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Art. Gaming. Football. Music. Manchester United❤️

Lagos, Nigeria Katılım Kasım 2018
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THE ACT OF APOLOGY The Art (and Act) of Apology: More Than “I’m Sorry” Some people say “sorry” like it’s a password. Quick, automatic, and meant to unlock peace just like that, just as fast as unlocked disappointment and anger But a real apology isn’t a password. It’s a bridge. And if you build it properly, it doesn’t just end fights — it restores trust, repairs dignity, and sometimes even upgrades the relationship. Because here’s the truth: apologies are not only about regret. They are about responsibility. 1) Why “I’m Sorry” Often Doesn’t Work “I’m sorry” is not useless — it’s just incomplete(sometimes hella useless) If you’ve ever been hurt by someone and they said “sorry” but you still felt angry, it’s because your heart was asking questions the apology didn’t answer: •Do you understand what you did? •Do you see the pain it caused? •Do you respect me enough to own it? •Will it happen again? When those questions aren’t answered, “I’m sorry” can even feel insulting — like the person wants forgiveness without the work. So yes, apology begins with words, but it cannot end there. 2) What an Apology Is Actually Doing A good apology is doing 4 things at once: 1.It admits truth — no hiding, no minimizing. 2.It validates pain — “what I did mattered.” 3.It takes responsibility — no excuses, no dodging. 4.It shows change — not promises only, but proof. Think of apology as repairing a cracked screen: Saying sorry is like acknowledging seen crack. But apology is fixing it so the phone works again. 3) The Difference Between Apology and Explanation This part is important. Some people apologize like this: “I’m sorry, but you know I was stressed.” That’s not apology. That’s defense wearing apology clothes. When you add “but”, you’re basically saying: “I’m sorry… but also, I’m not really wrong.” There’s a time to explain — but explanation must come after ownership, not instead of it. A clean apology doesn’t try to escape blame. It holds it. 4) The 6 Parts of a Real Apology (The Blueprint) If you want to master apology, memorize this structure: 1. Name the wrong clearly Not vague, not soft. ✅ “I disrespected you when I raised my voice and cut you off.” ❌ “I’m sorry for whatever happened.” When you’re vague, you’re forcing the hurt person to do extra emotional work. 2. Acknowledge the impact This is where many people fail. ✅ “I made you feel unheard and small.” ✅ “That must have hurt.” ❌ “You took it too seriously.” Impact matters more than intention. 3. Take full responsibility No shifting blame, no “you made me.” ✅ “I was wrong.” ✅ “I shouldn’t have done that.” ❌ “If you didn’t do X, I wouldn’t have reacted.” 4. Show genuine remorse Not acting. Not “sorry you feel that way.” Real remorse is humble. ✅ “I regret it deeply.” ✅ “It was unfair to you.” 5. Offer repair Apology is not just emotion. It’s action. ✅ “How can I make this right?” ✅ “I’ll replace it.” ✅ “I’ll fix what I damaged.” Repair is proof that your regret is real. 6. Commit to change Not big sweet promises — specific change. ✅ “From now on, when I’m angry I’ll step back and speak calmly.” ❌ “It won’t happen again, I swear.” Trust isn’t rebuilt by vows. It’s rebuilt by patterns. 5) The Most Powerful Sentence in Apology This one line can calm a person instantly: “You didn’t deserve that.” Because when people are hurt, they’re not only in pain — they’re also wondering: “Do I matter?” That sentence answers it. 6) Why People Struggle to Apologize Most people don’t avoid apology because they’re evil. They avoid apology because it makes them feel: •weak •exposed •guilty •“less than” Especially for men, apology can feel like surrender. But mature people understand something childish people don’t: Apology is not losing. Apology is leadership. It takes strength to be accountable.
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@UMykeal dey play. true happiness is Arsenal bottling the league
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@UMykeal or we wait till season ends
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Tobechi Ogazi, Esq.@TobechiOgazi·
People glamorize cutting people off like it is strength. Then they stay silent about the loneliness that follows. Sometimes you did not choose peace, you just avoided hard conversations. Growth is not always walking away. Sometimes it is staying and fixing what is broken. But that part is harder, so people skip it.
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The boys had the right mentality today especially in that first half.. they moved the ball quickly and pinned United that half.. we were obviously ontop.. cruising The Zubi error just destabilized all the hard work.. momentum shifted after that Apart from that, all United’s best moments came from freakishly brilliant situations and very avoidable errors made by our players 3 shots on target 3 goals It was just a perfect game for united.. a type of game that happens once in 5 years. Everything worked out. Anyways Onto the next game🙏🏽 Another final.
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@UMykeal tell him the truth, he is crazy to say that
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🚨🎙️ | Bruno Fernandes: “I really ENJOYED playing for Ruben [Amorim], because I was touching the ball a lot. “I could be more involved in the game. I could break more lines, launch the attacking players, and make switches of play to the players on the side. “I really liked it, because I think I was more COMPLETE as a player."
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in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created.
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Day 4 @MTNNG @MTN180 please refund me my money or days missed and fixy internet
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After Spending weeks Tagging @MTNNG @MTN180 they fixed it and they did not refund my 22days missed out on their plan. such greed but that’s not the worst part. The worst part is that it’s no longer working. and this is Day 2. I guess i’m about to miss out on another 21days from the new plan i subscribed to

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@tobyasky what kind of freekick is this
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Day 3 please @MTNNG refund my my previous 22 days and fix your network
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After Spending weeks Tagging @MTNNG @MTN180 they fixed it and they did not refund my 22days missed out on their plan. such greed but that’s not the worst part. The worst part is that it’s no longer working. and this is Day 2. I guess i’m about to miss out on another 21days from the new plan i subscribed to

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Kobi@UtdKobi·
Casemiro has scored more Premier League goals for United this season than Doku and Savinho have in their entire Man City careers
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GIVE ME ONE CRAZY STAT!

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After Spending weeks Tagging @MTNNG @MTN180 they fixed it and they did not refund my 22days missed out on their plan. such greed but that’s not the worst part. The worst part is that it’s no longer working. and this is Day 2. I guess i’m about to miss out on another 21days from the new plan i subscribed to
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Dear @MTN180 @MTNNG please you guys should not venture into something you aren’t really sure about yet I have been using your FibreX network for one week and for like 3 days now it has not been connecting to the internet, LOS red light. i have reached out to everyone I can and there is no solution. I cant spend more days like this because you wouldn’t refund the days lost due to connectivity so it’s either i get a refund or you fix this and give me the days lost @MTN180 @MTNNG

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He came,he saw ,he ghosted £50million down the drain but he doesn’t play for Manchester United so the media is silent 💀
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𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘
yes, i do and it’s actually more important than most people think the blue flame is what u want, what everyone wants. it means the gas is getting enough oxygen so it burns clean and efficiently. it comes from complete combustion which produces heat, carbon dioxide and water vapor... hotter, safer and better for cooking. the yellow/orange flame is a warning sign. it means incomplete combustion maybe cos the burner is dirty or airflow is blocked. that color can produce carbonmonoxide which is very dangerous for your health. it also wastes energy and gives you bad heat. learn something 👍
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Does anyone know the actual difference between these two flames?

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