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@autogynephil

Autoheterosexual. If you're trans and reading this, you're likely AGP/AAP. Here I explain this most common kind of trans: https://t.co/SK8ITSwQIc

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Aaron Terrell
Aaron Terrell@elegationvain·
The Dangerous Myth of "Transing the Gay Away". I explain why this simply is not happening and why it is counterproductive to claim it is.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@datadriven_tdoc Is the gist of what you're saying that femaleness pertains to physical appearance whereas femininity pertains to the behavioral, psychological, and social?
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👩‍⚕️ Dr. Laura 👩‍⚕️
We need to separate femininity and femaleness as rhetorical concepts It actually does a heavy lift for explaining how even non-effeminate trans women (and ciis women) are interpreted as women without being feminine And why, by corollary, well medicalized trans women are not simply effeminate men, especially when they are not conforming to stereotypes of effeminacy
👩‍⚕️ Dr. Laura 👩‍⚕️@datadriven_tdoc

You interpret a person as being butch (and not a man) not because they are presenting femininity, but because they are presenting femaleness You pick up on the femaleness without you needing to do a cheek swab or a gonadal assessment, even when there is little femininity being expressed Similarly, if this same butch was natally male, you would still interpret her as an unfeminine female, (even though she was natally male) That is because you are picking up on femaleness

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Ray Blanchard
Ray Blanchard@BlanchardPhD·
James Morandini recently joined trans woman, Professor Laura Targownik and Yvette Nary on their podcast "Agree to Disagree About Gender" (Episode 8) for a long‑form conversation about autogynephilia. Link in reply. 00:00 — Episode framing + why this topic is so polarising 03:18 — AGP 101: definition, common misconceptions, the scientific concept of autogynephilia versus the pejorative lay-concept that scares TERFs and social conservatives and that trans activists and progressives "straw-man" to deny autogynephilia 06:46 — Orientation vs “paraphilia” vs “paraphilic disorder”: what these concepts mean 15:08 — Different life courses: cross‑dressing, shame/ego‑dystonicity, and thoughts about why some AGP folk develop dysphoria/transition desire 18:02 — Types of AGP (e.g., anatomic vs interpersonal vs behavioural/physiologic/transvestic) and why that may matter for one's gender trajectory 27:01 — From sexual orientation to transition: The role of social identity / psychological identity, gender dysphoria etc as mediators 55:17 — Autogynephilia theory does not imply that the proximal motivation to transition is immediate sexual gratification (separating the science of AGP from misconceptions/fallacies/"zombie ideas" about AGP) 1:02:22 — Clinical work with those who experience AGP, psychoeducation, informed consent, and how to discuss this respectfully/in a culturally competent manner.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@gynemimesis If they identified as "gay", that could include gynephilic MTFs as well as androphilic MTFs, couldn't it?
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Noora
Noora@gynemimesis·
Every single HSTS is AGP. 100% of them were somewhat aroused by being admired as a woman
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I. Weber
I. Weber@lockedoutofvenu·
@autogynephil Question: Why does it seem men with AGP are into aviation, trains, subways, light rail, cars, motorcycles, etc? Is this a proven thing or just anecdotes?
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Tali
Tali@talibotz·
It is the year of our lord 2025 and people are still calling Brianna Wu an HSTS. If only she hadn't hidden her podcast recording with @profjmb, maybe it would be clear to the rest of you that Brianna is your run of the mill autogynephile.
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Monica Hone 🍃💚🌿🤍💜
@QueerMajority @autogynephil It's a shame, isn't it? Men can no longer wear what they want because we will now assume they'll want to invade our private spaces & demand we pretend they're women. You've killed non-conformity and provided the perfect cover for dangerous perverts. Story after story @reduxx
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Queer Majority
Queer Majority@QueerMajority·
The fury over a “man in a dress” shows that the “gender-critical“ movement has become just another authoritarian cult. | @autogynephil
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phil illy@autogynephil·
Michael Bailey's (@profjmb) X account has been hacked, don't respond to any messages you get from it or click on the link
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic @grok When I asked for quantitative data, you could have just said you don't have any or don't want to provide it.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
People will do anything to make sense of transgenderism aside from understanding its actual cause (autoheterosexuality)
Read some Piaget please!@prof_curiosity1

