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@chordlec

I'm first, a Nigerian survivor | If only I can find what completes a man...| It's factually impossible to get a feminist to see logic.

Nigeria Katılım Ağustos 2013
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Jay@chordlec·
I'm not the guy on my profile but his story made me believe God sees our effort. And his story seems to look like lies. But my prayer is Lord give me testimony that when I share it, it will sound like a lie.
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Jay@chordlec·
@NERCNG Today made it 1 week that @aedcelectricity brought light in Aso B behind primary school Mararaba, Nasarawa State. They said reason was because we did not buy transformer. If I may ask, is it our duty the - 'customers' to buy transformer? @NgComCommission
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@jon_d_doe Hah! They might know your identity
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Àgbà John Doe
Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
I just overhead my neighbor quarreling with his wife. He's angry with her because the kids are still at home and she has not yet taken them to school. Husband: you're just too lazy. Wife: must I be the one to take them to school? Can't you also take them? Tik tok wife. End.
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Tommi Pedruzzi
Tommi Pedruzzi@TommiPedruzzi·
R.I.P 9 to 5. You don't need a job anymore. A simple 120 page PDF can make you $8,400 per month. Comment “PDF” and I’ll send you a FREE training breaking the entire system down. (With all the AI prompts) ⏳ (First 500 only).
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Jay@chordlec·
@aedcelectricity Even service providers like @MTN180 @GloWorld nd the likes are making life unbearable for us here. We don't have constant light there is no network to even try any remote job.What kind of a mes is this? Can all of you guys fix this situation.It'll take hours to see msg
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Jay@chordlec·
Today made it 1 week that @aedcelectricity brought light in Aso B behind primary school Mararaba, Nasarawa State. They said reason was because we did not buy transformer. If I may ask, is it our duty the - 'customers' to buy transformer?
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Jay@chordlec·
@OlehSamue @Iyoaiye_ This is the only reasonable comment here. If a woman make money is only has, but if is the husband is ours. Women don't need a man when they have money but, men need women when they have money.
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USO@OlehSamue·
Everything she onws belongs to her husband pls, unless there was no proper marriage here. Even with her plans, what she would has done is to ask her husband the way forward first, with that he might as ask her to go on with her plans. The woman did not honour her husband There no relationship in that marriage, period.
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Àlúbàríkà 🇳🇬
I received an inheritance of almost ₦35 million in cash from my late father. My husband knew about the entire process, so when the money came, he sat me down and asked what I planned to do with it. I told him I wanted to buy land, buy a car, register for my master's degree, and invest the rest in my business. He became offended and asked, "So where do I come in as your husband? What do I get?" I was genuinely confused, so I told him I didn't understand. He said I should forget about it. I continued making plans for the land and the car. He stayed quiet and simply watched me. Then one day, he woke me up and said he didn't know I was this stupid. He said I had a husband and such a huge amount of money, yet I couldn't entrust it to him. He asked what impression I was trying to give people. I was shocked. I asked him a simple question: "You expect me to hand over the money my father worked so hard for and left for me just because you are my husband?" He flared up. The àŕgum£nt became so h£àted that he almost b£àt me. He told me to prepare myself for whatever happened next because he couldn't stay married to a woman who was not submissive. He said he would bring another woman into the house—one who would listen to him and respect him. A few days later, his parents showed up at our home without informing me. In fact, I had just returned from work when I saw them waiting. They spent hours preaching to me, insisting that I should transfer the entire inheritance to my husband. They said their family would never forgive me for such disobedience. My mother-in-law added that she had been b£gg!ng her son not to marry another woman because she believed I would eventually listen to her. I felt extremely ùncomfortàble because it felt like an àmbùsh. I agreed with them and promised that I would transfer the money the following morning. That evening, I carried my baby downstairs, pŕ£tend!ng I wanted to buy something. Instead, I left for a friend's house and switched off my phone. Two days later, my mother came to my friend's house and stayed to help care for my son while I returned to work. About a month later, I found a suitable apartment and paid for it. I went back to my husband's house while he was at work and packed my belongings and my son's belongings. I also took every single item I had bought with my own money. That was when I realized I had purchased almost everything in the house, including our bed, kitchen appliances, television, and many other household items. Ironically, my husband earned far more than I did, yet I was the one who spent the most. Looking back, I realized he had been freeloading off me. I settled into my new home over the weekend. On Tuesday, while I was at work, the police came to arŕ£st me. My boss accompanied me to the police station. My husband claimed that everything I had taken belonged to him and demanded that I prove ownership. However, he couldn't provide any evidence that the items were his. One of my colleagues went to my office and brought my cooperative savings scheme records. Every item I bought had been purchased through my office cooperative, with every single payment deducted directly from my salary. The following week, I served him with divorce papers. That was when he started sending me endless messages, saying he couldn't live without me and that he had only thŕ£atened me because he wanted me to become more submissive. We're now in court. I'm done.
