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@beaux_jade

| 🇯🇲 | FL ✈️ GA | 3yrs loc’d 💗

Atlanta, GA Katılım Kasım 2015
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@todkal132 @LenSigasa @Jazsaraelove How is using someone’s most intimate parts and kicking them out ur home treating them like a normal human being? HANGING OUT is what normalll human beings do with people they’re in association with. Coworkers hang out damn, y’all act like it’s deep and it’s not
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Kalil@todkal132·
@LenSigasa @Jazsaraelove How is it “hostility” if the intent is strictly sex on both ends? If you want dates and courting, then just date the person. But the redefining of things gotta stop. “We’re just having casual sex, but we go on dates, buy gifts, say I love you, met each other’s family.”
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@noiryouudidthat @thatgirlnoemie @Jazsaraelove It is okay but understand that different people require different things to get there, I need to have a feel for someone’s personality and like it and that requires talking and spending time outside of sex to really want to fuck. That does NOT mean I want a relationship!!
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0000@noiryouudidthat·
@thatgirlnoemie @Jazsaraelove It’s perfectly okay for people to find one another attractive and want nothing more than sex from one another literally for a multitude of reasons. Sex and the relationships you have are what you make n define them as my god
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@LooveIm @Jazsaraelove Y’all are so delulu every woman is NAWT like this Yes I can say I’ve seen this but to put it off on EVERY woman is projection from whatever woman caught feelings for y’all sorry asss Lol it is possible to want to get to know someone and still only want sex before & after
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babe@LooveIm·
@Jazsaraelove This is why y’all get yalls feelings hurt. Baby it’s ok to admit you want a relationship. U know damn well a man that just wants to fuck is not taking you out on dates. You want to lie about what you actually want then paint him the bad guy when he wants to stick to actual casual
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@cleanyt77 @GlamazonJay They don’t get that cuz their heads too far up their own ass to really exercise their own autonomy 🥴
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That Dude@cleanyt77·
@GlamazonJay "knowing they’re not choosing you" I think you're missing the part where they have agency too and are "not choosing" the mfs either.
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✨Kei$ha✨@GlamazonJay·
This casual sex/dating convo yall having is so low budget. Please be fucking honest. Y’all are willing to accept the bare minimum from these niggas knowing they’re not choosing you. And that’s no shade. It’s what it is because all mfs been telling yall
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$phynx🖤@SlimThaGoddess_·
i don't like when ppl treat me like i'm just some irrational crash out tweaker bitch w no brain just bc i'm not afraid to be angry out loud, or assertive/vocal about my real feelings. this nonchalant bullshit really got y'all forgetting how to be human & its weird & unrealistic.
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🪞@BALUCIAGA·
i really hate the “it’s their choice, why do you care” argument. it’s such an intellectually lazy way to avoid engaging with the actual impact of certain behaviours. choice doesn’t exist in a vacuum, and nothing is beyond critique.
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
Too many birds on the ground and not in the sky 🥴
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staxxx🦅@papiwontmiss·
Dating is so partner oriented nowadays, I had to really teach myself talking to someone 24/7 is not normal or healthy in anyway shape or form. Do you realize how crazy it is to get mad at someone for not receiving a text back after a couple hours when y’all speak EVERYDAY???
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 I get you fr lol but yk how the timeline be on one accord sometimes and that’s all I’ve been seeing is Latto discourse abt singe motherhood and broken homes in the black community when I saw yours as well so def my bad on that one 🩷
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
telling people to stop shaming single mothers for having children while unmarried turned into me “encouraging single mother homes” like you guys are all insane & can’t read.
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 & I respect that, I am bicultural so I get it but I live in and amongst black America so I know how deep this pain is for them and I empathize 🙁 I truly just want better for them/us & This discourse was sparked around BA’s as well bc of Latto’s pregnancy so it was presumed to me
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 i understand you but keep in mind i am not american, my tweets aren’t personal attack to black americans as i am multicultural and have different experiences lol
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 At not having kids yes But at the kids that are here having a two parent home? Not in the (US) black community we’re not..
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 Society teaches WOMEN that, not MEN and men are apart of our society and the catalysts to this issue so again I’m here for shaming BOTH of them. Women taking the brunt end of everything has caused us to give up and we shouldn’t and men should be equally shamed. That is all I thin
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swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 that we aren’t doing as society to encourage this mindset, we just need to allow ppl to follow their own paths or do what works for them without shaming them man.
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Extremely Country@DarrinEvans·
So what I’m getting is y’all don’t understand probability. Learning to swim doesn’t mean I can’t drown, but if I’m thrown off a boat 100 yards from shore I have a much lower chance of drowning than someone that can’t swim. Hope that helps.
retro@CourtneeHendrix

People on Twitter somehow don’t see all the failures that come out of two parent homes. That’s not the end all be all To raising a child lmfao.

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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 And you can confidently say that the Congolese is creating as many broken homes as black America?? Cuz I’m Jamaican and we have that issue there as well but I’d have to research if it’s equally as bad as it is here
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 but my tweet wasn’t about the US specifically it’s about the culture of shaming single mothers. i’m Congolese, this is also a thing in our communities.. why did u assume this had to be about the US?
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 individualistically sure I do agree with that but that’s not the approach I’m taking when I make that statement. I’m talking abt societal, weeee socialize what is normal and if weee socialized (through shame, punishment and celebration)something different then we’d have sumn diff
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 there is nothing wrong with it, shaming mothers who have children alone is wrong tho. that’s the only thing im arguing here.
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 I think shaming BOTH, could do something But prioritizing the emotional welfare of individuals is where we are as a society now and everyone (ppl like you) wouldn’t commit to the bill and that would make it more ineffective than the fact that it’s just ineffective on its own
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 lol it is security but not for whether or not he leaves. And again, probability is what I’m speaking on, not guarantees. Nothing is guaranteed but that doesn’t mean give tf up?
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 you can give a baby to man because you married him and he can leave you within 3 weeks of you giving birth, marriage isn’t security
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Lotus 🪷@beaux_jade·
@thekonyjen @mjdoll2632 2 parent households still live in poverty and single parent households live above poverty. And they are outnumbered by the other way around (in the US) showcasing a clear probability What’s wrong w encouraging women to wait on giving their kids better chances?
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swiss bae 🇨🇩
swiss bae 🇨🇩@thekonyjen·
@beaux_jade @mjdoll2632 so the solution would be to not have kids at all then…. 2 parents household STILL live in poverty like what r u saying to me 😭
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@todkal132 @LenSigasa @Jazsaraelove @noiryouudidthat @thatgirlnoemie @LooveIm @cleanyt77 @GlamazonJay