If you want to understand how transgenderism has spread so fast amongst children please take time to read this post on Vygotsky. It is quite technical so bear with it. It explains the mechanisms behind ROGD and how 'gender identity' is not innate but a culturally constructed tool... Lev Vygotsky's sociocultural theory asserts that higher psychological functions such as self-concept, reasoning, and identity are not biologically innate, but develop through social interactions mediated by cultural tools (language, symbols, narratives) and guided by More Knowledgeable Others (MKOs) within the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD: the space between independent ability and potential with support). Scaffolding (structured assistance) helps children internalize these tools, turning external influences into personal cognition. This framework elegantly explains 'gender identity' in youth not as a fixed, innate essence mismatched to the body (as transgender ideology posits) but as a socially constructed, frequently temporary schema adopted to manage life stressors. It complements Piaget (concrete thinking limits abstract identity concepts), Kohlberg (gender constancy anchors in biology), and others, revealing no developmental necessity for a separate "gender soul", only cultural mediation shaping how children interpret distress. Temporary Schema as Coping Mechanism: Faced with challenges like trauma (sexual abuse, family breakdown), neurodiversity (autism making social cues overwhelming), bullying for nonconformity, same sex attraction confusion, or normal puberty unease, a child encounters "trans," "non-binary," or "genderqueer" as accessible cultural tools. These include diagnostic language ("dysphoria," "cisnormativity"), explanatory narratives ("born in the wrong body," "gender euphoria"), and symbolic markers (flags, pronouns, wardrobe shifts). The schema reframes personal pain as an external mismatch rather than internal conflict, offering quick meaning and relief. Desistance rates (80–95% without affirmation) confirm its transience: as stressors resolve or better tools emerge (e.g., trauma-focused therapy), the schema often dissolves. Scaffolding by More Knowledgeable Others (MKOs): Adults and authority figures - teachers implementing "gender affirmation" policies, therapists using affirmative models, parents seeking to be "supportive," or clinicians offering rapid medical pathways - serve as MKOs. They provide targeted scaffolding in the child's ZPD: prompting questions ("How do you feel in your body?"), validating tentative declarations, supplying scripts ("It's okay to explore your true self"), and delivering rewards (praise, reduced family tension, special status). This guidance embeds the schema deeply, making it feel autonomously discovered. Vygotsky stressed that scaffolding should promote independence; here, it often narrows exploration, channelling distress exclusively toward trans outcomes and bypassing root causes. Social Media Amplification and Digital Mediation: Modern platforms (TikTok, Reddit, Tumblr, Discord) function as hyper-efficient cultural toolkits and virtual MKO networks. Short-form videos, memes, testimonials ("How I knew I was trans at 10"), and community forums deliver constant, personalised mediation, far beyond traditional social circles. Algorithms reinforce exposure, pushing similar content and creating echo chambers. Youth in vulnerable ZPD phases internalise rapidly through repeated observation and interaction, often within weeks or months. Littman's ROGD research (2018) documents this pattern: prior immersion in trans-related online content precedes sudden identifications, with no childhood history of dysphoria. Peer-to-Peer Spread and Reciprocal Transmission: Once internalized, the child becomes an MKO, actively exporting the schema - sharing resources, coaching friends on pronouns/names, or modelling "coming out" stories. This creates contagion clusters (multiple friends in one school), driven by reciprocal scaffolding and group reinforcement. The dynamic gains momentum: validation feels communal and empowering, resembling a self-sustaining cultural loop or "Ponzi" structure where early adopters recruit others for mutual affirmation. In short, the explosive rise of youth transgender identification in the West exemplifies Vygotskian "Ponzi" dynamics on a societal scale: novel cultural tools ('gender identity' as explanatory framework) spread virally, intensively scaffolded by institutions and digital ecosystems, and internalised en-masse among vulnerable cohorts. This transforms fleeting coping strategies into apparently immutable truths, overriding natural desistance pathways. True developmental alignment would offer diverse, evidence-based tools, therapy addressing comorbidities, body neutral education, patient exploration, allowing schemas to evolve flexibly rather than solidify prematurely into medicalised identities. Vygotsky reminds us that development is profoundly social; the current trend reflects not biological destiny but cultural over mediation.

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Exulansic 🦎@TTExulansic·
I can give you the number 2 for how many sexes you need to be mentally cognizant of to be a male who wishes he were female. Some people do not develop a capacity to conceptualize themselves. A developed capacity to self-conceptualize is a necessary pre-requisite to coming to the conclusion that you are not what you want to be. That's why the term getting your egg cracked exists. That's why your egg cracked from substance use that prompted new connections. It's because these ideas are not present at birth.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic Any numbers, please anything. I can provide numbers that support the relevance of AGP to MTF transsexualism. Do you have something similar for this framework you're arguing in favor of
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic Please show me the data. I'm asking for numbers: charts, tables, etc
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Exulansic 🦎
Exulansic 🦎@TTExulansic·
There's immense data for these theories generally. While the sexual feedback loop of males imagining females and becoming aroused is evolved and innate, the elaborate schema system where a man concludes he wants to be or would prefer to be a woman is a level of functioning beyond what young children are mentally capable of. That's why taking the word of adults to justify medically transitioning children first by indoctrinating them into an ideology above their developmental capacity, which is what things like the gender unicorn and pronoun rituals do, is coercive and psychologically exploitive of children's inherent lack of psychological development as predicted by these various psychological theories (which are foundational to my field so I am applying them on a day to day basis to make clinical decisions for real children).
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic There were some males and females alike who pursued transition long before it was a fad. I don't deny that the modern social and technological environment is making more people transition, but it's obviously not just caused by social environment.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic okay but where is the data for this other theory you are in favor of? There is data to support the AGP theory
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Exulansic 🦎
Exulansic 🦎@TTExulansic·
To put it another way, it's not so much that it is one or the other that is correct. It's that "autosexuality" as a theory relies on the idea that men with AGP have achieved a particular level of psychosocial development that allows them to conceptualize themselves as non women and to imagine themselves as instead women.
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phil illy@autogynephil·
@TTExulansic What is the best empirical data that supports this theory?
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Exulansic 🦎@TTExulansic·
@autogynephil I mean this theory actually predicts more than the singular thing autosexuality was ad-hoc'd to explain
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phil illy@autogynephil·
So many epicycles being spun up even though it's almost all just one thing
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