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tbh id feel turned off. jauhi cowok yang bermudah-mudahan kayak gini, they are not even trying. jadi cewek juga jangan denial dan polos-polos amat lah. women around me do judge men who are interested in them based on their account. their following-to-followers ratio, what kind of accounts they follow, whether they follow strangers with sensual content, their interaction patterns with the opposite gender, and what kind of content they are interested in. kalau kayak gini ya based on algorithm, algoritma itu ngikutin kebiasaan usernya, bukan kebetulan ya, makin sering engage, makin banyak muncul. kadang temenku cerita soal pasangannya yang behaviornya kayak gini sambil nangis-nangis, bikin resah dan questioning her self-worth. this kind of pattern doesnt just affect trust, it slowly affects how a woman sees herself. jadi bukan hal kecil atau sekadar “ah cuma fyp lewat doang”. menurut gue ini juga related sama kebiasaan, self control, dan respect ke pasangan. udah micro cheating masuknya lol.
at the end of the day, you cant control the algorithm, but you can control your habits, and habits reflect your values. i dont think men like this are worth destroying your peace over 🤡
Tanyarlfes@tanyarlfes
💚 guys gen ask. fyp cowoku sering muncul VT cewe dengan pd besar. pengakuan cowoku, dia ngga stalk tapi TikTok munculin sendiri. menurut kalian gimana? aku pribadi jujur ragu kalau dia ga stalk. aku no hate ke ciwi ciwi di gambar yaa🫰🏼🫰🏼
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Terlepas dari gaji cewenya besar atau engga, gue mau menekankan sesuatu disini… cowo tuh kadang (or most of the time) suka lupa (atau simply ignorant aja) kalo manusia yg mau dijadikan pasangan hidupnya itu bukan “entitas kosong”.
Ada kultur, pendidikan, pengalaman, keluarga, lingkungan sosial, dll yg ngebentuk si cewe shg lu bisa ketemu dia dan memutuskan utk menikahi dia skrg.
Lu gabisa meremehkan itu. It takes her lifetime supaya dia bisa jadi versinya skrg.
Consider it as a reminder to you. Good luck.
Tanyarl 💚@tanyakanrl
💚 udah 2 thn pacaran & ad kepikiran nikah. ak wiraswasta & ceweku swasta. kl nikah, rencanany cewe resign & pindah ke kupang ikut aku. tp syarat dr dia hrs ngasi bulanan sm kek gaji dia (puluhan juta). ak bkn org yg sering spending gede, jujur berat, mnrut kalian gmna?
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@whOopsyouu kak aku beli dijepang langsung aja yg paling murah harganya 900an 😭
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