swindlers or those who wanted to swindle her uncle He told her not to have any business dealings with such people She said she had heard and, after thanking my boss for sound counsel, she left our office A week later, another church member came to see my boss. She said she has been invited to appear at the police station because she stood as guarantor for one of the church members and the church member had committed fraud at her place of work. We got into the car and drove to the police station with this woman. When we got there, we were shocked to see this lady The one who wanted to buy a slot behind the police counter She was the one who had committed the fraud Her employer caught her and handed her over to the police What happened. She said she needed to raise the five million Naira demanded by his uncle so that the opportunity of securing that slot would not pass her by She emptied her bank account and sent the total amount in it to her uncle. The total amount was 1.8 million Her uncle told her she had to do better than that, so she reached out to friends and family members. She borrowed another two million Naira, including the rent of her elder sister's place She sent the money to her uncle, hoping that her uncle would support her with the balance He didn't. She was given eight hours to raise the balance. Out of desperation, she went to the office and raised a requisition for a bill that their office had already paid to the state signage company, and insisted that the funds be released to her immediately The total amount was two million Naira The accountant was an admirer of hers, and he sent her the money She sent the money to her uncle She had raised the five million, and she expected to receive a letter of appointment immediately Her uncle called her thirty minutes later, stammering and stuttering The people who called him to offer him the slot had stopped picking up his calls She began to cry in the office The accountant saw her crying and realised he had fumbled and would be in trouble He reported her to the Manager and the manager got the police involved The police officer in charge of the case reached out to her guarantor to see how the issue could be sorted out before she was formally charged with fraud. My boss couldn't believe it How would you give someone good counsel, and the person will do the opposite while expecting you to save him or her from the consequences of disobedience The guarantor begged The lady begged Her uncle and family members begged Nobody had any money to spare, and they didn't want her to be formally charged with a crime that would ruin her life and career We spent hours there At the end of the day, THE CHURCH, not my boss, paid off the two million she owed her employer The church also went ahead to plead on her behalf so that she would retain her job, and my boss stood as her guarantor because the former guarantor insisted that she must be immediately removed as her guarantor for that job As for the fraudsters, they disappeared without a trace She said if someone had told her that she would ever fall victim of such a scam, she would deny it She said it was the assurance that her uncle, who was at the time working with the Federal government, gave her regarding the slot that convinced her that it was an opportunity of a lifetime. At the end of the day, her uncle didn't help her with a penny of his money. PS: Many people have already made up their minds what they want to do and only ask you for counsel so that you can validate their decision. If you go against their decision, they will still do what they wanted to do. This was the lesson I learnt from that episode -GSW-

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@Equityoyo Customer wey no pay? You go use smart meter remote off their light. "Sorry, your credit don finish like MTN data!" ...then we move #WeMove #SPECProject

This is indeed the opportunity created by 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐁𝐨𝐥𝐚 𝐀𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐛𝐮 𝐢𝐧 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟑 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐄𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐀𝐜𝐭 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟑. This young man has taken advantage of that provision, which gives individuals, businesses, estates, factories, and communities the ability to generate up to 1 megawatt (1MW) of electricity without obtaining a license from the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC). As a stakeholder in the sector, this could be another opportunity for the government to reduce its over-dependency on the national grid. Kudos to this young man, he has surely gotten the grip on his house network, with a proper metering and monitoring system for his neighbours.

The way she looked at dad then back at her mom😭😭😂she was in disbelief that it backfired 😩😭😂

@GbengaWemimo Marriage is not all these paparazzi, and people often get carried away thinking the glamour and the glitters are the real deal...

People looking at marriages and judging marriages based on the things they see on the surface or on its public face are not being fair. Marriages survive on the things that cannot be seen, the internal workings and values that cannot be seen

@GbengaWemimo Menh this is so weird! Yet it's a reality men have to accept and prepare their minds for so as not to get unnecessary injury.

