AnnSomm
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AnnSomm
@beez13150
Always fighting for human and animal rights. #Resistance ME/CFS since 2010




From streets and shelters to the dogs’ playground. Running, rolling, chasing, barking, living. Sometimes the smallest piece of land can mean the biggest change in a dog’s life.






My father is my only caregiver, and I have very severe ME/CFS. He only has about 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour at night to care for me. The rest of the day I am mostly alone. I am so severe that sometimes I cannot even reach my earplugs with my own arm when I need them. I also have very distressing neurological and neuropsychiatric symptoms — severe OCD, involuntary noises, and other symptoms that are extremely difficult to live with. I also cannot tolerate most medications that are often suggested (SSRIs, LDA, etc.) because of side effects. We also cannot afford a caregiver, and we have no nearby family, neighbors, church, or community support. It is essentially just my father and me. Because of severe PTSD, I cannot tolerate strangers in the caregiving role. My mother can sometimes help in emergencies, but she does not understand my autistic communication style combined with ME/CFS, so it is not a sustainable solution. Hospital care is also not a realistic option where I live (Mexico). Public hospitals are extremely difficult environments for someone with very severe ME/CFS, and I do not want to spend my life sedated in a hospital. I still want to be myself and live at home. My father is exhausted and close to burnout. I love him deeply, and there are real emotions involved here — not just logistics. I am trying to figure out how to reduce the burden on him without harming my own health. For those in the ME/CFS community: • How do you structure care when a caregiver has very limited time? • What routines or systems helped reduce caregiver strain? • How do you balance not overwhelming your caregiver while still meeting basic needs? • Any tools, pacing strategies, or practical ideas that helped? I would deeply appreciate advice from people who have faced something similar. #caregiver #severeme #awaraness #imss @SSalud_mx

For those of us who are housebound/bedbound, how do spend your days?















