Angela Clare Oldroyd

Please help me and sign this petition to ensure that all judges who reside over cases involving DA are intensively trained so they don’t further traumatise 💜 chng.it/t95TX8gbPL #DomesticAbuse #domesticviolence #Narcissist #narcissism #Survivor

I’ve started a small Etsy shop called *Verses by Angela*, where I write personalised verses for special occasions — whether that’s something funny, heartfelt, or a mix of both. If you’ve ever struggled to find the right words for someone, that’s exactly what I help with.

@recovery_your 🩵

If you live with ADHD, BPD, C-PTSD, ASD, anxiety, or trauma recovery I want to follow you. I want to connect with you. I want us to remind each other: we are not alone in this. Drop a hi 👋 or 🩵 in the replies if you relate. Let’s build community, and let’s stop trying to cope in silence. Cause I’m sick of being alone.

Trauma doesn’t always look like flashbacks. Sometimes it’s just… • Numbing out with TV or scrolling. • Snapping at people you love. • Avoiding certain places without knowing why. • A body that feels on edge for no reason. • Shutting down when things get overwhelming. It’s the invisible (survival mode) and crushing

@_justeatukhlp8 fuelled my annoyance, anger and frustration. I do not EVER WANT TO USE JUST EAT AGAIN SO PLEASE JUST RETURN MY HARD EARNED MONEY!!! (3/3) #disgusted

@_justeatukhlp8 I requested a refund for an item that missing from my delivery only to be told that it would be account credit. If I have not received an item (worth almost £20), I expect a refund back to my ORIGINAL PAYMENT METHOD). The arsy responses received have just (2/3)

@_justeatukhlp8 I am disgusted by the level of customer service and the lack of ability to speak to someone. I actually managed to speak with a person at deliveroo (I wasn’t aware that the companies were concerted) who laughed at me when I voiced a concern. (1/2)

@recovery_your I’m sending so much love and strength to you at this time my lovely 💜 I hear and see you. You are worthy 💜 xxx

It’s extremely hard getting help where I live feels impossible actually. I have seen a doctor yes several times but they won’t issue medication, until I’m actually in services, Waiting lists are months (sometimes years), and when I’ve reached out, I’ve even been turned away because I’m considered ‘too complex.’ It makes the fight even harder when the system that’s supposed to support you just shuts the door.”

This is the lowest I’ve felt in a long time. I don’t know how to fix my mental health and I’m so tired of fighting my own mind. Living in this headspace feels unbearable. I just want the pain to stop.

@recovery_your But there is!! I now have my own home, a good paying job, a social life, support and not a happy ending but a happy continuation 💜 Although it doesn’t feel like it at the time, things/situations/feelings do change! You just need to put one foot in front on the other right now

@recovery_your I completely understand 💜 I had to pay for two years psychotherapy whilst being financially abused amongst other abuse. There is light at the end of the tunnel though lovely, I absolutely promise you!! I know that it doesn’t feel like there is, Jesus, I wanted to die so bad! 1/2

Want to know who the toxic one was after a breakup? Watch who takes time to heal, grow, and level up, versus who dives headfirst into a new relationship to avoid facing themselves.

Narcissists revel in the use of subtle rudeness or passive-aggressive criticism to provoke a reaction.
They'll make a subtly rude or overly critical comment just sharp enough to garner a response or explanation, subtle enough to give them plausible deniability of any aggressive intent—then use your response as an excuse to double down with another jab. Their goal isn't resolution—it's a trap. When you respond—even calmly—they follow up with another veiled insult or condescending remark. Their aim is to get you on the defensive, not to resolve anything. Once you start defending yourself, they accuse you of being “too sensitive” or “defensive,” as if there’s something wrong with being defensive to rudeness or aggression. Then comes the projection—they may even call you the narcissist. As if their entire setup was a trap designed to bait you into reacting so they could label you. And IT WAS.

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Please sign and share. If you have already signed, please be so kind as to share again 💜 Thank you #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #DA #melaniebrown chng.it/t95TX8gbPL

A traumatized person often shares their story because they’re scared. They’re living with tension, confusion, & pain that they don’t know what to do with. Validating them allows them to believe they are safe. Shaming them increases their pain & gives them more to heal from.

Parents 🧵 1. Good parenting right there

Former Labour Defence Minister Ivor Caplin has been arrested today after a sting by paedophile hunters. He allegedly attempted to meet a 15 year old boy.

This guy was sentenced to 7 years in prison for social media posts. The other guy was sentenced to a mere 6 months for raping a 9-year-old child! British “justice” system is deeply broken.

Healing is lonely. Survivors often spend most of their lives trying to find a sense of belonging in toxic homes until it costs too much. The pain in that is being invisible when you needed help the most. It’s not an absence of people but a lack of people who love well.