@theralkia Ive been following you for a long time why did i think your name was normal guy !!!! The fuck, its nornal guy and ive only noticed this now i feel bamboozled
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Sorry babe can’t talk need to do my morning hour of breath of fire
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when that person is yourself >>>>>
۟@filmfae
the concept of someone loving everything that’s wrong with you
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It's super important to not just villainize others for this completely because they went after what they wanted and it's your turn to learn how to do so as well. Guided by your morals and ethics, hopefully, but you are the one that needs to learn when to move and when to stop
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not, but it's not a crime. The people pleasers need to take command of their own pov and advocate for themselves and deal with the repercussions that follow. Whether you cut those people off or enforce your boundaries, you can't expect them to manage this for you. Be strong!
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I think this is the lesson people pleasers need to learn though because it's very logical that other people are going to advocate for whatever works for their benefit. It's the whole point of having a people pleaser next to you to begin with. This can be done out of malice or +
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there’s this other side of that where people literally Do Not allow people pleasers to change bc they feel good around them. and so they end up facing animosity for enforcing extremely normal boundaries that doesn’t get respected until there is pushback from the people pleaser.
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@shrili_ @Alcyyyone And we get really anxious when we are forced to see someone acting out of place yes out of place its not part of the script and this is very unconscious and takes alot of inner work
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@shrili_ @Alcyyyone I also dislike air signs cause if the narrative they have in their heads is set in stone it takes alot for us to undo that because it took us a long time to profile you basically
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Scorpio plays the social game very very well, and is good at being exactly the person that they are expected to be, which makes air signs feel very close to them, because air signs literally think of human connection as a set of predictable interactions, LMAO
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@JadedCourtz Even more reason to be glad its over, cowards always hurt everyone around them
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@Alcyyyone @shrili_ Having aqua sun complicates things though because i do have certain narratives that I've caught on with time. I think scorpios happy go lucky defense is also their downfall cause when they are serious, hurt it seems out of place and becomes a never ending cycle causing isolation
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@Alcyyyone @shrili_ As a mars AK in jyeshta dont realize how scary i come off and i do think we can be manipulative but its unconscious and sometimes forcefully jarring, i see it when i get closer to other scorpios but i just think they are intense
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@full_moonbb Thats how they learn and thats what suppression does it explodes sadly they'll have learn and mostly when that happens i drop them so they find balance or they become sociopaths up to them not my business
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It’s truly such an annoyance of mine…that’s great that you finally feel empowered, but deal with your shit before you start throwing it at the fan.
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When people are passive for so long and then suddenly they grow a pair and start “standing up for themselves” it’s always a trainwreck at first bc there’s a *learning curve* to it, and they come out the gate being mean, bitter, & misdirecting their anger.
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Never hide from yourself
Look at your own psychological depths without fear, don’t be a wimp
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Me and the boys transmute the worst days of our lives into the best days of our lives
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People who dont want you to defend yourself wanna kill you btw
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