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Behavioral scientists found that people who survived difficult childhoods don’t just bounce back , they develop a permanent hypervigilance that makes them extraordinarily capable in crisis and unable to relax even when everything is finally okay

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@coochiecrying really can be blamed on BPD alone? i have another friend that isnt like that but trying to learn and understand this FP concept is making me think that they just got super overly attached and then lashed out when I did things that indirectly went against what they believed. 7/7

@coochiecrying and they are trying to say they aren’t controlling me then say everything i have done is scummy and that i gotta be a better person when sincerely nothing i do is to intentionally hurt them. they know and have said borderlines are hard to deal with, but is that something that 6/

what is a fp? an fp, or a favorite person in bpd isn't just someone you like a lot. it's not just "obsession". it's when your brain ties your emotional stability to one person and the way they treat you starts affecting your mood, how you see yourself, and especially your worth. their distance can feel unbearable. we're extremely sensitive to their behavior. they're who we constantly think about. our fear of losing them is so intense because our brain starts associating them with safety, validation, and reassurance, even just the thought of losing them can feel crippling. we experience idealization, which is when your brain puts your fp on a pedestal and their approval starts to matter more than it realistically should. we can also experience devaluation, where the same person we once idealized can suddenly feel like the source of our deepest pain after they seem distant or a change in behavior triggers our fear of abandonment. and unfortunately our perception can fluctuate between the two. none of this is fair to us or them. we didn't choose to feel things this intensely and they didn't ask to carry the kind of emotional weight our brain puts on them. and like always, i am absolutely NOT speaking for everyone with bpd.

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@pinkbvtt YIPEE

@elekisms absolutely,, 👀💞

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oh! i experienced this two days ago !! i was crying for an hour over a mistake that wasn’t even on me, and apparently i made it months ago !! said i was a bad person and kept going on and on…

@pinkbvtt wanna do our own version but with the collars on and you tug mine?~ i mean— who said that?

@evariin this is almost like a,, couple goals caption type image

@PokeMarr my dead name has a word that is often censored in most games so i can understand where you’re coming from lol

I do not understand why no pokemon game will allow me to use my legal birth name LMFAOOO my grandma did make my name by combining her parents names together but like IN WHAT LANGUAGE IS MY NAME A CURSE WORD

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