misselizabethrose

No, you should not actually have to personally experience something before you can show compassion to another human being who is currently experiencing it. You shouldn’t even have to know someone personally who’s experienced it. That’s what makes it compassion.

@Crimthefairy Truly sad, our past actions don't go away. But it's not easy for someone to grow and change from their past actions. It takes strength and humility. Not many people do so. It's admirable for a person to become better than who they were before and that's what truly matters.

it really feels like noone is allowed to learn from there mistakes and change as a person online it feels like any mistake they make online means they can never become a better person and they should be publicly ridiculed or shunned forever with no chance of improvement

Btw, if you don't like someone, then why do you post and engage about them all the time in your space? You doing that is just starting shit. If you don't like someone, the best thing to do is to...idk, maybe avoid them? Why keep bothering people you don't like?

this color palette is so pretty

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one mistake and suddenly people act like you should stay defined by that version of yourself forever. accountability matters, yes, but some of you confuse accountability with wanting someone permanently condemned even after they've learned, reflected, and changed. 🥲

Sorry but if I do something wrong I'm off the face of this planet instantly

Being able to see, walk, and hear.

@Hatsune_Natalya What truly matters is being better than who you were in the past. Not everyone does change and develop self awareness and humility.

I think I've made a lot of mistakes in my life to have ended up here.

@eb63ness I don't know you, but you can't control how other people perceive you. Our past actions don't go away and have consequences. Some are more inexcusable. However what truly matters is that you changed. It takes strength and not many people do so.

After a while I finally realised why so much stuff happened with all the blocking, private comments and qrt and I know who owns the accs but I won’t say who I just wanna say why are you all bringing back stuff from January to try and make more people feel disgusted around me?

@ZeraLynx @aliceyeen I don't know you, but you should be glad about becoming a better person. Not many people come to that realization and it takes strength and humility! Sadly our past wrongs have consequences and won't be erased. What truly matters is taking accountability and becoming better! 🌸

@aliceyeen you redeem yourself by being a better person today than you were back then. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has the right to be forgiven for making them if they try hard to learn from them

how do i redeem myself of my wrong doings while under the influence of mental illness 3 years ago? or are all of you addicted to holding grudges like it's meth?

Is it okay to start over at 30??

Might be a hot take but i dont think who u were at rock bottom or in an emberassing viral moment years ago should define entirely who a person is and that a lot of people are in-fact capable of growth and change and we should encourage people to be the best version of themselves.

@CommieDG Girl, don't I know it. I've done things I wasn't proud of and hurt people. By all means someone should be held accountable for their actions and feel free to not support them. What truly matters is that they sincerely apologized and changed. It takes strength and not easy!

@kucingskibidi However, what helps me is developing self awareness and thinking before I react. We can't erase our actions and sadly have to live with the consequences, however we can be better than who we used to be before. Not everyone changes and it's not easy. Be proud of who you are now!

for now, i just want to learn how to hold myself a little tighter. because after everything, i’m still here. and that is enough. ❤︎

lately i’ve come to realize that life doesn’t always go the way i hope it will. sometimes bad things just show up out of nowhere, leaving behind disappointment, exhaustion, and wounds that are honestly hard to explain to anyone else.

@kucingskibidi I don't know you, but I'm proud of you! I've also done wrong things and hurt people (friends, family, strangers alike). I struggle with anger problems. There are times the bad things I did are who I am. They defined me.

So hard to choose, but peony!

Also found this dress at an antique store and she needs a little repair work but I’m obsessed