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rue the defender
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rue the defender
@helloimrue19
certified pretty princess, loser of the highest order
she/they Katılım Kasım 2021
34 Takip Edilen8 Takipçiler
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Sacrifices what exactly?
Unmarried man: works 9-5.
Married man: works 9-5.
Prateekaaryan 𝕏@AaryanPrateekX
A mom cooking and taking care of the family is considered “unpaid labor.” A dad sacrificing everything for his family? Apparently, that’s just his duty.
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@TheChelby Yeah... the total population includes children...
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If you open the field to all men with no standards, it says that only 79% of men meet the criteria. They're specifically trying to get you to lower your standards. Don't.
𝑺𝒑𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 🇪🇸@larpingtons
theres no way it’s that low. i wasn’t even being picky wtf..
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@KathiThayeidada @Inkjoyblueagain work by choice? in this economy?? where tf are you living
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@Inkjoyblueagain Unmarried women - Do a job , pay rent , pay for car, drive yourself, cook and clean. Bumble for sex which will become a ghosting exercise after 35.
Married women - work by choice , cook and clean, look after kids, enjoy motherhood.
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@gogurtfc @Inkjoyblueagain so by “sacrificing everything” they mean doing the job they were already doing and using that money to pay for the children they chose to have…
yeah sounds rough
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@Inkjoyblueagain unmarried men dont have to provide for other people smarty pants
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@ZxG_09 @Inkjoyblueagain breaking : women don’t immediately become unemployed once married
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@Inkjoyblueagain Unmarried women: cooks and cleans and also has to have a job to provide for herself.
Married woman: cooks and cleans. Depends on husband for rest. Where's the sacrifice?
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@Yherevan @Fenox530 @salmatrifen is there a reason you can’t type out a full sentence?
trust who you want, if you’re afraid of having a child the safest thing to do is protect yourself
i think you’re being intentionally dense
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Oui et les preservatifs sont gratuits en pharmacie
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@Fenox530 @salmatrifen if you’re that scared of having a child, then both partners should use their own form of bc
besides the woman potentially lying, things can always go wrong with either condoms or the pill and it’s better to be 100% safe
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@helloimrue19 @salmatrifen Why would someone not trust his partner about that ?
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@Yherevan @Fenox530 @salmatrifen 😭😭 im very obviously saying if you don’t trust a woman enough to trust that she is taking her pill when she says she is then just wear a condom or don’t sleep with her
i can’t believe you need this explaining to you lmaoo
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@Fenox530 @salmatrifen so if you don’t trust her wear a condom anyway?
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@salmatrifen L'hypocrisie d'agir comme si la femme ne peut pas te la mettre à l'envers, en te disant qu'elle prends la pilule alors que non
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@samkn3n we did years of education on the colonisation of the america’s and the genocide of the natives, but i think a lot of people just weren’t listening and didn’t care so pretend they never learnt about it
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i was personally taught about britains colonial history and i think a lot of other brits were but say they weren't for some reason.
wesa🔞🍉🪶@wesakisses
just heard someone from the UK talk abt how they didnt learn about their history of colonization, so they ended up learning about it via other people talking abt it. is that true??? 😭cus then it makes way more sense why british ppl look down on the US so much
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@J_TheExplorer @hermetic_honey so you made a completely baseless assumption that has no grounding in the conversation at hand? okay lmao
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@helloimrue19 @hermetic_honey My OG comment was exactly about the dynamics of the relationship. And you chose to reply to my one instead replying to the one out of "what everyone else is talking about".
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This is so dumb. Unless you believe all women should abstain from heterosexual sex, which even if that might be ideal, most won’t, you’re leaving women vulnerable to pregnancy and all that comes with it which is EVEN WORSE. This rhetoric MUST be a psy op to get women pregnant
s@damer444
If you take birth control so that a man can cum inside you, youre a slave
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@J_TheExplorer @hermetic_honey i think it’s disingenuous to say that this conversation is about hookups instead of committed relationships.
i would say myself it’s irresponsible and potentially dangerous to take the pill for non committed relationships but that’s not what anyone is talking about
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@helloimrue19 @hermetic_honey I would rather see women not taking poison in order to sleep with men who are not committed or reliable.
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@ustadgrgharison @hermetic_honey @pinkmemoirss “just use a condom” as if the pill isn’t both more effective and free (at least where i live)
also these are side effects that are regularly checked up on by a doctor whenever you go to get a top up, if you’re experiencing anything wrong you’re told to change meds or stop
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@hermetic_honey @pinkmemoirss The benefits of bc= your bf doesnt
want to use condoms
The costs= nausea, blood clots, bloating, headaches etc etc.
A womans pain is completely normalised that people think bc is completely harmless and worth it. Just use a condom bro.
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@J_TheExplorer @hermetic_honey there are so many reasons women take pill.
if you hate men and never want to have sex with one then you do you, but shaming women for taking their reproductive health into their own hands is not productive or helpful, would you rather they rely on less effective methods?
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@hermetic_honey So you're taking poison in order to satisfy men who don't care about you at all?
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@helloimrue19 @babel96384805 @hollowearthterf Why would you sleep with someone that doesn’t care whether you get pregnant or even an STD? Condoms are the only way to prevent diseases, esp when we’re talking about sex outside of a relationship.
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Starting to think liberal feminism wasn’t that bad because these women are just taking the long way to misogyny and are making the same arguments as incels. The normie women who girlbossed and took their birth control and got married to a guy who does more childcare than his father and grandfather did are doing a lot more for womenkind actually. This individual is one step away from referring to women as cum dumpsters
s@damer444
If you take birth control so that a man can cum inside you, youre a slave
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@babel96384805 @hollowearthterf i get your point but surely this is just more evidence that women should take the pill? men don’t care about bc as much because they don’t have to deal with the consequences if it goes wrong, so surely men taking a pill would have the same problems?
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@hollowearthterf the failure rate of condoms can be almost entirely attributed to human error. this is because the human using the condom doesn't actually care
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@horndog019 @xctypk @damer444 yesss you’re so right! a women should totally go through the trauma of an abortion instead of taking the pill! let’s tell them they’re a slave to men for taking the most affordable and reliable form of bc! #feminism
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@keonsene @maddieaf6 @khyeai @T4LKINGTOMY23LF yes love because americans aren’t oppressing us, it’s just jokes that are in poor taste, which is what everyone is criticising!
it’s impossible to have a discussion about this if you’re unwilling to try to understand the discourse at hand
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@helloimrue19 @maddieaf6 @khyeai @T4LKINGTOMY23LF because it’s BS😭😭 americans stereotyping brits is not a problem at all actually bc if they magically stopped making fun of britain, the working class are still gonna be fucking poor. u don’t actually care abt poor brits you just want to be in the right
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a lot of the stereotypical hate to things in british culture boils down to classism
iggie@iggie404
a lot of "British food bad" boils down to classism
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@keonsene @maddieaf6 @khyeai @T4LKINGTOMY23LF there will always be worse problems in the world, if you operate like that nothing ever gets discussed or solved.
it’s very clear you don’t comprehend what either of us are trying to say
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@maddieaf6 @helloimrue19 @khyeai @T4LKINGTOMY23LF “we’re” and im literally from london😭😭 this is honestly so embarrassing there’s ppl that literally have to escape their home countries due to war, discrimination, climate change and ur crying bc americans made fun of ur teeth😭 actually get a fucking grip ur not oppressed
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