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Jay
Jay@chordlec·
@GbengaWemimo How will that young man be free from her shackles? I want to know to learn from it
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Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo
Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo@GbengaWemimo·
Three years ago, a young man called Z was invited by the pastor of a church in Abuja to come and talk to his church members about investment opportunities and how to make money through real estate and capital market. The young man was married, comfortable and successful. He was married with two children. After the service, he was in pastor’s office with the pastor when a sister walked in. She did so deliberately The pastor introduced her to this young man She was a worker and she has positioned herself in the church as a member of the protocol team so that she can meet quality people as she builds her network of influence. The pastor did not know she had this agenda but she has had it for a while and had deliberately followed up previous special quests invited to the church and slept with some who were easy catches. She spoke with the young man for a few minutes, helped him with his refreshments and then left. When she got home she searched for this young man on instagram and downloaded all the information he could on him. Then she sent him a DM message asking if she could meet with him the following week when she visits Lagos. He replied three days later:He told her he would be in Dubai for a few days but would be happy to see her after he returns She continued to follow him up on social media dedicatedly until he returned to Nigeria As soon as he returned, she reached out to him again. This time he told her to see him the following Tuesday Now this lady is very smart, she has done this several times and she understood the male psychology very well When she got to the airport in Lagos, she called him and said she lost her wallet on the plane and is now stranded at the airport He sends his driver to pick her up. She told him she wouldn’t be able to book a hotel room because her wallet was lost and so was her second phone where all her bank apps were. He had to pay for a hotel accommodation for her. When she got in, she cried a bit as she thanked him and said she was experiencing some psychological stress based on the loss of her wallet and second phone When he closed from his office that evening, he went to see her. Gave her some money and encouraged her He also told her that his driver would be available the next day to take her round Lagos to conduct her business (She claimed she didn’t know Lagos very well and is not used to taking Uber) He went home The next day his driver took her around until it was time for him to leave his office She followed the driver to his office to pick him up from work The man had to tell the driver to take them first to her hotel so that she can drop off When they got there, she told him she needed to discuss what she came to see him in Lagos for and would like to have a minute of his time He followed her to the hotel reception to have a chat She said she would prefer to have her Esther moment and invited him to have dinner with her the following night He smiled and said Okay. The next day she stayed in the hotel all day preparing for the dinner He went to the office and then went home to change before driving himself to her hotel for the dinner date They had dinner. He then asked her what she wanted. She was straight to the point “I want to sleep with you”. She said it in a way only a woman who knows the power of her beauty could and he fell for it. He followed her to her room They had sex till 11pm Then he went home He avoided her like a plague after the sex She knew he was a believer and guilt would almost kill him His reputation in their church also and relationship with her pastor She got him right where she wanted him Now she started calling him and playing the “You slept with me card”, the “You used me card”, “The you took advantage of my moment of weakness”, “The you got what you wanted and now you are ghosting me” She called him and left him several messages He had to call her and apologize He said it was work She said she was lonely and felt abandoned He went to see her again That night he told her he was married and he loved his wife and that he hated himself for what he had done He wept bitterly. She started crying too She was not going to let him escape by playing the guilt card He asked her what he could do to make things right She said she would like to be his mistress He said he does not want a mistress She said he should give her the mistress treatment Allowance, funding her account, buying her gifts etc They agreed that he would be crediting her account with one million Naira every month This was the status quo until the case came to my attention Guess who brought the story to my attention? The lady herself... She wanted me to pray for her concerning her marital destiny We got talking, and she mentioned all the men in her life and how she got all of them as her financial sources, but she was not in a relationship with any of the men in a manner that could lead to marriage. I told her what she was doing was evil She told me I had no right to judge her.
Percy@percyishim

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Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo
Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo@GbengaWemimo·
He: She jokingly told me one day as we lay naked in bed after making love for some time, that she did not think I was the last person she would be with in terms of a relationship. It was at that vulnerable moment when most ladies would lay their head on their man's chest and feel his heartbeat That moment when the man was too exhausted to jump out of bed and too excited by the sex to just sleep off I wanted to capture how the moment was and how it felt like she plunged deep into my soul with a dagger. I love this woman with all my heart. I pursued her with everything I had and met all her requirements before she agreed to get married to me. She demanded that I get a job and the salary must be at least half a million Naira She demanded that I own a car She demanded that I move away from Ikorodu to Anthony Village because they had Band A electricity in a particular estate She demanded that I keep two million naira in an emergency account for her in case anything happens to me She was a catch in terms of her looks, and she knows it So she placed a very high premium on being with a rich man who could take care of her I was not rich, we are age mates and it felt like I was punching far above my weight with her She met rich men, but most of the single ones who were willing to marry her lived abroad. They wanted to get married to her, but a long-distance relationship was not her thing. No wise man would marry her and leave her alone in another country anyway; she was a horse begging to