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Let's go I'm bored. Confess, rant. Idk. Anything ngl.link/dddenki_

So you’re basically admitting that men’s greatest fear is being treated the way they’ve treated women for centuries? Interesting. I thought being a stay-at-home mom was “easy,” “not real work,” and something “anyone can do.” But suddenly when it’s a man cooking and raising kids, it’s dystopia? Oh. Lord. 😂

I am tired and I think everyone should read this and knows how messed up my relationship w my ex. I made this doc specifically bcs i want my money back urgently since dah lama sangat tunggu. He never wanted me to expose his ass but i had to. idc docs.google.com/document/d/1GB…

"not all men!" but all women are bad drivers and all women are moody and all women are emotional and all women get to be painted with the same brush but don't you dare generalise men that's unfair!!!!!!!!

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Having a baby physically shrinks part of a woman's brain. Having a second baby shrinks a totally different part. Scientists in Amsterdam just figured out why, and the explanation involves the same process that happens in teenage brains. This is from a research group in Amsterdam called the Pregnancy Brain Lab. They published their findings in Nature Communications on February 19, 2026. The team scanned the brains of 110 women. 40 were about to have their first baby, 30 were about to have their second, and 40 had never been pregnant. They scanned everyone before pregnancy and again after birth. The results were so consistent that a computer program could look at any of those brain scans and correctly tell whether the woman had been pregnant. Every single time. When a woman has her first baby, the biggest changes happen in the part of the brain that handles thinking about yourself and other people. The same region that runs daydreaming and inner monologue. That whole area visibly shrinks. And it stays shrunk for at least six years after birth, according to a 2021 follow-up study by the same team. When she has a second baby, that same area shifts a little more, but the biggest changes happen somewhere else. They happen in the part of the brain that controls what you focus on, and the part that controls how your body moves. Even the wiring between the brain and the muscles becomes more efficient. Lead researcher Milou Straathof said it looks like the brain rewiring itself for taking care of more than one kid at a time. The shrinking sounds bad. The lab compares it to what happens in teenage brains during puberty. Hormones flood the brain and trigger a kind of cleanup. Weak connections between brain cells get cleared away. The strong ones stay and get stronger. The brain ends up smaller, but the connections that remain work faster. The hormonal flood of pregnancy seems to do the same thing. Elseline Hoekzema, who runs the Pregnancy Brain Lab and has been studying this since 2017, told CNN: sometimes less is more. The pattern is layered. The first pregnancy does the deep work on identity and how a mom thinks about her baby. The second pregnancy adds a new layer focused on attention and movement. About one in five new mothers globally develops postpartum depression. The same brain circuits being remodeled here are the ones tied to mood and bonding with the baby. Mapping what a healthy maternal brain looks like is the first step toward catching when something goes wrong.

Teruk nau jem perlis ni. Dari kangar nak pergi ktm arau keluar sejam awal pun belum sampai

Gais, M is a plus size now 😀 this coming from a local brand?? Fcking out of touch

FUCKING LEGEND OF A RESPONSE.

“Men get raped too, you dumb bitch.” Yes. Yes they do. Men get raped too, and their pain is real. Their trauma matters. Their voices deserve to be heard, believed, and protected. They deserve support without shame, without mockery, and without being told to “man up” or stay silent. Survivors are survivors, regardless of gender. So if you care so much, are you actually standing up for them? Are you holding their rapists accountable? Are you reminding men that what they wore, what they drank, how old they were, or whether they froze in fear was never the cause of their assault? Are you telling them that rape happens for one reason only: because a rapist chose to rape? Or do men’s experiences only matter to you when you can weaponize them against women? Because real advocacy doesn’t show up only when women are speaking about violence. Real advocacy means fighting for all survivors, even when it doesn’t serve your argument. It means creating space for male survivors to speak without turning their trauma into a debate tactic. It means caring about justice more than scoring points. If the only time you mention male victims is to silence women, then you are not defending men. You are exploiting their trauma to dismiss someone else’s pain. Male survivors deserve better than that. And women do too.

Go girl! As a Vietnamese woman, some of our men still treat us so poorly no matter how hard we work. After she hit him, she called for her husband to come out and then told that guy off by saying, “I’m just trying to pass by and wanted you to move your arm. Why wouldn’t you move your arm? You just wanted to hurt me.” She’s the owner of this place tooooooo

Memory loss from deep depression and trauma doesn’t get talked about enough. People think it’s just sadness or being stuck in your head, but it goes way deeper than that. You forget conversations, names, whole chunks of your life—not because you didn’t care, but because you were in survival mode. When you’re overwhelmed and just trying to get through each day, your brain isn’t focused on making memories, it’s focused on keeping you going. And nobody really acknowledges that part. Healing isn’t just about emotions—it’s about piecing yourself back together, including parts of you that you don’t even remember losing.

No one actually likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.

The most dangerous type of depression is the high-functioning kind, because absolutely nobody will save you if you still look good and show up to work. ​Society only recognizes mental health struggles if your life is visibly falling apart. If you still dress well, pay your bills, and manage to smile when spoken to, people assume you are perfectly fine. ​Meanwhile, you are completely empty inside. But because your suffering isn't inconveniencing anyone else's schedule, they don't care. They praise your "hustle" and "strength" while you are literally just surviving on pure autopilot. ​The moment you finally crack, miss a deadline, or drop the ball, they don't offer grace or help. They just get angry that the reliable person they constantly use is suddenly "acting out of character." ​You aren't a person to them; you are a utility. As long as you are producing results, they do not care if you are breaking down in private.

Hari raya buat cowok: duduk di meja besar, makan, ngobrol, ketawa-ketawa Hari raya buat cewek: masak dari pagi, siapin semuanya, makan belakangan di meja kecil, habis itu lanjut cuci piring dan beres-beres Makanya di Korea ada istilah 명절 증후군 atau holiday syndrome, bukan karena cewek lemah tapi karena tiap hari raya mereka berasa jadi babu gratis di rumah. Capek fisik, capek mental, kurang tidur, sakit punggung, tapi tetap harus senyum. Ternyata masalah global ya. Kalo di kita pas lebaran Idul Fitri sih kerasa banget, apalagi mohon maaf yang keadaan ekonomi kurang mampu, pasti bagian masak, beres beres. Sedih banget 😭🙏🏻