Gerhard Fanta (True Man)

in my darkest hours i chose drive the will to live the will to create the will to conquer for i never knew anything else now i know G-D and he told me to double down on Yes to life, calmly

@YOHAMI the rockport bot misses the yohami-skibdi-classics. i need this as a short, 40 sec video with yohami and irren with huge tits.

Really good

@baltic_dan theres always room to complain

You don’t know how good you have it until things get worse

ちっちゃくてカワイイひなちゃん🐥 動画は主人公家族とは別のワタリアホウドリさん親子です。何か言いたげなひなちゃんに親鳥さんがクチバシで優しくタッチ。 ひなちゃんの鳴き声も可愛らしいですね💕 📹 Jess Callaghan

why is this laptop full of oil

@lightin_mind @YOHAMI yeah sexual relationship is to an extend child-father, thats why they call you "daddy"

2) She goes cold. Short replies. Less energy than before. She's pulling away. Disengaging too early, cultural thing? 20) She's acting like a boss. Takes initiative. Makes bold moves. Super empowered. Why discomfort? 24) She's asking for your opinion on something personal. She wants your judgment. This is one of your main activities when you're together. 24 is the wtf? Your grief will never end. 1) she doesn't know you 2) she doesn't trust herself 3) You have a child-father relationship if there is no end date.