be ridden... I had wanted to ride this horse since I was twenty-five. I saw her at the law department's annual dinner and awards while we were in school. I was a law student, and she was invited to the dinner by a friend. She was the kind of girl that you see, and another part of your body begins to nod intermittently like the red-headed agama lizard She was way beyond my league. The other rich men she met were married. She was also twenty-five at the time, but she was determined to wait for Prince Charming to arrive and whisk her off into the wealth that her beauty demanded. It didn't happen for five years. She prayed and fasted. Met some and others, but nothing that endured. I was the constant. I sent gifts, visited her even when she was observing her NYSC all the way in Kano I climbed up the ladder, from a No No, to a No, to an acquaintance, to a friend, to a bestie and then to a Maybe before she told me on her thirtieth birthday that if I was serious about marrying her, she had a list of conditions. It took me two years to meet everything she had carefully and thoughtfully written as a must-do for me. I eventually got a yea from her the day I drove down to her house with my SUV. She asked me to come inside, and she introduced me to her parents. Wedding preparations began after this, and we were married six months later. I had forsaken all else since the moment I first saw her at that dinner. The lady I took to the dinner realised I was distracted at that dinner event and left without saying goodbye. I was in love. Barely three months into the marriage, my wife says, "I don't think this is forever." I knew the marriage was dead, and she was just subtly telling me it was over. I could also tell that she had met someone else, that her dream man that she was waiting for all her life had finally shown up, and I, as the placeholder, had to go. So I asked her the first thing that came to my head. "Who is he?" She was silent for a long time, and then she said, "You don't know him". She got up from bed, showered, dressed up and left. I was on the bed, crying softly and calculating what to say to make her stay She left quietly, like a burglar or maybe like a cat. She made no noise whatsoever. I expected her to say "Goodbye" or "What do you want to do?" She left without saying a word. Her last word to me was "You don't know him". I got out of bed and walked over to the wardrobe. She had packed a few things, her most expensive things and left the rest there. She also left a note on the dining table. It reads: "Hey, I tried, but you and I know I was never yours to keep. Have a good life" She was right. I had chased the wind, and I was only able to keep it for three months. She was gone. I cyberstalked her, trying to find the guy and see a glimpse of the life she had always wanted, which she knew I could never give her. I eventually saw it. She was on a yacht, and everything screamed luxury. Her family sent back the bride price, and she never contacted me again. That is, until last week. Three years after she left. She reached out to me and asked if I would like to have dinner with her when she got back to Nigeria. It was weird. I called her cousin, a guy who kept in touch with me after she left and really encouraged me in Christ. The cousin said her husband was swindled of a huge amount of money, in one of his investments in the USA and had been thrown in jail for fraud. She got divorced from him before the SEC commenced criminal investigations against him and was able to make it out with her own nest egg (gifts and funds that were given to her by her husband as a gift, jewellery, and so on) She is rich now, my cousin said, and recently divorced. I am thirty-six years old and in a serious relationship. Plans are underway for an October wedding. I don't know if to see her or not. This is my dilemma at the moment. I cannot pretend that I don't love her anymore, but i have suffered through the heartbreak, and I have healed. Seeing her might be opening old wounds; not seeing her may be opening the door to regrets in a way. What do I do?
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Jay@chordlec·
@kenkenlewu You see why most men won't even stay in house built by their wives.
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Ebun@kenkenlewu·
My colleague's wife is fond of telling her husband to leave the house during an argument. The house they live in belongs to her father. Last month, they had an argument as usual. She got angry, opened the door, and asked him to leave that night. He packed a small bag and left without saying a word. Three weeks later, he still hadn't returned home. Yesterday she messaged him: "When are you coming back home?" He replied: "When I have my own house."😔
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Jay@chordlec·
@jon_d_doe If you don't want to go bald get vitamin D3 and K2 combined and take the supplement for 3 months your hair will be back
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Àgbà John Doe
Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
I just took a picture of my head from the top. Omo, I am going bald. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 End.
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Sir Nelson
Sir Nelson@Crypto_Diet·
Na so ₦5m go enter your account before your next Birthday and you wan use am do big boy for tiktok. Just know say your wicked Uncle don put your name for calabash. 1. Invest ₦1m into Business wey you sabi do, nor do guess work. 2. Lock ₦1.5m in MMMF at 15% (₦18,750 monthly). 3. Use ₦500k run some mad online contents for Youtube, Facebook, X and Linkedin for your business. 4. Buy Bicycle ₦300k to de run around. 5. Use ₦400k take buy Foodstuffs plenty for house, at least one bag of rice go last you 1 Year. 6. Pay two years House Rent ,₦700k (₦350k per year) self con if you be Bachelor. 7. Send ₦300k to your parents make them pray for you ... God de answer their prayers well well so your money nor go finish. 8. Save the remaining ₦300k for Piggyvest. You nor see say SAPA nor go near you again. Oya touch notification Bell and follow for better updates because everybody wey see this post go touch ₦10M before December.
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Sir Nelson@Crypto_Diet·
Would you use the 5m to buy Tokunbo car?
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Jay@chordlec·
@Crypto_Diet I have questions on number 2,what are the examples of MMMF to use?
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Jay@chordlec·
eat what I had prepared. My Question Tell me—what did I do wrong in all of this?
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Jay@chordlec·
start until around 2:30 p.m. Yesterday was a holiday, so her day began around 10:00 a.m. I had gone for a vigil Thursday night, came back to sleep, and didn't even notice when she left. Since I was home, I cooked and swept the floor. She returned after 7:00 p.m. and refused to
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