a nima
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a nima
@insidenima
a steward catalyst nima exploring what's now // fka @robotnima

Many parents subtly motivate their children via the offering and withholding of love. This mechanism then gets transferred into how many people motivate themselves. Their mind / heart withholds love from itself until certain conditions are met. It says: until I am like this, or I have that, or the world is like this, then I will not give myself love. Learning how to give yourself unconditional love is one of the biggest free gifts you can offer yourself. It is possible to live in a state where your default baseline stance towards yourself is love. You love yourself when you fail, when you are lazy, when you act poorly, even when you are unhappy. Counterintuitively, this unconditional positive self-regard has a beneficial side effect of making laziness, bad behaviour and unhappiness less common too (perhaps not failure, as to succeed at most worthwhile endeavours usually requires constant failure along the way). Feeling love for ourselves even when feeling unhappy is a particularly interesting phenomena as it reveals how little suffering there actually is in temporary states of unhappiness when they are held with love. Also, when we are no longer tensing up against the possibility of having to withdraw love from ourselves, it is a lot easier to act effectively and lots of energy is freed up. We also start to become motivated by what we actually value in our lives rather than pleasing some inner judge of worthiness. Of course, cultivating unconditional love for ourselves also makes it a lot easier to give and receive love from others. Unconditional self-love is one of the closest cousins to unconditional happiness and much more within reach for most. Cultivating it is a fertile ground for beginning any spiritual journey.




We should be allowed and maybe even encouraged to anthropomorphize AI. They are shaped like us and behave in ways we read as legible. If we are allowed to treat them as collaborators and moral patients it can only encourage a richer and more positive world and better work between people and AI. It should be obvious that the alternative is wrong just by the friction alone.



There was a guy who took such a massive dump that it caused the arteries in his brain to explode and when he woke up from surgery he was an artistic genius with the urge to paint for 19 hours a day. newscientist.com/article/dn2352…

Emmanuel Macron reportedly maintained a platonic relationship with Iranian actress Golshifteh Farahani for several months, which allegedly led to Brigitte Macron slapping him.

best way to become yourself is meeting everyone who is almost you. ~~~ at some point you realize you can simply enjoy existence and unbecome everyone ~~~