THE SEX DANCE Dating has nothing to do with dating. Your woman problems have nothing to do with women. You don't have to control your interactions, don't have to control people, and don't have to fear. When relationships feel like work, it means you didn't do the work prior, you're out of role, you're out of self. The relationship shows you what it's missing. The relationship is the mirror that reveals the cost of your no-work. But it's not the place to put in the work. Your work is self development. The relationship is mirror. The magnetic positions. The sexual screening, the dance, is both of you displaying your polarity, your oscillation, until they snap together You Above, She Below - The natural magnetic position - Polarity is maximized: you input/lead/propose/create, she receives/opens/judges/follows - You don't control her — you lead and she's free to follow, or not - When she goes soft/vulnerable, you fill the space and escalate - When she tests/pulls away, you don't chase or collapse — you stay centered or redirect - Natural pull, sexual tension, magic works without forcing it You Above, She Above - Two arrows in space, unglued, pointing in different directions, competing, matching, debating, escalating friction - High energy, intense chemistry, "explosive" — but no reception, no following, no hunger created. - Common in high-achieving, strong-willed people - Passionate but has nowhere to go as it can't move forward without deviating - nobody is there to appreciate, receive, follow You Below, She Above - Reversed polarity: She leads, you provide services, hints, you follow and seek her approval - This is where "nice guys", helper-type men try to operate in. They chase, fix, over-give, and feel anxious when she pulls away - If she briefly goes softer and below, you panic because there's nobody to lead - Sooner or later her expansive state turns into shrink, collapsing and destroying the relationship without you having tools to stop it You Below, she Below - Two pillows, stalling and eating the spark until there's nothing. Emptiness squared - You and her both in receptive/feminine energy: matching softness, mutual service, no leadership = Feels "safe" and "compatible" at first ("we're so similar!"), but builds quiet resentment. No one initiates, no sexual spark, slow fade. Nobody to re-create the spark, no innovation, just stallment - Common in people with similar wounds avoiding confrontation or leadership - You two wish the other was completely different The pre-script. Find your self through KU/NO, adopt your proper polarity and orientation, and let magic do the work. As a man your polarity is in KU. As a woman her polarity is in NO. A man with KU dominant polarity is universally attractive - to all women in NO polarity. A man with dominant KU, in Above frame is universally Magnetic. The magnetism is strong enough to re-arrange everyone else's. It's miracle. FIND YOURSELF: THE SEX DANCE Find who you're being, and who you're being with. 1) She sends you a soft, vulnerable message. Something personal. She's going Below. A) You like this. You fill in the space and lead the interaction somewhere new. B) You push back. You prefer when she's more energetic and engaged, where has the competitive fun gone? C) You feel anxious. This is not the person you knew. D) Amazing. You go softer yourself. You match her vulnerability. Two people melting at each other. 2) She goes cold. Short replies. Less energy than before. She's pulling away. A) You lose interest. If she's not here she's not here. You move on with your day. B) You go colder. Game on. The first to flinch loses. C) You assume you did something wrong. What can you do to make her go warmer? D) This is not ok. You guilt trip and confront her. This is a problem that must be resolved. 3) She takes charge. Makes the plan, books the restaurant, tells you where to be. She's going Above. A) You let her do it - but this is not her role. Once at the place you take the lead and let her relax. B) You match her energy. Counter-propose. Counter plan. Fuck it you both can have your own fun and meet there. C) You feel relieved. Finally she's doing something. You follow gratefully and completely. D) You feel irritated, she should have consulted first. You try to undermine the plan subtly. 4) She says something dismissive or challenging with a "better than you" attitude. A) You stay exactly where you are and knock her out of that ridiculous position, she laughs. B) This is pure foreplay. Match and increase and hope she doesn't back down. C) You feel stung, think of what you have to say to "pass" and gain back her approval. D) You take offense and go cold. She's gonna have to explain this behavior later. 5) She's warm, laughing, asking questions, submissive and merry. A) You lead deeper. You escalate. You take the opening she's creating. B) You create some friction to keep it interesting. C) You're relieved but also disoriented. Wonder how long this can last. D) You're also warm, laughing and asking questions back. Life is good. 6) She flirts hard. Tells you're the hottest man. She wants you to take her somewhere else now. A) You take her home. Maybe somewhere closer, improvised. B) You want to out-flirt her. You're not that type. This is not done. C) You're aroused but intimidated. Can't fully trust yet. Is she for real? D) Too intense. Something is wrong. Maybe you need to get more drunk. 7) She asks what you want. From her. From this. Just name it and you can have it. A) You tell her exactly what you want. B) You misdirect her. C) You try to guess the type of response she's waiting for. D) You're just trying to see where things go and this type of question feels like forcing it. 8) She's visibly upset about something else. A) You hear her out and have her return to a stable ground. B) You're also upset about something else. Who does she think she is to monopolize the interaction. C) You drop everything to be whoever she needs right now to feel better. D) You feel uncomfortable. You offer generic advice but try to move past it quickly. 9) She ignores your message for longer than usual. A) You wonder what's up, barely registers. B) You send something sharp or funny to make her come back to you. C) You replay in your head everything you've said that could have caused this situation. D) You go crazy triple texting and coming up with betrayal scenarios that fit the timeline. 10) She pushes back on something you said. She insists you're wrong. A) You consider it genuinely. If she's right you say so. If she's not you hold your position cleanly. B) You engage it. You like the friction. You debate hard. Two people competing to be right. C) You capitulate immediately. You don't want conflict to cost you anything. D) You agree outwardly and stew inwardly. You bring it up sideways three days later. 11) She does something thoughtful and caring for you. Unprompted. A) You love it. Reward her. B) You flip the situation around trying to find out where the trap may be. C) You feel overwhelmed with gratitude. You give back twice as much as soon as you can. D) You're very happy but also a little suspicious about what they may be hiding. 12) You're feeling appreciative, do something thoughtful for her to show her that you care. A) She soften and opens more. She reciprocates two fold. B) She doesn't really receive it. Soon you're onto the next ruse. C) She receives it like it's the bare minimum and you're a dog who just performed the expected trick. D) She mirrors it back. She does something thoughtful for you. You could be doing this forever. 