Finding Home When you love a woman, and she isn't really into you You know it. You either accept that she is not really into you or decide to convince her that she should be into you For most men, convincing a woman to be into them requires intentional loving and provision She gives you the room (her time) to prove yourself to her beyond a reasonable doubt while you hope your best as a man will be good enough. Sometimes it is Sometimes it is not When it is, the woman collapses her defences and makes up her mind to be with you When it is not, the woman chooses of her own free will to be with you until something better comes along Many times, the man knows the woman will eventually leave him This is not a matter of who is more beautiful or who is richer, or who is more accomplished A woman who is not into you makes it obvious She may sleep with you, and you may share the occasional wonderful time and experiences together You might make her laugh so loud that she forgets her reservations and surrenders all to you for one moment She might get pregnant and have children for you A woman who will not stay with you knows you are not her final destination That feeling is always there, that restlessness, being ill at ease, darting eyes, wandering soul, like that raven that Noah sent forth from the ark which found no resting place for its soul. Some men desperately try to hold on to a woman who is not really into them They try love, it fails Then they try material things They buy her cars, lavish her with gifts, get her pregnant as many times as possible within a short time frame, take her on trips, tries to make sure she doesn't settle down long enough in a place to develop any form of interest in another man They try their best to control the inflow of traffic from her past, they control the stability of her present, they keep her in a whirlwind of their volatile attention until they burn out Nobody can sustain a whirlwind romance and affair forever At a point, both must settle down to life At that point, she would leave She might leave him for a janitor or shoe maker, or for a woman, or for nobody She would leave A woman knows when her place is not by your side, sir Even when she is wearing your ring and bearing your name, she feels like she is just playing a role in a movie that she didn't write When she is pregnant, she either sees the baby as hers or yours The child is never ours, it is either My son or my daughter or your son or your daughter or your children It is never ours You can spend twenty years of your life being married to this woman Once in a while, she will step out of the marriage and cheat on you codedly You will never know unless she is ready to leave the life you have to offer Cheating on you periodically is a way of exhaling Marriage with you feels like drowning Like a swimmer with her head underwater When she cheats, she feels herself; she takes deep breaths You can label her all you want You can call her names and throw stones at her You can judge her and call her accursed You will be wrong A woman who feels comfortable where she shouldn't be is a woman who has no preprogrammed destination in her destiny Odysseus arrived on the island of Circe and fell deeply in love with the witch He was so lost in love that he forgot all about Ittaca, but destiny wouldn't let him stay on that Island His destination was Ittaca, and it was preprogrammed into him to return to his wife and son A life he would feel comfortable in and call home. If a woman can't call you home, you are just a hotel She would check into you, sleep on your bed, bathe in your bathroom, make love in you, admire you, take selfies in you, and make contents in you She will eat your meals and enjoy the luxuries you have to offer You, however, can't make her stay forever Every day she stays with you costs her heavily She must check out and return to the place where she will feel at home. The place may be a shack or with the most ugly man you have ever seen She might walk out of your wealth willfully into poverty If that is where she feels at home, that is where she will gravitate to, and there is nothing you can do about it -GSW-

Dont watch unless you want to answer some deep questions regarding your belief system

How ppl are programmed to defend the matrix…🔥

Chakras are demonic. Crystals are demonic. Reiki is demonic. Zodiac signs are demonic. Yoga is demonic. New Age practices are demonic. Godless spiritualism is demonic. Praying to the “universe” is demonic. Tarot cards are demonic. This generation has normalized darkness and packaged it as “healing,” “energy,” “alignment,” and “spiritual awakening.” But not every spiritual practice comes from God. The enemy does not always come looking dangerous. Sometimes he comes looking peaceful, enlightened, attractive, and harmless. The Bible says: “For Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of light.” — 2 Corinthians 11:14 As believers, we must be careful what we open our spirits to. Not everything trending online is from God. Not every spiritual experience is holy. Not every form of meditation leads to peace. There is no power greater than the power in JESUS CHRIST. There is no true healing outside God. There is no light greater than the light of Christ. You do not need crystals when you have the Rock of Ages. You do not need zodiac signs when God already knows your future. You do not need tarot cards when the Holy Spirit guides you into truth. You do not need to pray to the “universe” when you can pray to the Creator of Heaven and Earth. Jesus is enough. The Holy Spirit is enough. The Word of God is enough. Stop searching for spiritual substitutes when the presence of God is available. Choose Jesus. Choose truth. Choose holiness. Choose the Holy Spirit. If you stand with Jesus alone, drop an AMEN. 🙏

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A curse causeless shall not alight, imagine criminals cursing someone because he doesn't want you committing crime against him. What a twisted mind!

@arojinle1 A curse causeless shall not alight, imagine criminals cursing someone because he doesn't want you committing crime against him. What a twisted mind!

Many fuel tanker drivers are thieves and criminals. Just imagine thieves cursing the owner just because he put security measures in place. They must have stolen from the owner many times before he decided to install cameras on his truck. Now, they're angry and cursing him

GOD IS SO AMAZING!!😭🙌

@adaezennaji_ @DedayoRoots Yeah it's the unsweetened that's the real deal.

@DedayoRoots Does the Zobo have to be unsweetened?

This list means well. However, here's an African upgrade with every item replaced with something that hits harder, works deeper, and our ancestors already knew about. 1. Oats → Ogi (fermented corn porridge) Prebiotic, easier to digest, feeds gut bacteria that regulate belly fat