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Look online: there are pages teaching young men how to text a lady, how to talk to a girl, how to ask her out, how to be confident around women, and how to satisfy a woman. There’s literally a niche educating men on women’s psychology and bodies. But still online, on the other hand, you’ll see a whole niche indoctrinating women into solipsism, detachment, and the worst possible personality - nothing on male psychology or how to be with men.
“Women-only gym,” “women’s-only canteen,” “women are not initiators,” “if he doesn’t, don’t blah blah,” “if he cannot, don’t blah blah.”
At the end of the day, men learn how to be with women, and women never learn how to be with men.
And because the motivation for men to be with women is, majorly and naturally, sexual, men get women, f*ck women, and lose the fog right after that. With that, the woman’s presence - which was never fun but made fun by the man’s pressing need to ejaculate - becomes irritating right after ejaculation.
But this becomes a cycle, and it stays a cycle. Because the woman, in that instant, and being naturally allergic to accountability, interprets that event as the man being evil and “just after sex,” and never sees it as her not being fun to be with for any other reason but sex. So next time, with the next guy, she plays harder to get. But men stay educated on how to get women, and they do so. The woman falls again, gets f*cked, and gets the same post-sex attitude from another guy. At that point, she generalizes her experience: “all men are evil and deserve to die.” It never dawns on her to look inward.
Naturally, a woman cannot bring herself to reflect and hold herself accountable and, thus, be better. And socially, she’s conditioned to see the responsibility to be better as solely the man’s.
So, Men come online and see on their social media feeds stuff like “how to do X with women,” “how to satisfy a woman,” “how to make her fall for you,” and are immediately reminded that they can do better. This is not the same for women.
Women stay illiterate on her to be with men. And women complain about men being cold around women. These are the problems.
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“Men, why are you always so happy when you are with your guys, but act nonchalant or cold when you are with your woman?”- Lady asks
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