@buggiberry @Ndorenyinakpann @Omodolapomayo Then don't marry, like she said. Are you slow or you're auditioning for a role to play stupid?
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@Ndorenyinakpann @fogozard @Omodolapomayo no marriage no divorce you see work smarter instead of harder
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No single benefit for men in marriage to be honest. Imagine providing , protecting, mowing the lawn, lifting the heavy items, repairing the generator, fixing the cars, working at the shore, planning dates, buying dress, paying for uber, spending all your earnings on a woman who just do nothing in return.
This is why I advise every man to marry their fellow man so that efforts can match and the other person will understand your sacrifice well because they are in that position too.
Somtochukwu Evans 🇳🇬@_Somtochi
Not to be insensitive though, like seriously, what do men even get? I mean in marriages? What exactly do we get??
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@MrFidel0 @khykheloormuur @daniel__freddy And what is one reason men can have problems impregnating a woman? Talking as though men cant be infertile
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@fogozard @khykheloormuur @daniel__freddy What is one reason women can have problems giving birth ?
Is abortion not one of em?
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I still don't understand why people automatically assume it's the woman's fault whenever a couple is unable to have a child. Why is the blame so often placed on her alone?
2 active participants, but one gets the blame.
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@Joshmustbeheard @Afamjb @kenny_xo144 @DavidoPolice And if he asks him to send it that same minute, what would he do since he doesn't have it handy? You're just dumb and loud!
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@dee_deevyne Guess the gender that has "Adam's apple" stuck in their throat👀
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I don’t trust men.
So Adam was conveniently away for how long ?
Do you know how long it takes to convince a woman to do anything?
And they want us to believe he was away while she was talking to the snake?? And she still comes back and feeds him??
Nahh someone needs to talk!
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@feyiszn Probably you met them at a dark time in their life. It's not necessarily a reflection of you. It's a them issue
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I really dislike the concept of “we experience people differently” because what have I done for you to be horrible to me but kind to the next person?? 😭
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@honiseymoh @khykheloormuur Funny thing is, sometimes even the men in the marriage blame their wives if they're trying to conceive and haven't. They'll refuse to get checked
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@khykheloormuur Ignorance. They don't even know if the couples have agreed to wait for some years before childbearing. They just assume
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@khykheloormuur @daniel__freddy One can abort and have complications that’s mostly why
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@IbnMalikah "Your man is designed to be cold by thousands of years of adaptation to kill off any thing that poses a threat to you" meanwhile the whole time he's the actual threat to her. Lmao
Women are killed more by intimate partners than strangers. Pls find some other excuse, this is stale
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Women should understand that men aren't built to express empathy..
" He's emotionally unavailable."
" Why doesn't he open up? "
Your man is designed to be cold by thousands of years of adaptation to kill off any thing that poses a threat to you. You can't just switch that off
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@buggiberry @Omodolapomayo If there were no benefit why do men even marry not 1 but multiple wives?
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@Omodolapomayo see as you just explain woman benefit smoothly...now answer he question no the beat around the bush
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@Super_Saiko77 Because they're are the basic things every one, irrespective of gender should be able to do?
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Why do women argue with cooking and cleaning in these things does that not reinforce the oh so oppressive stereotype of women being house slaves
Dearest 🪷✨@hobakkm
"men would die for their mothers" you can't even cook
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@Super_Saiko77 "Petty reasons" and it be things that gave the person trauma they're still trying to heal from even in their adulthood. Be fr
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No shade towards women but why is it so much easier for women to disregard their fathers over such petty reasons while men would die for their mothers
R@LIVEL0VELESBIAN
My dad talking shit abt women who take off their hijabs… The enemy is in the same car as you
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@Super_Saiko77 Men don't love their mothers like they claim to. They appreciate the sufferings of their mothers and this is mistaken for love. If a man loves his mother, that means he wouldn't do a lot of the terrible things they do to women because he'd have inherent respect for women
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@Ashuragamez @festus90940 Yea well, I'm not your dumb ass gender so...
Pig
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Child care?
Are you the only one buying diapers?
House cleaning?
Are you the only one paying the rent?
Sex?
Are you the only one enjoying it?
Relationships are not a competition. Both people contribute in different ways. Stop acting like one person is carrying the entire relationship while the other does nothing.
These ones would end up as single mothers..
TENIOLA@Teeniiola
Their lecturer tr!ggered the debating spirit in them during class and they had to continue the conversation outside after class, giving clear points on how women carry more responsibilities in the family than men. Omo, this generation no wan hear anything o👀🚶♀️
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@festus90940 Just stick to designing, that's if you're even competent in that one. You seem like an incompetent fellow
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@festus90940 Not true but nice try
The face that there are many single mothers actually speak to the uselessness of men but you're not intellectually sound to grasp the message.
A man would abandon his family but a woman who stays to take care of the children gets insulted.
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@D6ca4314 @Luv_Xcuses "A woman rejecting a man"
Did she say the woman is her? Couldn't she be talking about women generally and not her specifically? Get it?
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@fogozard @Luv_Xcuses She's allergic to men! So, I was asking why is she even in their proximity to accept, reject or have anything to with men. Get it?
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@Babynma23 Not true. Men will always find ways to shame women for no just cause. Even if a woman sleeps with a man not in exchange for money, she's still seen as a slut who has lost while the man is seen as a king who has added another body to his count
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my only problem with this take is only in cases where some women use sex as an exchange for something they need. So basically is you trading your body? meanwhile it should be something both parties enjoy the pleasure. that’s why these men keep thinking that way.
mariam🌚@anickytwtss
the idea that sex is a woman’s loss and a man’s gain is nonsensical.
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