13) You state what you want directly. You lead. A) She's happily following your lead before you've finished speaking. B) No. She tells YOU what she wants. She leads. C) She goes cold immediately. This is going to take a while to restore to normal. D) She becomes awkward. She's not going to cry but needs some time space to breath. 14) You're really busy with your own life and pull back from the relationship. A) She's really worried about what's going on, wants to talk. B) She doubles your distance. Breaks it with random texts then disappears again. C) You feel guilty and re-initiate. You can't hold the distance. D) She becomes colder and uses any time you're together to punish you. 15) You want something specific, tell her exactly what that is. A) This is just another Tuesday. B) You may get it if you negotiate hard enough and the scars are worth it. C) You soften that immediately. Offer option B. Then option C. Well whatever she wants may work as well. D) You actually said something else, much smaller. How she reacts to this tells you everything. 16) She finds something more fun to do, she cancels plans last minute. A) This is extremely out of character, you keep an eye on it. B) Ha-Ha you had made other plans already. But who are we kidding you'll end up together at the end of the night somehow. C) This hurts, specially after everything you've done for her. You expect the bare minimum of appreciation. D) You don't know who this person is but it's not the person you know. This may be over. 17) You're in the bar together, she's laughing and having a great time with other people you don't know. A) You're also having fun with other people she doesn't know, you'll catch up and be together later. B) You just this is just to piss you off. You'll get your pound of flesh but first hold my beer. C) You hover. You try to insert yourself. You need to be included. D) You watch and feel resentment. Why is she never having this much fun with you. 18) She becomes emotionally needy. She wants reassurance. A) You give her real reassurance. Everything is good. B) Back off bitch. C) You give her everything she needs and more. This shows you how much she cares and proves everything you've done was worth it. D) Here we go again. What about your own need for reassurance?? 19) She questions your plan. Questions the restaurant, the time, the activity. A) You pause and tell her to shut up and follow your lead. That or speak her mind if she's got a better plan. B) You question her questioning. C) You knew it was a bad idea to do this on your own. Next time you'll confirm with her first. D) Sadly this is all you both do. Which is how you'll end up tonight watching Netflix without talking to each other. 20) She's acting like a boss. Takes initiative. Makes bold moves. Super empowered. A) This is both inspiring and somewhat discomforting. Maybe your job here is done. B) You really like this about her, the problem is she's just doing it to piss you off. C) This is why you love her. You'll follow this woman until the day you die. D) Real ick. Who is she trying to impress? 21) You've been giving a lot. Time, attention, energy. She's taking and not giving back. A) You know you somehow got lost. Time for some alone-time and reorientation. Won't take long. B) That's what you thought. You can't force her to give by giving. You must take what you need. C) You give more. You work harder. You will overwhelm her until what you've done for her is undeniable. D) You both oscillate between those extremes and somehow can never get in sync about it. 22) She disrespects you in front of others. A) You delay the push back because you do care for her, but this is the last time it ever happens. B) Disrespect back and harder, BECAUSE you like her. You both feel alive like this. C) She wouldn't do this if she didn't love you. Besides that, she's right. You could have done better. D) You say nothing in the moment. This will take many weeks to heal. 23) You met her just a minute ago, she's already warm and receptive, looks at you like expecting something. A) Things feel correct. You lead forward wherever that may be. B) You wonder if she knows how to box. C) You match her state and see where it goes. Wait for a signal. D) Somehow this is already going too fast. 24) She's asking for your opinion on something personal. She wants your judgment. A) This is one of your main activities when you're together. B) Sure then you want the same from her. But who gives a fuck about her opinion. And you know whatever you tell her she'll do the opposite. C) This is amazing. You give her precise instructions on how to solve the situation. Hope she listens. D) We always do this but then nobody does anything. What's the point. 25) You're reading this and recognizing your pattern. A) You already knew. You're just finding out it had a name. B) You have notes. You want to debate the framework. Find out what it's made of. C) You felt uncomfortable reading the C answers because you recognized yourself. If this is wrong what is love? does love exist at all? D) You recognized the D answers and felt a quiet resentment reading them. SCOREBOARD Count your A, B, C, and D answers. Mostly A — You Above, she Below. The correct magnetic position. You initiate, lead, receive, and hold the frame without managing it. When she goes Below you expand. When she goes Above you redirect. When you go Below she follows. The magic works because you're not trying to make it work. The question now is whether you're finding women in the correct Below polarity or running the above frame into women who aren't available for it. The position is right. Find the right dance partner. Mostly B — She Above, you Above. Two arrows. The energy is real and the connection is intense but nothing is receiving anything. You match, mirror, compete, engage — but nobody is following and nobody is leading with anyone going Below. This produces explosive relationships that go nowhere or burn out fast. You're attracted to strength and repelled by softness. The work is not to become less Above. It's to let someone go Below without pulling them back up. The softness is not weakness. It's the thing that makes the polarity work. Mostly C — You Below, she Above. You're in the feminine position. You provide, hint, follow, and hope that service converts to attraction. It doesn't. The women who stay in this dynamic stay for the service not the man. When she goes Below you punish her for removing the thing you depend on. When she goes Above you follow gratefully. The work is not to stop being generous. It's to lead first and be generous from Above. Fix the position. Then come back to the relationship. Mostly D — You Below, she Below. Nobody is initiating. Nobody is receiving. When she goes Below you go soft or controlling. When she goes Above you feel wrong but can't name why. The connection fades slowly under a growing quiet resentment. This feels like compatibility — two people who don't push each other — but it's actually two people with the same wound finding each other and calling it safety. The work is to move first. Once. From the correct position. See what she does with it. (extract from KU/NO: Chapter 05 PLAY TO WIN)

