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At all, Cost always avoid people with a victim mentality

Remove that soft spot you have for people, because they don't have one for you.

People who FAILED at trying to destroy you, will NEVER stop watching you.

Everyday people remind me that they are a result of poor parenting.

Attractive men are less likely to cheat. They are immune to attention in the same way women are, it's the ugly ones you gotta worry about.

If you recognize what the narcissist is doing and attempt to mitigate the situation with compassion and understanding, possibly by attempting to befriend the narcissist, you will find that is not what the narcissist is interested in. The narcissist’s response to compassion or empathy can be perplexing because it conflicts with their core motivations and worldview. When a narcissist feels envy, it activates their deep-seated insecurity. The person who embodies qualities they lack represents a threat to their sense of superiority and control. Even when the target tries to extend kindness or foster a connection, the narcissist typically doesn’t respond in kind. Here’s why: 1.Control Over Compassion: Narcissists don’t want to be vulnerable or open to emotional depth with someone they envy because it puts them in a position of perceived weakness. Accepting genuine compassion would mean acknowledging their own flaws or insecurities, which conflicts with their need for control. 2.Destructive Intent: Rather than seeking resolution or understanding, the narcissist’s envy drives them to maintain dominance. They may even see the target’s attempts at friendship as patronizing or as an opportunity to manipulate further. The only way they feel satisfaction is by “winning” in their eyes—diminishing or overpowering the person they envy to soothe their fragile ego. 3.A Zero-Sum Game: For a narcissist, relationships and interactions are often seen as zero-sum games where only one person can come out on top. Compassion from the envied person may be twisted into a perceived challenge or a sign of condescension. Rather than creating a bridge, it can fuel their resentment and reinforce their intent to break the person down. Understanding this can be a hard reality, especially for genuinely compassionate people who wish to resolve conflict with empathy. However, knowing that the narcissist’s ultimate goal is control and dominance rather than mutual understanding is key to protecting oneself emotionally.

Narcissists are prone to feeling envy for the people who possess qualities they don’t, such as genuineness, compassion, and honesty, however, the narcissist will never admit envy but instead will seek to undermine or control the person they envy, typically employing a 2 part strategy of “attack and compare.” 1.- Covertly Breaking Down the Person: Narcissists may subtly undermine the person they envy, employing methods like backhanded compliments, covert criticism, or sabotaging the person’s success or accomplishments. This tactic serves to erode the target’s confidence and shift the power balance in the narcissist’s favor, allowing them to feel superior or less threatened. 2.Comparing Themselves to the Envied Person: To maintain their own sense of superiority or mitigate feelings of inadequacy, narcissists might draw comparisons between themselves and the person they envy. They might mimic the admired traits, behave as though they embody the same values, or even tell others they share similar qualities. They may suggest there is a “close competition“ between the two when they’re really isn’t. This dual strategy—breaking down the person while asserting a comparison—allows narcissists to diminish their envy-driven discomfort by convincing themselves and others that they are just as good, if not better. It’s a way of deflecting attention from their own shortcomings while manipulating their social image. Cont.

This is why you will hear narcissist accuse genuinely good people of “thinking you’re better than everyone“. That accusation is a classic projection move. When a narcissist says, “You think you’re better than everyone,” what they really mean is, “I feel inferior to you, and I can’t stand it.” It’s their way of flipping the script so your healthy self-worth looks like arrogance. That way, they can make your strengths sound like flaws and justify tearing you down. In their mind, if they can convince you—and everyone else—that your confidence is really conceit, they’ve leveled the playing field. It’s not about truth; it’s about erasing the difference between your genuine goodness and their own emptiness.

Malignant narcissists have a way of making even the kindest, healthiest people start to believe they’re bad. They’ll spot your best qualities—your kindness, your integrity, your calm—and twist them into flaws. Kindness becomes “manipulative.” Integrity becomes “self-righteous.” Calmness becomes “cold” or “uncaring.” They’ll keep poking and provoking you until you finally react, and the second you do, they hold it up as proof that you were never as good as you seemed. Then they repeat that message over and over, in different ways, until you start doubting yourself. Along the way, they work to isolate you so you have fewer people to remind you who you really are. And with the constant stress and self-doubt, you eventually feel so worn down that their version of you starts to feel more real than your own. That’s the real cruelty—not just convincing others you’re bad, but convincing you.

It’s not “cheating,” but it’s definitely not harmless either. Looking is normal. But when you’re with your partner and you’re openly checking someone out like she’s not even there, it crosses into disrespect. Because the issue isn’t the stranger walking by... it’s whether you still know how to act like you’re in a relationship.

One of the clearest signs of intelligent and strong people is that they carry pain with dignity. Even at their lowest, they are never haters.

You bitches have been stalking people for three years or more leave people alone — Bitch go find you something to do. No one is bothering you.

nothing brings me more joy than ignoring a man who played in my face and came back like i forgot.

Never forget the people who saw you having a hard time and chose to make it harder.

"How dare you ruin my reputation by telling people things I did and said." -Narcissist

Quand garçon t’aime façon il sait te prendre photo !!

PSA: Your KIDS Come FIRST!‼️‼️‼️‼️ They come before your Bf/Gf . They come before your friends. They come before partying. They come before drugs/alcohol. They come before your job. They come before money. They come before your car. They come before your own selfish wants, needs, desires, dreams. They come FIRST Point Blank Period!

people who repeat behaviour you already addressed really just saying fuck you to your face.

People really be mad at you for being right about them.

i actually believe some people gravitate toward you bc they see how everyone else gravitates toward you and they’re either plotting or hoping some of that swag transfers over but they don’t really like u or feel a natural gravitation like everyone else so they’re annoyed by you