Deja
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When i shut down, i really shut down.
I go quiet, stop replying to messages, and disappear into my own world without any explanation.
It’s not personal. I might still be active online, but I’m overwhelmed ,just trying to regroup so i don’t lose myself while holding everything together.
It’s how i protect my peace when life gets too loud. No ghosting intended… just self preservation.
If you’ve ever felt this way too, you’re not alone. 🥹
And if i go silent on you… this is why.
Be kind to the quiet ones. 💙
What helps you when you need to shut down?
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@dejapraise Haha, true talk 😂
Some Nigerians are just sick in the head, no cap. They'll deliberately collect loans with the full intention of not paying back, chop the money clean, then turn around and defend it like it's their birthright.
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@instablog9ja So where she dey collect piping from, cause she no fit tell me say konji no dey hol am.
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@that_girldivy No mind them jare. Increase the volume of the sexual content let's have some fun
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Was at my sister’s wedding yesterday, my uncles started telling me to settle down and start a family. I was like I’m still looking for money, one said you have money, who told you that chief? One of them said after he married, things got better for him. Told him, if he didn’t get married, things would still have gotten better, we laughed over it.
Then the one that kinda left a message in my heart was when I told one of my uncles I heard he married at age 39, he said he rejects it for me. That he will be 60 this year and his first child is still in school, he said if he was a government worker, he’d be retiring this year, where will he get money to take care of the kids school fees? That this age should be his resting phase, I get that part, and it hit deeply.
After hearing all of this and thinking deeply, knowing fully well that at the end, we all will have to settle down, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ll not be marrying anytime soon because I need to make more money, thank you.🙂↔️
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@john322226 Get the full story first Lobi. No dey jump into conclusions.
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