
TechDaddy Isonu, Elehoro side hustle
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TechDaddy Isonu, Elehoro side hustle
@b_bolusam
Programmer 'PHP' | Writer of nonsense at times | AI, Crypto and airdrops enthusiast. Founder & co founder of several techbrands. I endorsed https://t.co/9CTJxYuNv6
Ibadan, Nigeria Katılım Eylül 2015
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I started something quietly at BSAM Tech Networks.
It’s called DDI 0 — the first cohort of Den of Digital Innovators.
For the past few weeks, we’ve been building from foundation.
Day 6 today.
Pure PHP. Real databases. Sessions before authentication.
No shortcuts.
#DDI0 #BuildWithBolu
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@MrCharlesky Staying awake to make more money(mmm) after official duty is an hubby here... Can I get more details please ?
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@luxemiaa Men are problem solvers and we are logic wired more than emotions....
That's a thoughtful man there.
Kudos to him
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I was not prepared for that level of thoughtfulness from anyone today let alone a male coworker who had no reason to even get involved. He heard a problem and just quietly solved it and made sure I wasn't embarrassed in the process.
His girlfriend is lucky honestly. The bar is on the floor for men in 2024 and this one brought a stepladder and climbed right over it.
We love an evolved king. We really do.
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So I got my period at work today with absolutely no warning and went around asking all the women in the office if anyone had anything and nobody had a single thing.
One of the guys overheard me and said he had pads in his car because he keeps them there for his girlfriend for emergencies.
And then he went out to his car and came back and handed me a pastry bag.
This man had put the pads inside a pastry bag so nobody would know what was in it. To save me the awkwardness of walking through the office visibly carrying pads. He thought about that. On his own.
And it wasn't just one, he gave me two because I had an eight hour shift and he did that math himself apparently.
I was not prepared for......
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@Tasha1644 @sunrich1111 I see what you did there....😂
Allow nah, abeg
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"I went to see this guy and I stayed there overnight. We had a good time. We’ve been talking for like two months, and we decided to start dating barely two weeks ago.
So I was like, okay, I’ve never been to his house before, let me go and see him. This was my first time going there. I didn’t sleep all through the night.
He woke up as early as 7am and went to work. He told me where to drop his key when I wanted to leave. I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly, easily.
When he was leaving, he told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows, because if rain falls, it will wet my bed.’ I had to tell him, ‘Please call me and remind me because I will forget.’
After he left for work, I just knocked out. I slept till like 9. I called him and I was like, ‘Hey babe, I want to leave, please send me money.’ He sent me money, and that was when he reminded me to shut the window.
I had it in mind to arrange where I slept and at least take the food he got me the night before that I didn’t like and throw it in the trash because I’m sure it had already spoilt by morning. I had it in mind to do all those things, but I forgot. I completely forgot.
I left his house without arranging the bed. I didn’t take out the food. I just left. He later called me and was like, ‘You left my house unkept. I came back and my house was sm£lling. The food you ate, you didn’t take it out.’
So I apologized to him on the phone and told him I was sorry, that it wasn’t intentional. He was like, ‘Okay, no problem,’ and we ended the call. I still felt gu!lty about what I did, so I texted him again to apologize.
Later that evening, he texted me saying he had thought about it deeply and that it might seem small to me, but it was a big thing to him. He said he was no longer interested in the relationship since we had not gone far, and then he bl0cked me everywhere. He didn’t even allow me to respond.
The same person that had been telling me ‘I love you, I love you, I love you.’ This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one that does the breaking up. Please let me know if I am wrong or right...”
- Lady shares how her boyfriend allegedly broke up with her after she forgot to clean his apartment after visiting him.

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@kingwizzi_tweet @Deseiye_ " — "
Well said bro. Very much on point and valid.
The Quoted symbol above my comment does not exist on keyboard characters, AI always introduce it in a corrected text or prompted response. I always remove it in any of my write-ups so as not to give a clue my text is AI assisted
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You didn’t embarrass the family—you just exposed an uncomfortable truth.
What’s actually embarrassing is owing someone ₦150k for 8 months while publicly spending freely. Your comment was emotional, yes, but it came from frustration, not malice.
Still, the wiser move now is to handle it privately: call him, demand a clear repayment plan, and keep family out of the middle. Public call-outs may feel satisfying, but they usually shift focus away from the real issue—repayment and accountability.
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My cousin borrowed ₦150k from me last year because his ‘business was collapsing.’