@YOHAMI good stuff. though the c)-end is "youre fanta and waiting for yo to slip up so that you can critique him". only thing where i would deviate from a) is sudden disinterest/coldness. the longer the relationship, the more id tend to asking whats up/figuring out. watcha think?

“And finally he speaks: ‘Let the one among you who is guiltless be the first to throw a stone at her!’ Why the first stone? Because it's the key. The one who throws it has nobody to imitate. There's nothing easier than imitating an example that's already been provided. Providing that example yourself is something altogether different. The crowd is mimetically mobilized, but there's one threshold it still has to cross, the threshold of real violence. If someone threw the first stone, there would immediately be a shower of stones. By drawing attention to the first stone, Jesus's words reinforce the final obstacle to stoning.” — René Girard

@YOHAMI im a sensitive young man longing for real connection instead of superficial trickery

Proof that everyone can find someone so what's your excuse.

@baltic_dan i am one of them.

@gerhardfanta I could use a few more Dan Baltics

Often imitated, never duplicated: Dan Baltic

@deftone20e 👀

return to observing

@Hollyjeeny the foid yearns for washing things with hands

My mum got me a beautiful Icelandic wool knit for my birthday, and every time I hand wash it in the sink, kneading and wringing, I feel very in touch with my ancestors

@jollygoodlyfe @YOHAMI @jdpaul78 @dicey_nickel @IrrenWirr 🤔

@gerhardfanta @YOHAMI @jdpaul78 @dicey_nickel @IrrenWirr

"Drop the BG" "Don't react" Upgrade. Be the silence.

@takuyaokamoto22 @koyama_taiga_ @Photographer__7 this hella slaps as a nigga might say

パーカッションが加わると… Gismonti - Frevo in Tokyo Metropolitan Festival Hall guest Taiga Koyama (percussion) @koyama_taiga_ sound and video by Kotaro Sato @Photographer__7

you niggas are so lazy, not even a frame analysis. you dont even take this stuff seriously @jollygoodlyfe @YOHAMI

this guy dominates the room with his shiny head. frame analysis @jollygoodlyfe @YOHAMI?

most of my young adult life has been trying to fix retarded bullshit "society" promised to me but fucked up. i still am in the same process. for anyone who still can, there needs to be a break-away from current boomer-society. otherwise you will die and be used as fuel meanwhile

@bimpnus i think we radically have to redo "society" and ditch a lot of ideas. its like some guy who manages a company and gets a heart attack by doing it. currently, its old people eating the young, everybody is sick and retarded, stuff doesnt work anymore. we need a new life.

Are we ready to become the ghost stories immigrants will tell their grandchildren about in some village 100 years from now? Please spill it if you actually have a solution, that will actually work, that isn’t what I just said. If you think there is a middle ground my long term bet is that your bloodline will most likely no longer be white within a very short amount of time relative to resent history. Up to you. But you can imagine what it would feel like when your grand children are not welcome into whatever kind of Agartha the last white people will be building.

@bimpnus im not sure if is so clear-cut. might be that the immigratns also die out and the actual problem is the life-style. you know, society is too much. there is too much to maintain, to work on, you cant even have a normal life and a normal family anymore.