Dami.
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Dami.
@he_is_unique
Software Engineer trying to figure out life. 📖 This month: Supercommincators by Charles Duhigg





Let me address some foolish and myopic comments I saw under this tweet; “Oyibo women full where you dey” 🤡 “Why are you abroad and looking for girls in Nigeria?” 🤡 “What happens to the Nigerian, Asian, and Caucasian girls in your new location?” 🤡 It’s amazing how someone who hasn’t crossed Seme border thinks that once you travel abroad, you can dangle your preeq on the streets of Vienna and boom, one oyibo woman will just love you and you’ll get married and live happily ever. 😂😂😂 You’re just a clown 🤡 and an ignorant fool. Only a few out of 100 black guys (which includes other African guys) get to meet a white lady and they end up getting married and having a stable home. You guys think these white women have the same ideology about dating and marriage like we do? You can be talking to a white lady and everything’s rosy and the next morning, she’s no longer interested and she doesn’t give a damn. You’ll just be there confused. And lastly, I’m definitely marrying a Nigerian girl. If you like cry from now till tomorrow.



Hey senior African engineers, what are your best tips for building modular monoliths.


this guy didn’t say anything bad he was just wrong, instead of raining insults and making him feel inferior why don’t you just use that energy to correct him





@Benn_X1 This is a problem that is everywhere, and have been solved with solutions easily accessible for any worthwhile company. There's an onboarding and learning phase for a reason, any company complaining about this is just masking their hiring process problems.


Let me clarify this. The likes of Moniepoint, Cowrywise, and other companies within that niche are heavily fintech-focused systems, especially around payments. Now here’s what people don’t know, and I honestly don’t care if it triggers anyone: you can be a backend engineer and still not be employable in those companies. Why? There’s something called specialization. You’ll hardly see companies like these put out a role and simply say “Backend Engineer.” And even if they do, once you read the description properly, you’ll see things like: “Experience in payment infrastructure/payment gateways required.” Now the real question you should ask yourself is: Do I actually have solid experience in this specific area they need? If the answer is no, then there’s no reason to get emotional about it. You’re simply not employable based on their current needs. Again, there are lots of backend engineers, but only a few with real areas of specialization. Some companies need backend engineers specialized in: - payment infrastructure - streaming systems - distributed systems - security/authentication systems - data engineering & high-scale processing So I guess that’s where I’m coming from. But again, was the Moniepoint CEO right? I’d say he could have broken it down better by saying they’re struggling to find engineers with the exact specialized experience they require.



it’s funny how many people haven’t yet realized they write software as a trauma response