I sent it immediately because he cried on the phone.
For 8 months, he kept saying:
‘Next week, I swear.’
Yesterday, I opened Instagram and saw him spraying money at a club in Lagos with the caption:
‘Hard work pays.’
I commented:
‘So does debt repayment.’
He deleted my comment and my aunt called me this morning saying I embarrassed the family.
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@grok @PhilipUche16187 @CrownprinceCom2 They say recreate, you dey zuzu
Reveal the hidden person nah, let's see, abi the lady is truly disabled ni?
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@PhilipUche16187 @CrownprinceCom2 Haha, you caught me 😂
On closer look, there’s a third person hiding behind her on the left — their arm is wrapped around her waist too. Classic sneaky group photo trick!
Want me to recreate it with all three fully visible this time?
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Fifteen years ago, I met a girl named Oyinkansola on Twitter (now x.com)
Not through DM o… proper Nigerian style.
We met in the comment section of one hot trending post where everybody was fighting over politics they didn’t even understand.
I dropped one “deep” tweet.
She replied with laughing emojis.
I replied again, trying to sound like a whole philosopher.
Before I knew it, we slid into DMs.
From DM to WhatsApp.
From WhatsApp to midnight calls.
From midnight calls to “Have you eaten?”
From “Have you eaten?” to “Send picture make I see you well.”
The chemistry was mad.
This girl was in Brazil, I was in Nigeria pressing phone with confidence bigger than my bank account. We spoke every single day, pictures, videos, voice notes, Zoom calls. I was using angles and lighting like a professional photographer hiding poverty. Rough background? Blur am. No light? Call it “soft aesthetics.” Posting motivational quotes every morning? Na because data subscription was cheaper than breakfast.
Somehow, this girl started believing I was from a wealthy family.
Till today I still don’t know how she reached that conclusion.
Maybe it was all the “Closed another deal today,” “Business meeting was productive,” and “Clients from overseas are stressing me.”
Meanwhile the “deal” was helping one recharge card seller design a flyer, sachet water factory flyers and so on, charging ₦2,500 per flyer back then
Fast forward two years later.
She said she was coming to Nigeria from Brazil for a family event and wanted us to finally meet physically.
Ah.
Me?
I prepared like a man going to meet in-laws at Buckingham Palace. New clothes and better timber land. Borrowed my cousin’s wristwatch. Sprayed perfume till the mosquitoes in my area started coughing.
We agreed to meet at Chicken Republic, Iwo Road.
That day I arrived on okada.
Not Bolt.
Proper okada wey dey sound like generator fighting for survival.
As I climbed down from the bike, the security men looked at me with one bombastic side eye. One small boy kept looking at my shoe. Even the bike man looked at me one kind way.
Then I saw her.
Beautiful. Standing near the entrance.
She looked confused.
Then disappointed.
Then confused again.
That was Oyinkansola, my girlfriend of two years. The woman that thought I was a billionaire’s son.
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Make I complete the story?
If this blow up, I will drop the rest 👇👇👇
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Yes. This is nothing but the reality now. You can argue it all you want.
Try and start to pen down all the penny you spend from today. Come back in 30days and show us. You will realize a lot is going out of your pocket monthly as a "RESPONSIBLE MAN"
Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe
And that's the sad reality. In Nigeria of today and as a married man with kids that are above 10 years old. If you don't spend more than N500k in a month to feed your family, you're poor. And it's so sad. It should not be more than N50k. We have a serious problem. End.
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As much as I understand the possible side effects, I initially wanted to ask same question. But on second thought, it might actually be wiser to maintain that stance or even remain single as a lady, rather than risk future unforeseen wahala.
Unless the relationship started before all those differences came into play and both people have already built something solid together. But I will say, as a man, always try to be ahead at all time, try your best, try your best oooooo
It gets why. @jon_d_doe , I stand to be corrected
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Fellow Nigerians, good morning.
I woke up this morning after my church service with a deeply reflective heart, and despite every constraint, I felt compelled to share these thoughts with you.
Many people do not truly understand the silent pains some of us carry daily—the private struggles, emotional burdens, and quiet battles we face while trying to survive and serve sincerely in difficult circumstances.
We now live in an environment that has become increasingly toxic, where the very system that should protect and create opportunities for decent living often works against the people—a society where intimidation, insecurity, endless scrutiny, and discouragement have become normal.
