chibi_kai

Da ab heute nötig eine Klarstellung meines Vokabulars: Frau = erwachsener Mensch weiblichen Geschlechts Mann = erwachsener Mensch männlichen Geschlechts männlich/ weiblich = Körper, der grundlegend auf die Produktion kleiner (m) oder großer (w) Gameten ausgelegt ist.

She didn’t cheat. She didn’t try to take what wasn’t hers. She did everything right. She worked hard. She got up early. She sacrificed. She respected the other players. What about HER???

I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and a genetic predisposition for endometriosis. The pain gets so bad or I lose so much blood that I pass out, haemorrhage, or end up in hospital. I might not be able to have kids because of it. I am sick of men cosplaying our suffering. A man can identify as a woman. But he will never be female. Endometriosis and PCOS are debilitating conditions which affect one in ten women. WOMEN. Only women. You will never feel the heartbreak of miscarrying a child, the agony of dysmenorrhea, the fear of being told as a teenager that the biological process your body was built for will cause decades of pain and suffering. Our biology is not your label. Our suffering is not your kink. Our bodies are not your costume. If a straight cisgender woman was hired as a transgender representative, the trans community would be outraged. So why is it okay for a man to be hired for a woman’s job? We deserve advocates and representatives who actually understand us. Our bodies. Our disease. Our choice. If you were born with a penis, you will never know what it’s like to be a woman. Stop fetishising the female experience.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth No. A bean bag isn't a chair. It however is a place to sit which can be more than just chairs.

@chibi_kai @BevJacksonAuth A bean bag is a chair though.

“Trans women are women.” No. They are men. “Well. Some trans women are women.” No. They are men. “Well. A tiny proportion of trans women, who have always felt they were in the wrong body and have actually had surgery - that tiny proportion of trans women are surely women.” No. They are men. There is no “true trans.”

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth everybody else had to face this fact. The same with people who lost a bodypart. They may sometimes feel as if it still is there and even try to move it. Realizing it isn't can be very distressing. These mental images can be false and have no impact on reality.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth I imaged them to be smaller or non existing and how this would be better for sports etc. I envisioned me with a more compact chest regularly, to be shirtless like my brothers and not giving a single fuck about them - this just didn't impact the reality at all and i as ...

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth Thanks for correcting my slipup regarding dismorphia/ dysphoria. As a non-native speaker i sometime struggle to differentiate with these very similar sounding labels. No gender involved in what you discribe, only SEX characteristics. Therefore it is a sex dysphoria.

@chibi_kai @BevJacksonAuth No it’s called body dysmorphia. Gender dysphoria is a kind of body dysmorphia specifically applied to sexual characteristics.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth I never said i wouldn't point out the flaws in your discriptions. If we talk about SEX characteristic, no gender is involved.

@chibi_kai @BevJacksonAuth Gender dysphoria refers to dysphoria related to sex characteristics. You’re precisely doing what you said you wouldn’t do.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth because of the nature of their DSD. Stop using them as a crutch for healthy people mimicking the opposite sex and demanding access to single-sex spaces. If trans was keyed to these DSDs neither you nor the majority of online trans activist would be labeled as trans.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth testresults would clash with visual sex characteristics and therefore lead to further testing to reveal which DSD in particular this individual has. And no, not "a ton" of these individuals have given birth naturally. Many of them need medical interventions to acieve pregnancy...

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth primary purpose is to sit more than one person, which is a limitation in the definition given to you. You just demonstrated, that you apparently aren't abel to understand and use definitions.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth A bean bag isn't a chair, correct. A stool isn't a chair as it lacks the "back support" that is part of the definition. That's why it has a separate name and you and other will be abel to clearly separate stools from chairs when presented with both. Sofas aren't chairs as their..

@kineyDE dass es um etwas echt Schweres geht und ich selbst damit Probleme hätte, während die Jungen jetzt schon oft kräftiger sind als ich. Da wird dann auch nicht diskutiert und niemand ist enttäuscht, da der Kraftunterschied begriffen und sinnvoll eingesetzt wird.

@kineyDE Deshalb habe ich damit eingeleitet, dass sie absolut Recht haben. Selbstverständlich sollte man den Kindern keine völlig falschen Vorstellungen mitgeben, sondern die realistischen Unterschiede wertfrei kommunizieren. Wenn ich nach den Jungs frage wissen die Mädels z.B. sofort,...

"Stärke hat kein Geschlecht." doch, hat sie. Es ist sogar so dramatisch, dass weibliche Profisportler weniger Kraft haben als _durchschnittliche_ Männer. Das muss einem nicht gefallen, dadurch ändert sich die Realität aber nicht.

@kineyDE können auch die Mädchen, zur Not zu zweit. Viele Kinder, die nicht allzu gute schulische Leistungen haben, neigen dazu sich auf menschlicher Ebene Anerkennung erarbeiten zu wollen, um gesehen zu werden. Da sollte man ein Geschlecht nicht im Zugang zu Gelegenheiten beschränken.

@kineyDE Da haben Sie absolut recht, keine Frage! Dennoch finde ich es im schulischen Kontext doch etwas unangebracht nur die Jungen anzusprechen. Zumeist geht es bei solchen Fragen nur darum ein paar Tische + Stühle zu bewegen oder ein paar Pakete in die Fachräume zu tragen - das...

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth Can't you see it? For "gender dysphoria" to be a thing one needs to know what gender is so we can recognice dysphoria based on that. But you use "gender dysphoria" as a keypoint in the definition of gender. So it relies solely on itselfe, a perpetual circle.

@chibi_kai @BevJacksonAuth How is it self-reliable my definition?

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth Someone can voice issues with proprioception, but this could be a lie. We don't have a measurable test that doesn't rely on an individuals personal assertion. And again: that still wouldn't involve gender, but sex as these characteristics refer to ones sex.

@chibi_kai @BevJacksonAuth It is absolutely provable, proprioception issues can easily be detected.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth doesn't matter, as you would need to prove that you are not female but male instead using the exact same methods we use to test everybody else and i assure you the SRY gen detection tests will always identify you as female.

@JulietteBuet @BevJacksonAuth fundamentally designed to produce with not a single human in medical history as of now being abel to produce both at the same time and no known third option. Some individuals like yourselfe will probably deny the correct assertion because of their mental gymnastics, but that d...