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We’ve known each other for 11 years now. Started dating 8 years ago. Married 6 now. And I can’t remember a life without you.
This year held both loss and revelation. Things fell away that couldn’t come with us. It wasn’t an easy year… but who are we kidding. None of the years have been easy for us. One year after we started dating in NYC, I was diagnosed with cancer. What a cruel Universal joke it is to find the love of your life and be served with your mortality at the same time. It’s been trial after trial since. I’m accepting this as we are only given what we can handle. We are resilient, and as such, we are served more growth opportunities than most.
What I love most about us now is the steadiness. The traditions we’ve built. The rhythms that belong only to us. The way our future is never questioned, never bargained with, never used as leverage. We move forward knowing who we are to each other and what we’re holding.
And then there is our son.
Our heart beating outside of us.
A soul tie made visible.
A reminder that some bonds aren’t conceptual. They’re eternal.
Watching us become parents together didn’t dilute us. It anchored us. It gave shape and gravity to everything we already were. Love stopped being abstract and became something lived, daily, and irreversible.
I love that we don’t ever rely on nostalgia or fake ass promises. What we have is deeper than that. Built on knowing, not hope. On roles that fit, choices that repeat, and a shared knowing that doesn’t require reassurance.
So here’s to another year married. Rooted. Aligned. Certain. As always.
Still choosing this life with you without question.
I love you mostest.




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