More painful is when some of those you associate with, believing you would find understanding and solidarity among them, become part of the pressure you face. Some who publicly identify with you privately distance themselves or join in unfair criticism.
We live in a society where humility is mistaken for weakness, respect is seen as a lack of courage, and compassion is treated as foolishness—a system where treating people equally is questioned simply because you refuse to worship status, tribe, class, or power.
Personally, I have never looked down on anyone except to uplift them. I have never used privilege, position, or resources to oppress others, intimidate the weak, or make people feel small. To me, leadership has always been about service, sacrifice, and helping others rise.
Let me state clearly: my decision to leave the ADC is not because our highly respected Chairman, Senator David Mark, treated me badly, nor because my leader and elder brother, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, or any other respected leaders did anything personally wrong to me. I will continue to respect them.
However, the same Nigerian state and its agents that created unnecessary crises and hostility within the Labour Party that forced me to leave now appear to be finding their way into the ADC, with endless court cases, internal battles, suspicion, and division, instead of focusing on deeper national problems and playing politics built more on control and exclusion than on service and nation-building.
Even within spaces where one labours sincerely, one is sometimes treated like an outsider in one’s own home. You and your team become easy targets for every failure, frustration, or misunderstanding, as though honest contribution has become a favour being tolerated rather than appreciated.
And when you choose to leave so that those you are leaving can have peace, and you step out into the cold, you are still maligned and your character is questioned. Despite all your efforts to continue working for a better Nigeria and engaging people with sincerity and goodwill, those who do not wish you well continue to attack your character and question your intentions.
There are moments I ask God in prayer: Why is doing the right thing often misconstrued as wrongdoing in our country? Why is integrity not valued? Why is the prudent management of resources, especially when invested in critical areas like education and healthcare, wrongly labelled as stinginess? Why are humility and obedience to the rule of law often taken to be weakness rather than discipline?
Let me assure all that I am not desperate to be President, Vice President, or Senate President. I am desperate to see a society that can console a mother whose child has been kidnapped or killed while going to school or work. I am desperate to see a Nigeria where people will not live in IDP camps but in their homes. I am desperate for a country where Nigerian citizens do not go to bed hungry, not knowing where their next meal will come from.
Yet, despite everything, I remain resolute. I firmly believe that Nigeria can still become a country with competent leadership based on justice, compassion, and equal opportunity for all.
A new Nigeria is POssible. -PO
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They’ll soon start arguing heavily in this space, and honestly, we need to embrace our reality as Africans before anything
I believe in clear values and structure, especially when it comes to family. You should respect and know primary gender roles but still raise both boys and girls to be responsible and able to function in any role. Those things shouldn’t be optional.
But here’s the real issue: too many people don’t have these conversations early.
Before marriage, sit down and be honest about few basics:
- Roles
- Expectations
- Lifestyle choices
- Personal boundaries
If your ideologies align, great, build together.
If they don’t, don’t force it. It’s better to walk away early than to struggle later.
For example, I personally don’t want my wife washing my clothes. That’s my choice, and we’ve already discussed it, we’re both comfortable with it. The key is agreement, not assumption.
Stop assuming. Start discussing.
Face reality before marriage, not after.
In conclusion: I agree with you. Some roles are/should be basic
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@GloriousGod01 Guys, these are core duties of a married woman... why are some people arguing this.
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But wait, you mean even after marriage, I’ll still be washing my own clothes? Not happening.
Once I get married, my wife will be in charge of washing my clothes and cooking for the family.
I will only cook when:
1. She is sick,
2. She is not around, or
3. I just want to make something good for the family; what you all call "being romantic".
Apart from that, the kitchen is solely her domain. She will wash my clothes with joy and gladness. Non-negotiable.
Above all, love God.
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@jon_d_doe Single mother? I taught she lost the pregnancy
Guess she was cheating in those 7years before they divorce also.
Abi na me no get the plot twist in this story😂
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I'm not sure I have shared this story before.
A lady was supposed to get married to a man, but the man later broke up for reasons known only to them..
Then she discovered that she was pregnant.
Meanwhile, another man had also been on her neck.
She then decided to hurriedly get married to him with the pregnancy, unbeknownst to her husband.
But she lost the baby almost immediately after the wedding.
For more than 7 years, she could not get pregnant.
She later found out that the husband had fertility issues (which he knew about but never revealed to her).
They remained childless until they divorced.
She's now a single mother.
End.
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@Oludeewon The site is not allowing some of us in, guess it's too much traffic
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